Guys, What does he want?

[Anonymous]

So I think I have really high standards, my boyfriend well ex now can’t for some reason commit or respect some boundaries. I don't know why it bothers me when he likes other females pictures but to me i find it disrespectful & I’ve made my self really clear with him about that. Also found him snapping with other girls. Calle shim out on that too. But he swears it’s nothing bad. Got tired of it, broke things off and also this has been an issue we’ve been having for sometime and he just doesn’t get it. He keeps coming back I don’t do anything to make him chase me I have him blocked on everything but he tried to talk to me at work and at the gym I go to. He always wants to fix’s things promises he will not do it again but then does it again as if I won’t find out. Like wtf does he want? I don’t understand his logic?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo this dude sounds like he's playing games to be honest. Like if he says he doesn't want to lose you but then keeps doing the same stuff over and over, his actions aren't matching his words. Seems like he likes the attention of other girls but also likes having you around when it's convenient for him.

If I were you, I wouldn't buy his promises anymore. He's had plenty of chances to show you he's serious and he clearly isn't willing to respect your boundaries. You deserve someone who makes you their priority, not someone you have to nag to have some respect.

Next time he tries to talk to you, I'd just be like "we already went through this, nothing has changed" and don't engage further. You gave him chances and he blew it. Now it's time to fully move on. Easier said than done but staying hung up on some dude who keeps letting you down won't do you any good. You'll find someone better who wants you for real!

[Pauldrury]

Minx I I inquire to what boundaries