If my boyfriend removed me from his slap hat does that mean he’s breaking up with me without actually saying it?

[Anonymous]

I realized today that he had removed me from his Snapchat when my friend pointed it out.

My friend added him on Snapchat and he added and replied back. So I know that he’s ignoring me.

And if someone removes you as a friend on Snapchat, You can still send stuff but they won’t be able to see it and your messages won’t pop up.

Before this, I’d say everything was okay and normal.
but I don’t know what to do, I don’t if I should just leave him alone and give him space?

And does this mean he’s ghosting me and breaking up with me without saying it?

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Snapchat** I’m so sorry autocorrect in the title.

[MementoMori777]

You don't have any other way to contact your boyfriend besides snapchat? That's odd, either ways tell someone to tell him for you that you are breaking up with him just to make it official cause that's some cold shit no lie, he can't guilt trip you into thinking you cheated later on and he knows it's over, I think you should find someone else, he's not it, he has no spine, he couldn't even confront you to breakup, not even through text, very immature.

[Asker]

I have his phone number but, if he’s trying to ignore me I don’t want to act crazy, clingy or like a stalker if I do text him on iMessage.

[MementoMori777]

Dude you are his girlfriend, you are one of the only people that have the rights to be on his ass at times, text him and confront him about why he deleted you off snapchat, he might heave a reason

[MementoMori777]

Have*

[Asker]

Right, thank you for commenting. I think I might just give him some space like for a day you know? And then text him and say like: “Hey, I saw you removed me from Snapchat. I’m not mad or anything. I was just curious as to why and did you want to break up?”
I just hope this is polite and respectful.

[MementoMori777]

You can leave off the break up part that's coming out a bit strong, cause if he wasn't thinking about it, you assuming he is would and then he will feel who knows how, that wondering part seem fine tho

By what he says then you choose how you wanna keep the convo going, I'm sure you'll make it work.

[Asker]

Yeah, thank you! But I think I’m just not gonna say it anymore because I talked to my twin sister today and she said like because he removed me, he doesn’t want to be with me anymore/breaking up with me without actually saying it. And she just told me to leave him alone so I removed him too. I feel bad doing it but I just think we just weren’t right for each other.

[Asker]

Wait no sorry, I didn’t remove him. I just cleared the chat so it isn’t on chats page anymore

[MementoMori777]

Alright, I just don't understand how you can move on without closure, but whatever floats your boat I guess, wish you well with the rest of your journey. 💯

[Asker]

Thank you, I appreciate it. I finally got the courage to text him

[MementoMori777]

💯🙏

[Anonymous]

Don't jump to conclusions.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

It's possible that your boyfriend removing you from his Snapchat could indicate that he is trying to distance himself from you or that he is breaking up with you without actually saying it. However, it's also possible that there could be other reasons for him removing you from his Snapchat, such as wanting to take a break from social media or needing space in the relationship.

The best thing you can do in this situation is to try to communicate with your boyfriend and ask him if everything is okay between you two. Let him know that you noticed he removed you from his Snapchat and that you're concerned about the state of your relationship. Be open and honest about your feelings and ask him to do the same.

If he is not responding to your messages, it's possible that he is ghosting you or trying to avoid the conversation. In this case, it may be best to give him some space and focus on taking care of yourself. It's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness in a relationship, and if your boyfriend is not willing to communicate or be honest with you, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider moving on.

[brooke233]

He is your boyfriend. Ask him directly lol

[Anonymous]

Its likely