Search Results: ready for a relationship

Did she ghost me or is It a bad time for her and I should give her some space?

A while back in December, I decided to return to my hometown to visit family and friends for Christmas. I hadn't been home for almost a year since I got a job in New Jersey, so I was excited to see old friends. I later...

Seryo_99

Xper 1 Age: 27

Ultimatum: should we start living together within a year or break up?

Dear Friends, My girlfriend (F23) and I (M23) have been having a long-distance relationship for 2.5 years now. She lives 4-5 hours away, so we only see each other about 2 weekends per month. She recently told me...

Thom_Janssen

Xper 4 Age: 25

Why Timing Matters More Than Love in Relationships

When it comes to relationships, we’re often told that love conquers all. But what if the real secret to a successful relationship isn’t just love, but timing? I’ve learned that even the strongest bonds can fall apart when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How do I get my ex to start seeing me as a potential girlfriend?

Hi, I need advice. I (21F) dated a guy (21M) in 2023 for five months. We were exclusive, met each other’s friends and family, and he even called me “his woman,” but he never made it official. He started as a rebound...

lovelylia

Xper 6 Age: 25

I Want Something Serious with My Ex, But I’m Confused?

lovelylia

Xper 6 Age: 25

Guy ghosted me for 10 months and contacted me again?

this guy and I decided to spend one night at his place. He said he liked me at the time but he wasn’t ready for a relationship. I left some of my jewelry at his place and he started ghosting me immediately next day. I...

Rania10

Xper 2 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Have I need used by her?

Inam introverted guy and never came into relationship, so this girl I met at my friends birthday party. SHE took my number for job purpose and we started talking. Went to movie together told her everything about me truly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He doesn't claim his child with her yet told her he doesn't like me nor talk to me. Why is he doing this to me?

My boyfriend of 7 years Left me pregnant and dumped me. He doesn't even claim his daughter with his other baby mother, yet he told her he doesn't like me anymore and nor talk to me. The same woman he said he wasn't...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why does he randomly text me even when it seems like he doesn’t have a specific reason?

I’ve been dating online since December and had some good and bad experiences. Twice now, guys I dated said they weren’t ready for a relationship and then later reached out months later, asking how I’m doing. One even...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can someone love you but won't commit?

So since July I have been in and out of a guess relationship. Sold me the moon and stars. Everything was great. He started showing other woman a little bit more attention and I called him out on it. Then we split up. This...

Lilbit84

Xper 3 Age: 42

How to set boundaries?

My boyfriend (53) allows his 21 year old daughter to manipulate him. Just today they had an argument because she said he was a horrible father because he said she needed to get some groceries due to a winter storm. She...

ChemGal

Xper 3 Age: 42

We had sex and now he wants to be friends?

We slept together for a month. He said that he was not ready for a relationship. He acted like he didn’t want me to leave. I chose to stop seeing him. He got jealous when he thought I was dating someone else. 6 months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I dumped my boyfriend because I can't wait 5-6 years to have kids, isn't this a valid reason?

Our ages are 26 and 35 but when we first met in March 2023, I thought we had a common main goal of having a large family (3 kids at least) and I wouldn't wait more than 3 years. We had a serious conversation recently to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to know when you’re ready to date again?

Like I want a girlfriend and possibly I can turn her to my wife. That’s the goal but I’ve been through 1 really toxic relationship and 4 bad talking stages. I feel like getting into one but I also feel like waiting until...

Anonymous

(18-24)

This guy is acting cold so I distanced myself?

I met a guy and he was eagerly wanting to meet me so I said sure. We walked around a bit in my neighborhood and he drove me into town and we came back to my house. We talked outside a bit and as he was leaving we started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How often does a successful relationship (and bright future) not go as planned?

I feel bad for a female member I've once spoke to here. She had everything in her life; good economic stability herself, good upbrining, marriage at age 24/25 and a loving husband. She married her first... was a virgin...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What did I do wrong here or is he the problem?

I'm using talk-to-text, so bear with me. I need advice about a situation with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for six months, but he recently told me he felt pressured into asking me out, and it was too soon. Here’s the...

Ar15improv

Xper 1 Age: 30

What can I do about it tho?

I met a police officer online on the 20th of December, we started talking and he wanted to meet but I said I wasn't ready for a relationship because I broke up 2 months ago and I don't wanna experience same things again....

Anonymous

(18-24)