Search Results: mess up a relationship

My boyfriend cheated on me before, I’m still with him but I keep punishing him for it?

My boyfriend (27) and me (22) cheated on me in the past, well I don’t even know if he was cheating technically as we were dating we weren’t actually official. BUT when we were official he was texting other women which I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This guy that I liked for a while broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago, what should I do now?

there's this guy at school I’ve been liking for over a year but never spoken to. He got a girlfriend some months ago and I realized I messed up by not talking to him first, especially since I later found out through other...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I got super jealous over my crush's friend and now I think I messed up any shot I had with her. How do I fix this?

There is this girl that I have a really big crush on and she has expressed intrest in me. We have been talking for a couple months now, but neither of us on in a position to be anything more than good friends. She knows...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He says he can't be serious for me but how do I know if to let go? His actions says everything else. I am afraid I will never have a love like this. ?

We met 6 months ago. I had this crazy chemistry with him that i had with nobody before. We talked for at least an hour on the phone everyday. Sexually i really am afraid that nobody will ever satisfy my like he did. The...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is a No Cobtact order valid if the person is leaving the military?

Hi. My ex and I broke up. It wasn't a bad breakup. There was no cheating or abuse. What I messed up on was texting him how sorry I was, how it made our friendship bad, and how I would love to try again IF it came back to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Me and my ex broke up in February but we still work together (he ended things) I received this message off him on Wednesday. Does it mean anything?

For as much as you might not believe it, I hope things for you get better and that you start smiling and laughing again. It would make me really happy if you spoke to me again because at the end of the day you still mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was my ex a player/f*ckboy? or was our relationship just not good?

Hi. I am in the military. I dated this guy who was an NCO as I was a PFC. we were in different sections so its not fraternization. Anyways, we started dating after I had checked up on him for the fact he was sharing his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there a reason why online dating works for some people but not others that are interested in a long-term relationship?

Online dating has worked for some people that got into relationships from online dating but for some reason it hasn't worked for me when it comes to online dating. It didn't give me what I want from a long term...

Usersarepoo

Xper 3 Age: 27

Situationship, how do I take things further?

So there's this guy that I've been casually seeing. We mostly interact at parties, where we end up making out most times. However, beyond those moments we haven't really had any substantial conversations or interactions....

anvelvq

Xper 1 Age: 21

How can my ex girlfriend fully reconnect with me?

We were in a relationship for 4 years and I messed up last year by cheating on her and we broke up. We want to come back together but it just isn’t working well for her. Though I’ve changed and she has noticed that, her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So a friend of mine just left a 2 year relationship with a narcissist, and 1 month later started dating her best friend? Who was also the rebound?

My friend used her best friend she is dating now as a rebound once or twice in the past when she and the narcissist took a break a while back when they were fighting. She slept with her best friend to get over the now ex,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

First several dates?

I matched with a guy in bis 40, and he wanted to visit the same day, which I refrained as I was not ready. We chatted for a month, and in between, he wanted to visit, but I was not still ready to meet anyone. Our chat...

Mehrsia

Xper 2 Age: 48

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal for guy friends to do this?

I have a guy friend who teases me a lot, sometimes there is subtle flirtation here and there but generally we're close friends. There's a girl that he is interested in but for some reason he is not pursuing anything with...

DabieberRoyalty

Xper 6 Age: 30

Possibility , boundaries and how do I?

The possibility of being more than friends from a guy’s perspective. Giving my ex boundaries (which is new for me) and I asked him if there could be more than friends between us in the future. He answered it’s a...

livishay

Xper 2 Age: 35

Guy's Behavior

Why can’t men make up their minds?

This guy says he likes me and is trying to get to know me. Then he says he isn’t looking for a relationship but is attracted to me and would be OK with being casual then says I don’t think casual is a good idea but I’m OK...

Abc123hell0

Xper 3 Age: 23

Family & Friends

How would you feel if you were the product of an affair?

It's been a couple years since I found out how my parents really met. My mother was married to someone else. I'll refer to him as Simon. She cheated on Simon and got pregnant by her lover. It led to a divorce...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We are always budding heads, what do we need to do to save our relationship?

My boyfriend and are have been together for a year and half. We have the best times together when we arnt fighting or arguing. Most our disagreements start with a debate on a topic and because we are both passionate about...

Anonymous

(30-35)