Search Results: where do we stand in the relationship

Why when you show a broken hearted guy love and care, chooses another person to love?

When you show care, understanding and some nurturing to a broken hearted guy friend, chooses another a person to love ( I confess I thought I had a chance with him). I met this guy, who had a lot of baggage from his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy I confessed my feelings to stalks me in person, but hardly talks to me and avoids me on social media?

There is this guy who's my karate teacher (He's 18 and I'm 20.) who I had been noticing since about a year ago has paid extra attention to me out of the blue. He'd tease me a little in playful ways, strike up friendly...

TiaraGlitzNeon

Xper 5 Age: 22

Flirting

What does it mean when a guy says I guess I have a crush on you? Does that mean he doesn't?

Asking for my friend. She is too scared to ask him, so I'm asking on here for her... She told me he kissed her, held her hand, put his arms around her, basically he acted like he liked her romantically. But she's confused...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What is going on with him? I need guys opinion on this please?

Guys I need your input on the matter! I met a guy at work three months ago! I'm an introvert so it's not easy for me to make new friends etc, so he did put a lot of effort while at work to get to know me a little better!...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl I dated briefly said she wanted to take it slow but I felt that she lied me. What do you think?

I dated a co worker for about a month and a half and from the get go she said that she likes to take things slow which can be a red flag for some but i wanted to be mature about it and i accepted that considering they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys sometimes say outlandish things to mask their true feelings when they're scared to be vulnerable?

2 years ago, I got involved with a guy who had a lot of relationship trauma. He was consistent, called and texted everyday, and put in effort, I guess, but he never took anything seriously. I never knew where we stood...

SlowestCheetah

Xper 2 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Does this girl like me (I am also a girl)?

I have a crush on this girl (I am also a girl), and I am unsure if she has feelings for me. We both have similar personalities and interests, which is why I think I am attracted to her. She is also a bit androgynous,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Bound to the results of selfishness?

It seems like almost any matter a police officer may find himself/herself/God help us, whoever-self, doing in the line of duty, in most regards, is violation of either or both natural and enforced law for common citizens...

flautistnaturist

Xper 5 Age: 49

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What does he want?

The guy I am seeing has told me that he doesn't want a girlfriend but his behaviour confuses me. We see each other 2 / 3 times a week and he always greets me with a cuddle & kiss. He will do things like bring me ny...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are we dating? What do I do and say to him?

So there's this guy I've been seeing for the past month and a half, and we've known each other for a few months now because we worked together over the summer. Since we've been back at college we've been spending a lot of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m so confused?

So! I’ve been talking to this man since I was 19. I am now 24. Some background information. He is 2 years older than me and i met him my freshman year of college. He became my person, i have been in contact with him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I have any shot with this girl?

So I have a pretty big crush on my friend, she appears to like hanging out with me and consistently expresses interest in hanging out with me more. There was a point when she was flirting with me right after her ex broke...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm having a sleepover with a guy. What do you think are his intentions?

From a dating app. I messaged him first actually, he was looking at my profile a lot and I thought he's cute and we have very similar interests so I messaged him and he got really excited. One time few days ago I was out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

The False Promise of Looks: A Surface Deep Liability

In many online circles of unhappily single men and women, attractiveness is heralded as the barrier to romantic access and relationship success; and whilst it is true that an individual's appearance determines how...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Family & Friends

Is it fair for a woman in a female led heterosexual relationship to lose respect for her spouse solely because he makes less?

Wasn’t it traditional women who once said love is what matters? So why so much emphasis on money from a man in that relationship if he lives within her means? Given the state of a-ffairs with Affirmative Action, how is a...

love_conquers_lust

Yoda Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend asked for a 1 month break?

So we recently started getting into fights often. It all started when he said something nasty to me and doubled down by saying he stands his ground and would not take it back or apologize. I told him you can shove ur...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Where does my relationship stand?

I’ve been with this guy for 8 months. He’s already said I love you before. We got into something and he’s been really upset with me the past two weeks. We’ve been barely talking and not seeing each other. I talked to him...

Jumpin4blue

Xper 4 Age: 30

Why does she suddenly want to start over, and what should I do?

I've been dating a woman for 3 months. Things started fast, but have steadied out over the past month. I feel like we are where we should be. I drive 90 minutes to see her every weekend. Text her every day. Talk to her...

Anonymous

(30-35)