If you are signaling hints to a guy to have him approach but he doesn't do it, are you thinking he isn't interested, or have you ever thought about just going up and being direct with him?
Because I like, most men don't grasp hints because they vary soo widely. Also I have in the back of my mind that they are gonna try and cause a panic and say I harassed them (you can thank women who abused the #metoo movement for it is now guys new fear).
So how many times have you gone up to a guy after failing to get them with motions? Or how many women even think about making the first move after failing with "hints"?
Or do you assume he isn't good enough if he can't read you or do you even think about him not having any idea what you are doing?
Because I like, most men don't grasp hints because they vary soo widely. Also I have in the back of my mind that they are gonna try and cause a panic and say I harassed them (you can thank women who abused the #metoo movement for it is now guys new fear).
So how many times have you gone up to a guy after failing to get them with motions? Or how many women even think about making the first move after failing with "hints"?
Or do you assume he isn't good enough if he can't read you or do you even think about him not having any idea what you are doing?
What Girls Said
In my day, when I was in my teens and twenties, men used to just move in for the kiss, or ask for sex if they wanted it. The world has become so complicated. If she’s on a date with you, then she’s considering both of these things and wants them on some level with you. Or she Wouldn’t be Showing Signs of Interest or Wanting to Date You. That much is obvious. I get how it’s not always clear though, whether it’s romantic or platonic interest. If you’re confused, you could perhaps give us specific examples of times or situations where you were confused? I’d be happy to answer.
Some women I work with smile everytime they look at me. Not sure if they are just being nice or they want me to say hi and more. Since it's work I Don't bring up much on the side of attraction, for obvious reasons. I do talk to them and say hi, but I think they're wanting me to say more.
It’s hard to say.
im always direct with it
Direct with hints or Direct by telling them exactly what you want?
I tell exactly what I want
Why are women like you so rare. I don't think most women know that men love it when women tell us straight up instead of beating around the bush.