What is it with guys and boobs?

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I’ve never been able to understand it. It seems like somehow it’s the first thing they notice on a female and then from there all they care about is anything to get into the female’s pants. I’m not trying to generalize or be sexist despite me having a lot of bad experiences with guys since from a very young age, and I’ve been seeing that there are some good men out there since I moved out of state. I’ve just never been able to understand it and I just hate it cuz of my experiences tbh

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

You would have to be gay to understand. Just like how I have no idea what's attractive about men like what on earth do women see in us but that's cause I ain't gay so guys to me are just ugly then a six pack or something just makes them look worse but girls swoon for something like that shrugs.

VistasV2 · Accepted Answer

It’s directly tied to reproduction. The bigger the breasts the better the milk for children, the butt/wide hips, the increased chance of surviving child birth.

Katebfun · Accepted Answer

It's just a body part they don't have and out breasts pur displayed in fancy bras or poked out. I'm straight and I like boobs myself, there pretty.

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

It's the Planet were guys originate from... lol

Anonymous · Answer

Men are biologically entranced , immediately attracted to a female with large breasts and hips for reproduction.
They don’t even think about “if she’s a good woman or her future plans”. All they want is to plant their seed in the fertile soil. And they’d be more than happy to. Of course this tends to be subconscious and they don’t really realize it.

And believe it or not same applies to women. Literally the same. Women tend to be insanely sexually attracted to the alpha male. A male that gives off a security and confidence that other males don’t tend to have. The Alpha man tends to be muscular and usually has a deep voice. Women chase after this male and usually most women end up mating with this male. Of course again it’s subconsciously and women don’t realize it.

This is why they say that when people are “in love” they wear the rose-tinted glasses. They don’t see red flags or any flaws in their target.

This even happened to me. When I got over him, I couldn’t believe I was obsessed with him. 😵😵😵😵.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Sorry if too much info but I'm being detailed and honest.

Some look hot topless. The shape, size, perky or droopy, areola size, how the nipples are. They look sexy in certain clothes/bras. All the low cut tops (vnecks, plunge tops, etc) is a sexy tease from the cleavage showing. Especially if she's wearing a pushup bra making them appear bigger. When she bends over it reveals a lot more of her boobs looking down her shirt hehe.

When they bounce it's sexy because it reminds me of when having sex, each thrust makes her boobs bounce/jiggle hehe. In all the ways they bounce too from laughing, walking, running, fucking, bumpy car ride, etc.

Touching them is hot because not only do they feel nice and squishy, it also makes the girl turned on too (not all women but most). Breast massage for her is always nice for both partners. Playing with her nipples is super hot 🔥. When they get hard in my mouth or in my hands/fingers omg I love that. Of course she likes it too from her hard nipples getting excited, which makes it even hotter.

Tiddy fucking omg feels amazing. They're wrapped around my boner squishing it between them. Hot seeing it happen too, thrusting between them. Exploding on them omg I super love that. It's showing they're so hot I wanna explode all over them hehe. It's like all that sexiness from her was all built up and released onto her boobs hehe.

ODC2112 · Answer

The human being, a priori of biological sex, is evolutionarily stuck in the Paleolithic and in terms of mating and partner selection. The male expectation is that the woman with a lot of breasts is more fertile or at least has a higher volume of estrogen. It is a sexual signal. According to anthropologists, the shape of the female breast would resemble that of the buttocks and would have begun to replace them as a sexual appeal when the man assumed an upright position and began to mate frontally. The greater fertility of women with large breasts is in fact denied by statistical evidence. There is a psychological expectation of less responsibility if a woman has a lot of breast associated with breastfeeding. As a rule, the bigger it is, the more it is liked, because, according to sexologists, it is the object of the first desire of infants who, once adults, keep and transform into an erotic symbol. Furthermore, an imposing breast makes the woman independent in the eyes of the man who can also feel immune from any duty including that, in the most serious cases, to give pleasure to the partner.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well to be honest with you you're looking at it all wrong when the guy starts out like that he's basically telling you do not pick me you do not want to be with me because of all these reasons right here your boobs come first LOL it's the guys way of telling you what kind of a guy that he is and if you accept him that way then it's all on you good luck but if you read right through it and understand what he's saying to you you sound sorry see you later

