Even before marriage he was insecure about my ex. would think I'm talking to him if I didn't pick phone. freakout if I was late to receive call. if I didn't tell him that I'm going to office. like if I told him while I'm on the taxi that I'm leaving he'd freak that why didn't I tell him before leaving house. video call me at work every half an hour to check. fight with me in public and do humiliating things
After marriage he got worse. checked my phone mail text everyday. video call me at work. make me come back from university if I didn't have a class even though I was studying in free time. im a teacher there. i can't go to a shop in front of the house without informing him. he says if I can go to a shop without telling I can go meet guys too.
He made me change dress saying I looked too good in it. commented about my head to toe like lipstick is bright nailpaint is too much. i said what's the problem I do it because I like it not for guys he said yeah but u don't know what's in other guys' minds.
He makes bad comments about me and my colleagues. doesn't let me go on office get togethers. he lost job but he doesn't let me do mine well. he shouts and screams disgusting things about me and my family. he wants sexx everyday and if I don't he gets disappointed. he even did it with me while I slept despite I told him not to. he says he'll hit me. raises hand to punch but never does. i left him many times but this time I said I'm divorcin
Now he's all changed and begging. i heard these people never change and they're manipulators. but sometime seems like he's genuinely sorry. shoukd I give a chance? but I feel like he only regrets because he didn't realize I'd react that way. he went to doctor and got meds for bipolar and schizophrenia. he's apologizing about everything. says to give him this last chance and if he doesn't change I can leave anytime. he says divorce is a big decision and I should give one last chance.
What do u think guys? do they ever change?
