Search Results: could he just have lost interest

Lost hair to a telogen alopecia at 18. Shave what’s left. Still have eyebrows and most body hair. I’m a decent looking guy, even told I’m handsome by many. But I’m 28 now and I’ve just had no luck dating. Never even been kissed or on a date. I’m very social, involved in many groups and activities, went through 4 years of college and always had big social circles. So so many times women have shared how they can’t believe I’m single etc but yet, sometimes even those same women, turn me down. There’s been a small few who were into me but honestly I just wasn’t attracted to them. That physical attraction has to be there as well as the emotional one. I got one life and I am not settling on what I want just due to a genetic condition. But I don’t blame the women who aren’t interested either, looks do matter, just sad to think hair really is such a big determining factor for men’s looks and there’s nothing I can do but wear a wig (which I actually started doing-a full custom one, it’s 2024 and makes me happy).

But yeah, I’ve probably asked out 40 odd women in the decade I’ve shaved my head, all no’s. About 12 made it clear it was the baldness. (I always journal so I have reread this many times and remember the numbers, probably not healthy) and I’m sure others were the same. Just sad, really wanted to be married to a young woman I found beautiful and who I loved dearly. Didn’t care about much else. Not interested in waiting until I’m older, nor in dating women older than me. I’m 27.

Honestly friends I think I may clock out here soon. Love each other out there and please be kind. We all need to learn to take rejection yes but please be kind giving it. This world is mean enough.

Unrealistic Beauty Standards and Self-Image, Increased Pressure and Comparison, Sekshualization and Harassment, Entitlement shorts like "men must this and that" and "you're enough" and narcissism, Mental Health Impact, Girls and women requiring me to have social media or they stop talking and lose all interest, Social Media addiction and obsession over likes and follows and relationship statuses and postings, self-ending for not achieving sufficient likes.

Yep. Girls and women - in my point of view - will never be the same as before social media first emerged. Thanks Zuck Ew Yuck. Real helpful (but money & user data).

Andrew Tate has mentioned, that girls are wasting all of their time on social media several times here (from 6:03 - 6:21) and here (4:04 - 4:36). Mind, that the type of girls he has chosen don't work. In a picture below is portrayed Andrew Tate talking business (shirtless because he can) while a girl sits next to him and is glued to her phone.

I watched this video from the 90s. It was an interview with girls at a mall, talking about what they were up to. Almost all of them said they were just hanging out, keeping an eye out for cute guys. The guys pretty much said the same thing.

Can you imagine people saying that now? What happened to those days? No woman would say that now.
Personally, I see dating today as way too toxic, complicated, and often disappointing. I blame feminism (which forced women to work) and social media. Because now women are like I only want to date you if you’re making a million dollars a year.