Search Results: leave him or give him a chance

If you look at the number of single people with pet cats or dogs, or the number of single woman who choose to adopt or use fertility treatments, or the number of men who own pet cobras or do volunteer work, I believe the ability to love somebody else is just as important as the desire to be loved by somebody else. I know if I did not have people to love during the pandemic, I would not have been as motivated as I was to build my career and there is a chance I may not have built a career at all. Maybe I would have relied entirely on my parents for future income through what they leave me in the will, or what my millionaire cousins give me, but my obsession with being able to have my own family drove me to build my own career.

So after me and my ex broke up about a few years later I slept with his cousin. (We shall call him Dean) I don’t regret it. Fast forward to a few years later. We live in different states and have continued to talk to each other as friends, we do send nudes and shit and we are there for each other when we’re having a bad day. I asked Dean if he feels bad that we still talk to each other even though I’m his cousin’s ex. He said no and that he guess his cousin had a chance to be a good man. We have tried to stop communicating but it doesn’t happen for long. The only excuse he gives me is that things won’t work out because of the distance and his son is in his state so he won’t leave. Does he like me or not? He also won’t say if he likes me or not.