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Say you meet a near-ideal girl or guy who lives nearby or works close to you. She or he is probably a 8 or 8.5 in looks and has 90-95% of what you want in a partner. But you hear she or he is only into people of a certain hair color or hair style. Like, she or he "only likes blondes" or "only dates people with dreadlocks." or "only likes bald guys."

I dated a girl who was like this. She only liked men with my hairstyle; which is a short buzzcut and my natural hair. I didn't have to change it for her, but she was a blonde and I asked her if she'd change her hair to be a redhead, since that's my favorite hair color on women. She didn't text back, but the next day, she showed up as a strawberry blonde, instead of her usual yellow. This didn't mean much though, as she changed her hair every 7 to 10 days anyway.

I've never liked my hair or having to cut it every three weeks anyway, so as long as I didn't have to dye it some SJW color, like green, blue, or pink, I'd be willing to change my hair if it means happily dating a 9 out of 10 lady.

Would you change your hair style or hair color to date someone?

This post was inspired by this question here. I already have my own ideas on it, but thought it'd make for a fun GAG question.

Ego ("confidence"), height & looks, and social status (money/career/success/popularity) are the three things most straight women want in an ideal man, and some even require them. All three of these things combined, makes the "perfect man." How "low" a modern heterosexual woman is willing to go or downgrade on, depends on the woman, but you can usually only lack one of them to still have a shot. Lack more than one and you're completely SOL.

So men of GAG, I ask you this:
Which of these do you think a woman is most likely to tolerate in a flawed imperfect man?

Most people seem to learn this after getting rejected by a hot girl in high school but I still see men in their 20s and older who are single who don’t seem to get this and think “there are no such things as leagues” usually because they saw a relatively unattractive rich guy with a hot girl but they don’t think about whether that girl is rich herself or more importantly whether they are rich themselves and are able to find such a woman in their own life.

Another way to look at it: when was the last time you saw a good looking female doctor or lawyer dating a short balding bouncer at a club (no offense to those who fit this description)?