Boobs I really wanted the last things that I look at I look into their eyes because I want to see their heart I want to know exactly who they are if they're confident if they're smart I mean it doesn't things the outside of a body is just all extra bonus but I won't even really look at the boobs not unless I start dating her because the boobs come with that package deal LOL but I would never date a girl just because of the size of her boobs or what her boobs look like there's much more deeper things

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

I tend to notice:

1. Face

2. Eyes

3. Lips

4. Body build / fitness

5. Personality

6. Forearms

7. Ass shape

Usually in that order, before I pay attention to breasts. How she reacts to the world, how she takes care of herself, what she was given to work with to start... that tells me a lot about her. That's not to say, if I like her, and she offers me to play with her boobs, and we have total privacy, that I'd necessarily turn her down. I like ladies' boobs, I just don't obsess over them.

Tantalizing as the thought of tittie play is, I'm more turned on by the thought of making out in the shower. Or of her posing in submissive ways. A mark that if I have to assume control, she trusts my judgment. That's powerful. Trust can be a rare commodity these days. To have someone offer it to you, is a potent form of flattery.

lightbulb27 · Answer

were the opposite of females and this is where we start life and are comfy. in the life cycle, the male wants into the female (the female wants the male into them... intimacy) and it's gotta start somewhere. Visually, the curves are a draw, they feel good, and it goes from there. You'll see in cats how they "knead" when they are really comfy... that's from the starting of life when they get the milk out... survival, comfort.

it's weird, but it's deeply programmed into the mind. not all guys are drawn to the same shapes, sizes, etc...

It gets weirder... Roman Mythology.

Romulous and Remus and the she wolf that nursed them

Reaper1985 · Answer

some cultures believe a healthy female with a large chest will have a better natural ability feed her children. while some cultures believe that a healthy female with wider hips will have a better ability to naturally birth children. some culture even believe a females butt size or shape play some type of role for breeding other then it's just nice to look at or grab.

however to some degree a females natural chest size plays a minor role in how much milk she can produce for her children. it more so depends on her overall health, diet and genetics.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I am not well endowed but with the right equipment 😂 aka push-up bra or just the right top showing a little skin, no matter what, men or women (yes women too) check the girls out. How could you not? They look 👀 amazing. It’s just human nature ☺️

TDDMS · Answer

The reason why us guys like tits, ass, pussy, and hips has to do with the very simple fact that those are defining features of a woman. The size of such is based on preference. For instance, these women who have these grotesque butt implants or boob jobs that require a woman to use a gantry to carry said tits. . . . those women may catch the eye of a man, but it is quickly followed by a negative visceral reaction.

Now for the nitwits in the comment section that say it's due to because of Evolution. No, if there was any merit to that then all the women with small boobs and small hip-to-waist ratios would have disappeared long ago and the ones who are around now wouldn't be able to conceive, carry, and care for children, they would be invalids.

Anonymous · Answer

Simple, because we say "No, you can't see them." They are obsessed with seeing them. Two centuries ago in America showing even as much leg as an ankle was considered so scandalous and such a turn on that they started putting dresses on tables (table cloths) to keep men from seeing the table legs and getting aroused.

In some European countries they have topless orange juice commercials on daytime television, and, while a topless woman will always be somewhat alluring, it's not considered as scandalous there as it would in the US because it's more common place.

People want to see whatever they perceive you to be hiding, if women walked around completely nude with only a hood over their heads, people would ignore pussies, asses, and boobs and be obsessed with seeing a smile... ... which doesn't sound too bad now that I think about it.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Everyone has difference preferences, at a young age I notice boys/guys were way more interested in down below than my chest. Of course I had no chest back then but as I grew up and got one, they still seemed obsessed with down there.

It wasn't until an adult that I ran into guys who really appreciated and liked them, and since then its been a never ending group.

All about preference I guess, and what they like the most.

