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Okay so yesterday me and my boyfriend got into a argument and he texted me but I was still upset with him so I replied with K and didn't text him again, today it was raining very hard and he usually parks his car near my house just so he can see me when he goes to his car in the morning because we don't live together so he "does that to see me everyday" as he says and it was raining really hard and i usually dont expect him to drive over to my house to see me when it rains and I saw him walk out of his house and I thought it was because he was gonna drive his dads car because his dad's car was also parked near my house but he walked all the way down the street, LIKE ALL THE WAY DOWN THE STREET to get his car without an umbrella and drove it up to my house and parked it infront of my window and saw me and went in his dad's car and left to school,(keep in mind that down the street is very far down).

If any of you are confused basically he takes his father car to school because he likes to drive his fathers car more and also because his father has 2 cars he lets my boyfriend drive his car, and my boyfriend moves his own car because by moving his car near my house he is able to see me more the next day if he decides to take his car instead of his fathers.

What does this mean? Why did he walk in the rain for me after we had an argument the day before?

I thought most all girls move out and live with boyfriend? I’ve seen many girsl living with boyfriend and have baby & get married years after. Some get lucky and married at 18 . Some divorced single mom with 4 kids. I’m 25 live alone as it’s my dream have my own tiny apartment. I grew up with parents fighting screaming daily as my dad used drugs. Back then I wasn’t able to run away but now as an adult I can run away.
mom says I need live with her until I’m married I can’t live alone. I visit her every 2 months & she stressed me out yesterday when I saw her. All she did at the market was force me get married now cuz my brothers wife’s 5 sisters all are married & im not. The youngest is 28 & got proposed last week.
im angry cuz a girl cannot know wen she’ll marry it’s a secret. Girls do not give rings to men and kneel down to propose.
I’m sad as I have super religious freak family 😓 my landlord isn’t like that she lives with her daughter & she’s not married has 4 kids &her mom isn’t angry at all cuz she has 4 kids & not married.
my mom would beat me for having my first baby at 26 & not married. She knows where I live so she would demand landlord to see me at my house to beat me 😥& she would faint of misery I have baby & not married.
my bfs younger sister has many kids and not married either & her mom isn’t angry or disowning her at all but they all live together with her boyfriend too. 🙁😓

So my boyfriend is having some work issues & today he made a comment if I can't wait 1-2 days for a response maybe I should walk away. He forgets I waited 2 months for him to get sorted earlier in the year - he's still not sorted out - with barely any communication from him.

See it's frustrating because he's trying to shoulder everything himself - though I am more than able to assist him (it's the way he grew up I think, his mum wasn't educated & dad died young so he had to "be an adult" before his time) - and because of this he's causing excessive strain to himself. Instead of asking for help or taking the help I am offering.

And today I made it clear I WANT to help you. And yet rethinking what he said earlier - about walk if can't wait 2 days for a response when I waited 2 months earlier - it's like would he actually appericate that help or would he just used it and when sort out leave / break up.

Or would it be better to just... walk away. I mean you can't force someone to accept your help and if they don't want it, what is there.