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It's been said time and time again that it's not easy for most men to approach and flirt with a woman in public, and that even the most attractive confident men only have a 30 to 40% chance, at best, to impress a woman.

A 30 to 40% success rate still means rejection the majority of the time, and unlike in the pre-2000s, women nowadays tend to be a lot meaner and less empathetic about this than they used to (sorry, but it's true; a lot of y'all aren't nice).

Women also tend to not understand why only the most attractive, most ballsy 5% of men out there only hit on them, despite how many women will shout at, harass, curse out, or otherwise be viciously mean/rude to normal, decent men attempting to just get to know them better. (Not men being aggressive, rude, or not taking 'no' for an answer; just regular decent dudes.)

As a girl, are you the type to empathize with and understand just how hard it is for a guy (especially a not-handsome, not-fit, not-tall guy) to muster up the courage to ask a complete stranger to get to know him better and begin a potential relationship with him?

... Or are you the type of woman who will reject a guy loudly and rudely, because he was too short/ugly, wasted your time, or "couldn't see the tiny little wedding ring on your finger while you're holding your purse or phone" or something?

WHAT TYPE OF REJECTER ARE YOU WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS HITTING ON YOU?

Inspired by this question here.

This question is specifically for YOUNG STRAIGHT MEN under 40.
I already know old men still do this commonly.

Do you pay for a woman's meal and stuff on a date? Are you the type to pay for her dinner, meals, drinks, cab fare, etc, if you're dating her?

Pretend like the date was mutually agreed upon. As if, she insisted you ask her out, and you two mutually agreed upon an inexpensive restaurant.

Honestly, I think it's pathetic and on some major cuck sh*t to still be paying for women in the 2020s UNLESS she was already a close friend and you know she's not going to be taking advantage of you. Some guys try to say "It's cause I'm a gentleman," but you can also be a gentleman without being a sucker who gets scammed by women you barely even know. I think it's antiquated and foolish nowadays, especially since many women will treat you like a business transaction and say Red Flag sh*t like "don't waste my time" as if only HER time is valuable or matters.

So I've always believed that a quality woman wouldn't treat you like a business transaction and that any hoes out there worth avoiding are the only ones who still expect men to "whine and dine" her, while she makes as much money as you do, if not more. It's total Red Flag sh*t and simp sh*t to have a grown woman expect you to pay for her in the 2020s.

What's your opinion on it?

Inspired by this question here.

Heavily inspired by this question here, would you be considered attractive enough for the modern woman? All of these traits, are the bare minimum women require, the 80th percentile. Meaning, better than four out of five men. You need at least seven out of ten of them to "pass" the "dateable" test for modern women.

1. HEIGHT: Are you at least 6'0"/183 cm tall, barefoot in the evening?

2. INCOME: Do you earn at least $90,000 USD a year?

3. CAREER: Do you have a professional, well-respected career? (Doctor, lawyer, scientist, engineer, etc.)

4. SEX APPEAL: Is your penis at least 7"/17.5 cm in length or longer?

5. PHYSIQUE: Are you in good athletic shape? As in, not overweight.

6. SOCIAL SKILLS: Do you have at least three good friends and/or one really close best friend?

7. CHARISMA: Do you consider yourself a good communicator, skilled at speaking to others, or someone who "has game" at charming women?

8. LIFESTYLE: Are you someone who completely avoids such vices as adult movies, recreational drugs, fast food, online video games, gambling, or couch-potato habits?

9. CONFIDENCE: Do you really like who you are as a person, proud of who you are, or have a high opinion of yourself?

10. QUALITY OF LIFE: Would you consider yourself to be a well-adjusted and happy person with no signs of mental illness, anxiety, or depression?