BrickBiggems · Answer

We are biologically hardwired to find them, uh well, "interesting". To put it bluntly, our hind brain knows that good size and shape equals more likely to have healthy and strong offspring.

(Ps: I really don't mean to be gross, being blunt makes for way less wordy answers)

Stoner710 · Answer

Boobs? Mine mine mine mine mine  ok now serious boobs are second dairy sex characteristics and are fun to play with. Now I honestly prefer women mind drift my self. You can thank Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera for that one. Boobs are nice though

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Well we always want the things we don't have and guys are wired so but some may take extreme steps.

I have seen women gawking at other women boobs and navel and the funniest reaction i saw on the girls face she couldn't take her eyes off and the boyfriend was standing next to her 🤣

1stupidrobot · Answer

I'm a straight woman and even I have a difficult time tearing my eyes away from brazenly exposed cleavage or careless underboob. Boobs, breasts, titties, or whatever you call them, are sexy. But for the record, there are other parts of the female anatomy that some men enjoy more than breasts; i. e., butt, legs, feet, etc. You name it, it's been fetishized and objectified.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

There’s a lot of selfish men out there who do not care. They’re selfish. Can’t help themselves. Greedy. Never learned that it’s disrespectful. Are ignorant. Influenced by current media. For a while now Regular women take their clothes off and masturbate, sit in blow up pools in bikinis with their breasts bulging out. Etc. Plug in your age 26. Yeah at 26, men are in their prime. Hold on to the good ones. You’ll regret it later in life.

Waldoe · Answer

Blame GOD... "gentlemen" behave well, but they are attracted and aroused by Breasts... I have no IDEA why. I used to think that it was maybe "Playboy" magazine, but if you look at the history of Fine Art, womens breasts are very popular... BLAME GOD... he designed us, we are HIS creation. by the way I love to see naked breasts too

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Did biological urge to procreate actually escape you? I don't mean to be sarcastic but it's part of the birds and bees. I know you said you're not trying to on generalize and you've had bad experiences at a young age and I think that is throwing off your perception. That said noticing a person's body and being attracted to others is normal.

curiousbabyboo · Answer

I don't think there is anything on the planet that's just nice to hold, it's like those squishy rubber balls, just more tight and warm. Maybe, as kids, we probably loved playing with boobs on our moms, but that was not sexual, just with the playful innocence of a kid.

EarthRealm · Answer

Gives me something to Look at when I’m Bored and have Nothing to do I used to Look at My Teachers Boobs all the time
I was always Rock hard for that Teacher she always Wore a Skirt
And At school we did Laundry and She was Right there with me when I was Rock hard having to Bend over To get Clothes in and out of the Washer and dryer.

lazermazer · Answer

The first thing we see is face, then the boobs and then the ass.

And we give them all high priority. We want to bang with good boobs, with good ass and with good face.

If we find good combo, we try to make them our girlfriend.

Does that answers your question?

TallAnon · Answer

The most common and powerful instinct for a man is to reproduce, followed by survival and protection. We became this way because the species would've ended 100000s years ago if we hadn't. So, anything sexual is on the fore-front of our minds and there's little we can do about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t think that breasts are the only reason why we want to have sex with you, or be in a relationship with you. It’s just something we notice. Some men like boobs more than others. Even then a spectacular set of tits doesn’t make up for a lousy personality or being bad in bed.

Valso · Answer

In principle the boobs are a sexual organ, more or less, and they're meant to turn the man on, so that the offspring happens. But personally I don't care about boobs, so they can't turn me on. Only a naked fully shaved pussy and a tongue kiss can turn me on. 😜

Anonymous · Answer

It's like the bigger your boobs, the more men you attract.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have no clue, but it is the number one fetish by far.
Do women even enjoy having them played with?
I know in porn movies, according to a friend, about 3 links and its orgasm time.
Not so true in real life.

YollyM · Answer

Boobs are a feminine part that they do not have therefore intriguing.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

They're soft, jiggly, they gave us our first meal, and we don't (usually) have a pair of our own.

USLegionary · Answer

Likely related to biology that drives us to reproduce.

