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Is my coworker flirting or not?

She genuinely smiles whenever I speak. Today she sat across from me at lunch break and was on her phone but had big grins when I spoke. She does have social anxiety. And she kept kept stretching with her hands up...
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Girls, Do you want a guy to ask when he makes a move on you or just do it?

I flirted with this guy and he flirted back and he asked me out and he made the first move to touch me, boldly. He's really tall and muscular and my head reaches just above his shoulder. He's adventurous and has travelled...
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I flirted with this guy and he flirted back and he asked me out and he made the first move to touch me, boldly. He's really tall and muscular and my head reaches just above his Show More
Ask me first
Just do it
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How do I recover after sending this very embarrassing text to my roommate while on meds?

Background: Last month after I moved in my roommate and I slept eachother he made the first move, after it didn’t happen again for about a month I talked to him about it and he said he’s just worried about it ruining...
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How to break the touch barrier on the second date?

Firstly, I’m in no rush to do anything sexual. The first date was great and our second one is set up. Dinner and maybe some exploring afterwards, I’ll be in his car. We’ve expressed we think each other are cute. But the...
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How can I tell if he’s just flirting for fun or being polite?

So, a new guy at my local store seemed as though he might be interested in me, but I’m not sure I should approach him? He’s a duty manager and the first time I saw him a few of them were stocking up wine, I was smiling to...
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My ex wants to be friends but I feel like I can't. How do I go about this?

I (M35) had recently had a mutual breakup with my ex (F33) of 16 years back in early March. We have a daughter together. We didn't fight or and everything was pretty amicable. Of course I started going through the...
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How do you deal with being placed on administrative leave?

I have been in law enforcement for sometime now and been having issues with my mom trying to sabotage my career. She has did everything to try and get me fired including making up fake calls. This resulted in no arrests...
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How many women will make a move if a guy doesn't pick up on the hints?

If you are signaling hints to a guy to have him approach but he doesn't do it, are you thinking he isn't interested, or have you ever thought about just going up and being direct with him? Because I like, most men...
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Should I tell him he's the farther of our child?

My son is starting to grow up now and ask questions about who his dad is more seriously and as he grows up he's starting to look more and more like his dad which is raising a lot of suspicions and as he gets older he's...
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I confessed my feelings for my online bestie, but he told me he's not ready for a relationship and wants to stay just besties. what should I do?

i confessed my feelings for my online bestie the other day. we've known each other for about only one and a half months but i found myself already liking him that way and wishing we were together as partners, not just...
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i confessed my feelings for my online bestie the other day. we've known each other for about only one and a half months but i found myself already liking him that way and wishing we Show More
let myself continue having feelings for him untill we meet up
gradually start to move on
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Do guys like when women make the first move?

I get the whole “if it’s meant for u it won’t pass” thing and the “it’s a man’s job to hunt” thing HOWEVER I don’t consider making the first move to be chasing the man. Nor do I think that it’s a bad thing that the woman...
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The wins in Ukraine vs. Russia

Ukraine or Russia, ways to measure who is winning if we use certain methods, to measure who is "winning", that is like the innings in baseball. we don't know who won until the end of the ninth inning, but we can measure,...
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What seriously was his deal?

years ago this guy in Highschool i was crushing on let me be his friend but started acting weird and treating me differently like I fell into his trap or something at first i caught him just looking at me...
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Is there something off with my flat mate?

When I first moved in, I got along with my flat mate John. Then a few weeks later, I decided to use a desk upstairs for work because someone had put it there for anyone to use and everyone is out of the house when I’m...
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How to know if a guy (stranger) is interested and when to make the first move?

There is this guy that I’ve been noticing staring at me a lot. Whenever we see each other, we lock eyes, he’ll smile and say “have a nice night/day”, “hello/hi” etc. I saw him a few days ago, and we locked eyes, but I...
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When to make the first move on a guy?

I’ve been noticing this guy staring at me a lot recently. Whenever we see each other, he’ll smile and say “have a nice night/day”, “hi” etc. I saw him a few days ago, and he was staring at me - I looked away and when I...
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Understanding Workplace Politics: The Myth of "Hard Work" Advancing You

Welcome to part 2 in our series of workplace politics. This Take will profile the notorious myth that hard work gets you up the ladder, and how so many good employees get frustrated by the fruits of their labor not...
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Guys, Is he losing interest in me or is he just slowing things down?

So I met this guy on a dating app. At first we texted minimally for the first couple weeks, I was trying to gauge his interest and get to know him. He seems like a pretty well put together, confident guy and we share a...
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How do I make the first move on a guy that I like?

I met this guy off of Bumble back in December of 2023. We went on a date on the 22nd of December. From then on out we've been talking everyday and hanging out every weekend. About two or three weekends ago I confessed to...
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