Search Results: Is it bad if the guy I m seeing is A LOT like me

I was dating this guy, but ended things because he didn't know what he wanted. Now, I realized that I still like him very much and still want to be with him, despite his faults. Anyhow, I found out through mutual friends that he is seeing someone. It's not serious afaik, and apparently she is moving too fast for him - she's treating it like a long-term relationship. But he's just going to treat it as something meaningless to him (as told by mutual). I also found out that he did regret losing me, but didn't understand why I ended things. We were together for almost a year, and after I ended things, he got with her soon after, and a lot of people were surprised by that. He also met her on Tinder, so it wasn't like he knew her before. Anyhow, I contacted him recently, just to catch up. Not once did he mention the other girl he was seeing (bad or good sign?). Secondly, he hasn't initiated any texts with me (mostly bad), but responded to all of the texts I sent him. He also hasn't declined any requests to meet up, but he's kind of flakey for example, "I'm pretty busy this weekend, but I might be free blah blah" Our relationship didn't end on bad terms either. But I'm afraid he didn't take this break as serious as I did, and just found another rebound to shut his emotions away. We have plans to meet up soon, but I don't plan on bringing the other girl up at all. Also, it's weird because the girl and I have the same first name.. (like what). And if we do meet, I am going to just play it cool, not going to bring up any relationship stuff or anything serious like that.

TL;DR: Guy I dumped got a rebound girlfriend, can I steal him back?

Anyhow, I miss him, and cherish what we had, so is it possible to start over with him even though he's seeing someone else? Or should I just leave him be with this new girl?

Well my best friend Tracy, was seeing this guy with a girlfriend. the guys name was Jake, Jake and his girlfriend were dating on and off for 2 years however their relationship was dependent on sex it was mostly physical. During the time that Tracy and Jake were seeing each other (6 months) they did nothing physical (Tracy's a virgin) , they didn't even kiss, but they had a strong emotional connection. Jakes girlfriend might have had his Dick, but Tracy had his heart. Anyways Jake broke up with his girlfriend for Tracy. I know it was wrong with tracy to be a home wrecker and date a guy with the girlfriend and it was wrong for jake to cheat and maybe it makes me that person but I'm not against Tracy. i mean think about it, tracy came in to jakes life in 6 months and completely shook and shattered his 2 year relationship. Not any girl can do that, not a lot of girls are able to do that, i mean come on, how often is it that a guy would leave their girlfriend or wife for his mistress. I am NOT saying that what Tracy did that wasn't wrong, and I am NOT saying that Jake cheating on his girlfriend was right either however can we just all sit back and acknowledge the fact that a lot of women underestimate mistress. Can we all just take a minute to acknowledge the fact that a lot of time the girlfriends or wives of these men think that their boyfriends/husbands would never leave them for another girl. Side chicks and home workers have such a bad name. they have way more power than people give them credit for. They have the power to make your boyfriend or husband not want to call you, or pick up your phone calls, or reply to your text. or not come home to you or worse.: Fall out of love with you ( if they ever were) ... They're dangerous.