Kinda written by the way my mind flows...so bear with me.
Past relationships, death, life, break ups, ex's, injury, sadness, hurt, hate, love, time. All of these have one thing in common; they are part of being and allowing yourself to love. It makes no difference if you are allowing yourself to love or not. Living in this world you will be exposed to everything from love to hate to despair no matter how removed you make yourself. When you learn to love you will also learn hate. You may know how to hate, you may even watch and experience how people hate you or others. But without it you cannot know the meaning of it.
When you are alone do you mull over past life events or are you thinking of how you can make yourself into something greater? Would you rather have something to strive for? Or continue to look apon a situation that could not be changed and make it into a situation of no one else but yourself?
A majority of times when something happens we are lost. No one ever has a definitive answer. We constantly strive for generalizing each situation for ourselves to just comprehend what it could be or what we want it to be without ever trying to move forward from it. When you have a death of a close friend, family member or even pet, you, automatically become lost in what could have been or what should have been. When a veteran from combat deals with stress of losing a friend the automatic thing they think is to ask why and how could I have saved him. They obsess obsess and obsess over it; constantly being stuck in a class of their own never going forward and always taking those two steps backward until they feel they have no worth...the inevitable happens and they are no longer with us.
All people are born and raised differently; if you take even one step forward you will always see a diffence. No matter what, that I can promise you. However the first is always the hardest. Whoever says it is easy, life is easy is not doing it right; people like that consistently get what they want while you are breaking your back doing work. If they falter and they fall they will have an even harder time getting up. You are the one able to be more because you have been through more, understand more, you have been there before.
When you love you sign yourself up to BE ABUSED rather it is mentally, emotionally or physically. But if you take no move forward to that, to love. What are you doing to make your life mean something? If you are not making someone elses life better then YOU are wasting your time. All successful people need to have that delusional quality that pushes them forward no matter what...That step that can change your life. This is what separates the boys from the men and the women from the girls.
So..... what will push you to take that first step?
Let me know what you think in the comments below:)
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