You Think Men Are Players? Think Again (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Just because this shit happens, doesn't make it morally right. You say it's "fine to be a player" or "it's okay to use others to fulfill needs"? This is the wrong mindset for people in this world to have. Somewhere down the road, this will get ugly - if it hasn't already. I agree both genders could be "players". That doesn't mean people should really become one.

[ManaX]

I like to play, but not in the manipulative ways stated above, I just attract men (plural) and if I find them equally attractive I don't let the fact i'm seeing someone else stop me from seeing them too. But i'll only do this if i'm single. If I was in a relationship, I wouldn't do this.

[Anonymous]

This take started off as something and ended up as a rant.

"If you want to stop getting played in the friendzone, don't be that girls friend. Simple and plain, maybe when she finally leaves his ass, she will go to yours."
Why do all men think they are entitled to sex with a woman just because they talk to her and genuinely listen to her? You don't have a right to have her just because you were nice to her.

"Don't blame the player, blame the game"
A lot of men and women whine about being played but the truth is a lot of these people know they're being played, but still stay on in these relationships, as the take owner pointed out, because of their own insecurities. So in most situations the person being played has no one to blame but themselves.

And both genders do this equally so I think we should stop pointing fingers at the opposite gender.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I legit have never seen "Why do all men think they are entitled to sex with a woman just because they talk to her and genuinely listen to her? You don't have a right to have her just because you were nice to her." not even in movies hahaa. makes sense though.

[Anonymous]

I have never been played but have played many times. I love to get worshiped and will not settle for anything less.

[myTake Owner]

Haha thanks for sharing! You are proof that girls are players too
😄😄😄

[babu_001]

You must be very beautiful for having a mentality like that.

[Originalshot]

You played because you are afraid of being played. If someone can get you he can get many others like you.

[Opinion Owner]

i go after non alpha males, they fall right in. (beta males|)

[myTake Owner]

I like this anon haha she is straight up!

[miserybusiness]

"most women have a phone full on contacts, and got a man ready to take them out, a man ready to make good love to them, a man ready to cuddle them and make them feel special"

God, I wish this was true.

[cookiesandcream]

Same! 😂😂

[miserybusiness]

Hahaha we certainly wouldn't be on here anymore!

[genuinlysensitive]

I am available ;)

[miserybusiness]

I'll add you to my phone book!

[Phantom-menace1234]

It very simple for the guys that don't want to get played by women, stop thinking with your dicks, and start thinking with your brain, which you were given.

Its simple for women, stop give men sex so easily, its not going to make him like you more or less. Sex to a man, is just like getting on a roller-coaster, looking for the next fix.

There are no victims when comes to relationships, only volunteers.

[Phantom-menace1234]

The funny thing is, people will stop getting played, if people stop thinking with their penises and vaginas. Stop think that relationships always revolve around sex. Then the world of relationships would be a beautiful place. Of course sex is important in a relationship, but should only have sex, when you know you are both seriously committed to each other.

[noneoftheabove]

"It very simple for the guys that don't want to get played by women, stop thinking with your dicks, and start thinking with your brain, which you were given."

One of the most profound comments I've ever seen on gag.

[Riverock]

Interesting take and I'm sure what you wrote does apply to some women.
Also, I'm sure there is a segment of people (men and women) that don't play games but I think these days they are getting fewer and farther in between. That's partly why I've just given up on dating and relationships. Maybe somebody special will just show up but I doubt it based on the hell other people go through.

[Anonymous]

Manosphere Logic:

If a female falls for someone who attracts and interest her and it goes wrong... she's a shallow bitch who gets what she deserves for not giving some other guy she wasn't interested in (who desires her sexually) what he wants.

If a male falls for someone who attracts and interests him and it goes wrong, she's a shallow bitch for not giving him what he wants.

[dominiquois]

Exactly

[pavlove]

Beautiful take my dude. I really like how you had a clear beginning middle and end kind of like a story but also very informative. it's true many girls especially good looking ones are players but of course men do enable it. i agree with everything you said pretty much

[myTake Owner]

thanks man!
Yeah, some girls have good intentions, this one was dedicated to all the he pimps!

[QuestionMan]

I'm not a player but I feel like every girl wants to play this game. All I want is for girls to be straight forward and cut the bs.

[myTake Owner]

as do we all lol!
its hard to be straight forward, especially if you have selfish intentions

[QuestionMan]

I just wish I could go up to a girl and say "Listen I find you attractive and would like to get to know you but at the end of the day I want you for both your personality and your body". However if I say this, a girl will slap me across the face and call me a pervert.

[myTake Owner]

lol!!! true...
part of talking to women is about finesse and stuff...

[QuestionMan]

That's the very thing I hate about talking to women.

[LittleSally]

Player isn't the same as manipulator...
Men tend to lean on the player side, while women tend to lean on the manipulating side... - IF they're that type of a person.

[Anonymous]

Oh! I get it now!

"If a man keeps failing to provide his woman with one of these needs she will look elsewhere for it"

Women are needier. They have to have someone to emotionally fulfill them, financially fulfill them, and sexually fulfill them. Men only need one of those 3 to be happy, and women can't live without all 3 because they're spoiled

[9mfeo]

Honey, I like you, I do, but I think your age and inexperience are showing here.

[myTake Owner]

haha maybe a bit, i wrote this after getting played a bit by a pretty girl :/
But i dont think its entirely wrong, although i know it isn't entirely true

And not all girls are "Players" who are out to use men, i understand that =)

I like you too :)

[9mfeo]

You're very reliant on stereotypes on both sides. That's not necessarily an accurate description of the real world. Stay critical, my love.

[Ashely_Princess]

All the boys I liked were usually players or just straight out mean to me

[myTake Owner]

Yep, Players know how to talk the talk :)
Its our job to relize why we feel attracted to them, and understand their intentions although it can be tricky

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Now that was just cruel.

[Anonymous]

Fuck the game and the players can go fuck themselves. I'll date women not girls.

[Anonymous]

Lol I with go out of my way for some pussy. lol

I'd fight beat up steal kill run jump for som e pussy lol. Esipcally if she really cuts and I got a chancr. like a almost for sure I'm gonna have sex then there no force in the universe that's gonna stop mem

Puzsy is my yellow sun.

I'm Superman

[missy223]

What if I drive and don't need a guy to drive me back home hahaha

[myTake Owner]

haha well more power too you! =)

[vishna]

Well, not all women cheat if they aren't getting what they need. You had that sentence highlighted, and I have no idea why.

I would leave, and have left, not cheated when I was unhappy.

[SunshineAmy]

Am I the only one who thinks 'phone full of numbers' rings of 'binders full of women'

Either way, this post is silly. Not every girl who is afraid of being played acts like this.

[Agirlcalledkill]

I've just figured out I`m a player too in some kind of way... I do have numbers of men who would be ready to sex, cuddle me or go out with me. I've never thought about it that way. :O