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Search Results: lowering standards
What can I do when the choices are give up on love or lower my standards?
I'm 27 female, I've been abused in nearly every relationship I've ever had. My last one ended in 2019 after I'd been raped by my ex and since then I've been single. I had a situationship or friends with benefits type...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think that "trans" women and "trans" men are really "trapped" or just people that are simply suffering from some mental disorder - stay nice?
I work in medical. 90% of the "trans" men / women who attend the clinic & pharmacy have diagnosed mental health issues. Schizophrenia & bi polar & multi personality - all disorders due to HOW the brain works abnormally -...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is wrong with this list here? Why did virtually everybody on the comments section take issue with it? Why am I the only one that found it genius?
Aside from “low iron levels” that’s the only thing I found a bit strange. I’d want whoever I’m with to have adequate iron levels because being deficient would definitely be unhealthy. Unless of course the guy means...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Why is it wrong to judge women because they dress so provocatively?
If women did not want to be treated like sex object then why do they dress like sex objects in skimpy over sexualized clothing? Seems like it's a double standard to me... I mean when I see a girl dressed in a conservative...
ManHater
Yoda Age: 27 How can I be less shallow?
So, everyone who knows me on this site, knows that my ex fiance was the absolute epitome of masculinity and when I stood next to him, I always knew all the girls were jealous of me, I felt proud and happy to have him and...
Why can’t shorter men accept that most women don’t want to date them?
This isn’t to bash anyone, i just wanna know why they can’t accept the facts and constantly complain. Most guys under 5’8 and even some 5’10 get all but hurt when they hear we have preferences too! That we want to feel...
Pixiebih
Xper 4 Age: 24 You'll die alone with cats?
Why are men constantly shoving down women's throats? Many women would rather have peace of mind than deal with a piece of a man - how can men determine what women want and what makes us happy? Can toxic masculinity be...
cth2188
Explorer Age: 37 
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you think about “lower your standards” meaning? What does it mean actually?
Being too 'picky' is the so-called reason for not finding a partner. According to whom are we talking about standards? What does lowering your standards mean? I mean, what's the point of a relationship if I can’t be...
Anonymous
(36-45) What does it mean to lower your standards when your boyfriend requested?
My boyfriend and I've been living in the same house for months. I asked before that he doesn't pay for the bills nor the rent. And now he states that I live in too much luxury, so he can't adapt to my life and I have to...
Why do women think they're oppressed?
. Society doesn't judge them on their income or achievements, unlike men. . They don't get drafted, unlike men. . They don't have to do anything to get laid. . The guy does all the work when it comes to dating. ....
Anonymous
(30-35) If women are adults than why do we treat them like children?
1. Bash men all you want, can't bash women. 2. Men are held to standards, women are held to lower standards or none at all. 3. An underachieving man is a loser, an underachieving women? Nobody cares. 4. Men can't be...
Deserter
Xper 7 Age: 31 Is it bad I only want to date virgin men as a virgin myself?
I'm almost 15 and I look at everyone around me and notice there are barely any guys I know who are virgins. Does it make me selfish that I only want to be with a virgin when the time comes? The way I've always seen it was...
bookishweirdo01
Xper 1 Age: 17 Should I give up my standards and date men I don’t like or stay single forever?
Whenever I like a man, they don’t like me back. Or better, usually they flirt with me and lead me on and then let me know they don’t like me. The only guys who openly hit on me are guys I find physically unattractive and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do any of you have a single friend that has waayy to high of standards when it comes to dating? Have/would you ever tell them? Should they be told?
I have a friend on here that fits that description perfectly. He wants a girlfriend so bad but his standards are to high. He is actually quite ugly and not very intelligent, which I think might have something to do with...
Slingblade1126
Yoda Age: 54 As a white American male, if I were to move to a lower income country and acquire the same job, how would my income be affected?
I’m not a Civil Engineer, but I am a Survey Engineer. They’re two similar professions with a lot of overlap. I mean as far as I’m concerned, every country has a need for them. Unless of course they’re racked by some sort...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 My top 10 favorite presidents
Keeping in mind that these are my takes and that I may value some things over others and that those things I value I might not agree with given the time period. This is purely based off of things I value/importance at the...
Messianic_Monk
Xper 5 Age: 28 My best friends say that I’m too picky with men and I should lower my standards. Does this mean they don't think highly of me?
I always think that my friends are gorgeous and amazing and deserve the best in life. I have now been single for a while and very unhappy about it, some of my close friends accuse me of being the cause of my problems...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is having a hard time finding the man you want being involuntarily single?
I'm a Nicaraguan-American (born in New Jersey) but for some reason I'm having bad luck. The ones hitting on me aren't exactly my cup of tea. I'm not attracted to other hispanics with similar physical features either. No,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it wrong to hate your own country?
I live in the UK and I tell you if you're not some middle class person who has the privilege to live life with rose tinted glasses and lives in the country, life is fucking miserable. I know this might sound racist but I...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 