Animallover3742 · Answer

It's genetic and can only be overcome with self-discipline.  Although even if they do notice it at first that doesn't mean that all they want to do is get into your pants.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

I wish I knew the reason.. I am so obsessed with boobs.. I get frustrated at times.. I don't know why I can't stop thinking about them.. and asking for nudes from strangers.. I love to see naked breasts and i am addicted to it.. I never miss a chance to feel them if I get to.. but its overwhelming and I want to stop

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

It’s just how the male brain works. There’s nothing wrong with a guy liking boobs, it’s perfectly natural. Just like how a lot of the female population is attracted to developed abs, chest, arms, etc. Our brains are wired to be attracted to the opposite sex.

MarkRet · Answer

Boobs are very noticeable. Advertisers ALWAYS focus on that as a selling point. Guys like them because they represent femaleness.

Grond21 · Answer

Biologically if a woman has larger breasts her estrogen is higher and therefore her fertility is most likely higher as well. Also for some reason we found them captivating, and they can can provide a strong sense of of nurturing and home

Anonymous · Answer

Girls don't date good guys as they consider them boring which is kinda true. Now when it comes to boobs, they look so cute and are so soft, the best kind of headrest. Squashing them is so much fun. If they are lactating then they are more good as the milk is so sweet and tasty.

spartan55 · Answer

Why do you need to 'understand it'? Guys love boobs, it's hard wired into us. I don't know what there is to 'understand'?

20yearsolder · Answer

It's not true in all cases, I'm not a fan of big breasts. You can wear something low cut and you're not going to get my attention for your breasts.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Personally I don't look at a woman's boobs first. I've been more of a face person. I look at her eyes and smile then if I like what I see I strike up a conversation. I prefer smaller breasts on a woman.

AndrésC64 · Answer

Because boobs are arguably the most prominent and noticeable difference between men and women. Boobs are an indication of sexual maturity.

Snsl153 · Answer

Maybe they're just thirsty and want some milk.

Adronicus · Answer

What captivates my attention is the female form in general. I prefer somethig that accentuates whats underneath rather than exposes. Something that clings without being too revealing.

Anonymous · Answer

Come on, everyone likes boobs. I love them too.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Liking boobs doesn't make a man bad. You are trying to turn a non issue into a problem. And you are trying to correlate rape to heterosexuality, which is very unscientific.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Um, yeah, it's the first thing we notice! Because they're literally sticking straight out in front of you! Your breasts make their appearance on the scene before any other part of your body does.

jbasch · Answer

It's a natural instinct. If a girl has a large chest and is showing off cleavage, it's extremely difficult not to look.

Danzigdawson · Answer

What is it with girls and muscular bare chests?

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Evolutionary biology, breasts are the first sign that a human female is capable of bearing young.

Nik1hil · Answer

Boobs = Gift from Gods bestowed on women for men to watch and ponder upon how beautiful they are

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Haven't you noticed? We don't have `em! Well, most of us.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Whats with anything we find attractive. Eyes, muscles, smile, butt, etc. Somethings just look good. Plus its sometimes hard not to notice a women's boobs.

Cubus · Answer

Hormones. We were designed to be allure my breasts, because breasts are used to feed babies. It's a natural strategy for us to survive as a species

Riley1 · Answer

Tits... the first thing we saw as a safe place. Tits... they fed us. So now, your Tits mean a "Safe place to Eat" to us. Isn't that what we all want?

clampfan101 · Answer

The first thing I notice and what’s most important to me in looks is the face. (Second is the hair.) :)

AviatorTom · Answer

Guys don't have boobs and like looking and playing with things that we guys don't have.

CasaNorba · Answer

didn't your mom breastfed you when you were a baby?

UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT · Answer

People are attracted to comfortable and pleasant experiences.

convo_king89 · Answer

Its is a way to show your healthy fertile. Having them right there infront of you is a signal that it’s the right time.

Mangospacho · Answer

That’s how we are by design. There are plenty of things we don’t understand about women either.

Anonymous · Answer

If you're looking for an apology for being a straight man, you aren't going to get one. You don't need to understand it but the answer is actually very simple... people tend to be attracted to what they don't have.

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