Search Results: having a talk with ex

Boyfriend having another shutdown and needs space, not sure if its about us?

My boyfriend and I started dating 10 days after we met, its been almost two months since we met. He told me on our one month that he has a feeling we may not last long but still wanted to pursue it to prove his gut wrong....

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Boyfriend broke up with me to focus on his business. Isn’t that counterproductive?

So last night, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years broke up with me because “our life paths are different, he wants to focus on his business and feels that I’m weighing him down.” He tried breaking up with me before in January...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Confused about ex’s behaviour?

So my ex broke up with me a couple months ago and claimed he didn’t love me. I went no contact, but he would check in every couple of weeks. Things recently seem a little different, he’s reached out more and even invited...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Please help me understand him?

So I have been seeing this guy for 4 months we met on Snapchat and have been talking consistently and even ended up being number 1 on both each-others friends list we finally met in person and everything seemed to be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Friend/Ex/Situation?

Kind of want a guy’s thoughts on this. My ex and I decided to remain friends after the relationship, seeing as we were friends before the relationship started. This was decided at the beginning of the relationship, as it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Heartbreak and confusion - now she’s wanting to talk…but “heavy convo”. What does this all mean?

Backstory: My ex girlfriend and I had been together for 6 months. It was the most beautiful relationship I had ever been in (I’m in my 30’s), full of love, fun, respect… We had our arguments, but what couples don’t? We...

Heartbrkn89

Xper 1 Age: 36

I told my friend with benefits I love him?

I’ve known this guy nearly all my life, we have always been friends but nothing has ever happened. 2020 we both divorced from messy marriages and found comfort in each other. Gradually we got closer and closer, until...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex keeps posting songs to a sad playlist - does that mean she's thinking of me/the breakup/reconsidering maybe?

Hi everyone. My ex broke up with me a little over a month ago pretty amicably over Facetime (we are students who were on opposite sides of the world for winter break), and said she wanted to meet me when we get back to...

blexalukos

Xper 1 Age: 25

Family & Friends

Ex is mad at me to tell him to get a hotel. more info in details. AITA?

Long story short, my ex didn't believe our daughter is his, dna test came back and proved it. We were still being respectful to each other during the whole time but barely talked since he didn't want to get involved until...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Long story short, my ex didn't believe our daughter is his, dna test came back and proved it. We were still being respectful to each other during the whole time but barely talked since

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My boyfriend is distant but ask still talks to me. Should I give him space or what do I need to do?

My boyfriend has been distant lately. I try to ask what’s wrong, but he won’t really open up to me. Usually if it’s a problem between us though he will address it directly. We then both had a bad day. He was put on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not sure what Im feeling about this situation? Is it my intution that smth is wrong or im overthinking?

So this guy (21M) and I (19F) just got offical 3 days back after 4 dates. We both are old school with dating tho we met on a dating app. it is hella weird cause I am the type to want to take my time knowing someone even...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Does he want to get back together? How do I ask if he wants to?

My ex and I broke up a little over a year ago, and it was a mess. Admittedly I did lie to him about something, which led to it (and he admitted to withholding from me as well). We talked it out very recently, and his use...

Runawaystar

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guys, What does he want?

So I think I have really high standards, my boyfriend well ex now can’t for some reason commit or respect some boundaries. I don't know why it bothers me when he likes other females pictures but to me i find it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy I’ve been talking to says “(my name), we’re still okay? Is he trying to get me hooked or does he genuinely likes me?

Background: We started hooking up in January 2023, but we originally met in 2022 on December 20 something. He lives in Austin and I live in El Paso, TX. We made sure it was just sex, no strings attached. After agreeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I feel like I am cheating on him even though we broke up months ago? Esch time I tried to talk to him he said we are separated already?

I met my ex around the end of 2019 and we were head over hills in love, at least that how it felt to me and I was genuinely in love and so devoted to him! We settled down quite quickly and I ended up pregnant within 6-7...

Anonymous

(30-35)

As a guy, are these signs of affection? Could this mean feelings still?

So my ex and I broke up 2 years ago and it was more so him ending the relationship because it was becoming unhealthy but we both for some reason didn’t talk about it. Anyway after we broke up he seemed to struggle with...

Lissyyluu33

Xper 3 Age: 33

Should I have to treat my best friend's ex girl like crap?

Ok so I recently had a situation where my best friend went through a break up. It was a bit of a messy ending, and he went through a really rough few weeks trying to get over her. He was so mad at her that he asked me and...

adam6402

Xper 5 Age: 24