Search Results: working on the relationship

What does "knowing what you want" mean?

I hear people say all the time, "I want someone who knows what they want". Now to me, that's never really made much sense. I feel like most people know what they want in a partner and life, but things aren't so simple...

HawkPerception

Influencer Age: 32

Why do some people defend mistresses who knowingly involve themselves in affairs?

Obviously this does not apply to affair Partners who have been lied to and deceived by the person who is unfaithful to their spouse/ significant other. So obviously this does not count if the woman did not know that...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Society & Politics

Over to you MAGA? I'd like to know what the story is in MAGA land?

Why were there teenage girls working at the spa at Mar-a-Lago? What was Trump’s relationship to them? Why did Epstein poach them? How did Trump know about it? Why did Trump care so much about it? These are some questions...

DrPepper12

Master Age: 53

Is cutting off more fat a good idea before taking dating or love seriously?

Long story short, I'm 31 and never been in a relationship, besides a few first dates many years ago. I've been obese most of my 20s and this affected how I feel about myself. A big reason for low self-esteem was being...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Opinions on cutting more before taking dating seriously?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I meet someone for a serious relationship at 45 when new to the area?

I’m 45, never been married, no kids. It’s not that I’ve been the type that’s promiscuous or a player, it’s just what I had to deal with in my life that left me single. In my early 20s, my father’s health started to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do you believe in the right person at the wrong time?

I met this guy 4 years ago whilst training together at work. He approached me first whilst I was working. He asked me if I was the girl he was gonna be partnered with when training and I said yes obviously. After that we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my girlfriend trying to look better for me?

So I’m in a long distance relationship. We met online. But went on vacay together. And one of the things that upset me is that she didn’t take pictures of us together. And she took some of me alone. She also doesn’t like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex dumped me and is now in a relationship with my friend. Both of them are telling me that I’m wrong for feeling hurt. Am I the bad guy here?

A bit of history about them. My ex and I dated for a little under a year. He’s from Ireland and came to this country at age 28. He was living at home with his mother, not working or helping her out (that’s what he told...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Im obsessed with a married man?

I met this guy whilst working at an old job. We were the only ones out the younger staff in committed long term relationships. He was a little older than me by 4 years and we became really close as we had loads in common....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

What is up with my mother in law?

It's been a open secret in my family since I got married but me and my husband want to try for a baby soon. My whole both family seemed extremely excited and supportive about it and my mother in law even told everyone in...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Did I do something wrong?

So I have this friend with benefits. We’re good friends. Text every day, he usually texts me first. We’re on the same pager for our goals. So no distractions. I don’t really care if he gets a side girl I’ve told him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when he says i’m not looking for anything and i’m still working on myself?

I met, my trainer on a dating app and boom now he’s my trainer. I waited about a month or so in to shoot my shot and he said he’s not looking for anything right now. Which I thought was confusing since he liked me first...

Symone99

Xper 1 Age: 27

Looking for marriage relationship advice?

Preface, i am not looking for bashing, I need someone's genuine help navigating a tricky situation, not just throw the relationship away answers. My husband and I moved in with my mom in law to try and pay off our debts....

SneakyPapaya

Xper 5 Age: 26

Break Up & Divorce

How do you move on after planning your future with someone who changed?

I'm really heartbroken to have to write about something like this but my boyfriend is withdrawn from our relationship 2 months after I gave birth to our first child. He had been going out a lot or hanging with friends or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend ditches our plans again?

We were supposed to spend time together yesterday with our daughter as a family (working on fixing the relationship as we were broken up) and he was telling me all the cute things he’d plan out, food etc. Then he messages...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to deal with excessive jealousy?

I have trouble with feelings of jealousy. Not just in romantic relationships, but for crushes and sometime friends as well. It is not something that leads to unhealthy external reactions (trying to control the person,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know if your flat mate who is a cancer likes you back?

a guy moved into the house I am living in about 4 and half months back. He is a Cancer. He said he is not looking for any relationship right now as he is focusing on his job. He goes to gym regularly and its his routine....

stupidgirl101

Xper 1 Age: 27