Why I'm still not ashamed of having a large chest: The sequel to the Busty Pride take

[WaterNymph611]

In the myTake "Why I'm not ashamed of having a large chest" I wrote about why I'm not ashamed of having a large bust. I have received both praise and hate comments. This time, I'm going to clear up what I have said with the infamous "I feel more like a woman and less like a girl" comment.

As a busty girl, I'm still a girl. And as a skinny girl, you're also still a girl. And busty women are still women and skinny women are still women. I didn't think that the comment would cause asuch trouble as it did because I thought I was the only girl in the world that wanted to look older. I have went to each individual woman (and man) who got upset by the infamous comment and I tried to explain that it was how I felt, personally, about the appearance of my bust and how it made me feel happy to have a big chest and the story might have ended here and I would not be writing a sequel to the take. HOWEVER, some users (won't name names but will say that all (but one) were women) began busty-shaming me and saying that I "faced insecurities", was "fat", "didn't get guys", or that I was simply "ugly". I will apologize for making the smaller chested women feel insulted, but I will not apologize for having a big chest nor will I apologize for taking pride in it. We don't need to shame each other in order to prove how beautiful we are.

[ccp16]

This makes me think of my girlfriend who had a fight with her friend because she was all against bras and stuff and kept getting on my GFs case for giving into men. Well basically my girlfriend finally flipped one night and was all like I can't go down the stairs without one or else it hurts and I'f I didn't wear one they flap and get in the way- this girl had the gull to basically say she was lying and my girlfriend basically had to say, 'well what would you know with those itty bitty things, you don't know what life is like with big breasts'- it sounds harsh, but she would't let it go... and it is true, I have seen people basically shame women with big breasts either out of jealousy, or for not understanding the problems that come along with it. I get the same thing with short guys upset with me for some complaints I have about being tall. I'm not saying I would shrink myself- but that doesn't mean I need to hear your jelousness saying how my life is perfect because I am tall- just as women do this to large chested ladies I am sure. You like having them of course, but that doesn't mean there aren't issues with having them.

[thera]

Honestly, you're better than me! I kinda dislike my big ol tiddies, bc they get in the way of my clothes. Like, if I wear loose clothing, it hangs like a curtain off my boobs, and it gives off the impression that I'm fatter than I am, or that I'm expecting or trying to hide a baby bulge or something, because I have such a loose, roomy shirt. Or when I have to wear button-ups to work, I absolutely hate how my the size of my boobs stretch out and ruin the button holes in my shirt, and causes my buttons to pop and fall off bc of how much they're stretched to hold on. I kinda hate it also because I feel like the size just weighs my boobs down and makes them saggy and not cute and sitting pretty like other girls. As silly as it is, I kinda envy those girls with smaller boobs. It makes them seem a little elegant and petite and pretty because of how small and almost boyish their bodies seem. It's kinda aesthetically pleasing, from an artistic point of view. I dunno. We all want what we can't have. I can't change my rack, so I might as well start loving it, huh. It's gonna be a part of me regardless!

[RetroReviews]

Big ol tiddies lol, I'm curious how big they are and I'm sure you look great

[Anonymous]

This take is the equivalent of a guy posting "I'M NOT ASHAMED OF MY BIG DICK"

Of course you're not ashamed because people WANT bigger chests.
Have you not heard of breast enhancement? Women spend thousands of dollars to acquire said chest.

If you're a busty girl guys pay WAAAY more attention to you.
These girls usually have a higher self confidence. Perhaps throughout their teenage years they might feel about it momentarily but they soon realize that having a big chest is a gift sent from heaven.

I think you're pissing off more women because you're just basically saying " I love having big breasts. It makes me feel like a real woman and not a little girl"

Most of us, especially me, aren't blessed with womanly features. I'm 22 and still can't fill a god damn training bar and it's really a slap in the face when women like you, go about boasting how their chest is so big, or complaining about how they're so heavy/ such a nuisance.

I have been dumped because he said my body didn't satisfy him. He said he wanted big tits to smother him and to suck on them and that it was something I could just never give him. He said he needed a real woman.
It really stung.

Basically, what I'm trying to say is, you sound like a guy saying he's not ashamed of having a big dick.

[WaterNymph611]

I'm sorry.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

Hmmm, that guy was an idiot. And yes you are womanly, and you should be proud of your body, but so should busty women.
Everybody wants what they can't have. You say big breasts are a God-given gift, because they get you more attention.
And then here's me thinking, "I wish I had smaller boobs". You wanna know why? Because they hurt, they get in the way and the attention isn't nice attention, it's not nice at all when [people's attention is on your boobs and not your personality.
Also, big penises aren't always fabulous.
Biggr isn't always better and it's not what it's made up to be. Yes there are definitely positives, but there are negatives too.
Also, a lot of women have breast reductions, because they don't have higher self-confidence.
Bigger breasts are what sciety promotes, but when you have them, it's never seen as a good thing.

[WaterNymph611]

@LuckyLittleLucy Good lady. 👍🏻

[LuckyLittleLucy]

Haha, thank you! I made it as honest as I could!
People who simply assume the rule "bigger is better- no exceptions" are girls with small boobs- who are insecure or jealous- and guys who only want big boobs and go about it all wrong.
Girls with big boobs want smaller boobs because we only see the advantages. However, girls with different bra sizes can get along in perfect harmony without bothering with cup size- because we're proud of our own really!
It's okay for people looking for female partners to say 'well I prefer bigger/smaller boobs" but honestly, both types are great.
My only qualm is I wish society would stop shaming women by saying "If you have small boobs, you're not womanly enough" or "If you have big boobs, they're fake, you're just looking for attention, you're using your boobs to show off".
Most people with big boobs are nice. And normal. Most people with small boobs are nice. And normal. You're just normal people. Boobs happen.

[WaterNymph611]

@LuckyLittleLucy I should have consulted you when I wrote the takes XD

[LuckyLittleLucy]

I was considering writing them myself- but I get way too ranty! Also, have you noticed the double standard?
If you're small, be proud and share that pride. If you're big, be proud- but keep it to yourself.
Always a double standard unfortunately!

[WaterNymph611]

@LuckyLittleLucy I know right?

[Anonymous]

I think you are lacking in basic common sense if you are surprised that people have taken offence to "I feel more like a woman and less like a girl" -- if say that you believe it makes you "more" of a woman- then by implication, you are suggesting that you would feel less feminine if you had smaller breasts. It comes across as a dig at smaller chested women. It's the equivalent to me saying that having smaller breasts makes me feel more youthful (the implication of such a statement being that women with bigger tits look matronly and older than they are).

[RexCatholicissimus]

I need to ask, does this really bother you so much that you felt you had to do a sequel MyTake?

Why does the opinions of some people about you having big tits warrant an explanation from you? Hell, why did it warrant such a LARGE MyTake beforehand? I might be an alien here but it just dumbfounds a little.

Don't get me wrong I'm happy that you're happy with your chest size just like I'd be happy for a dude if he were happy with his penis size, but if it were me I think I would have just rolled with it.

[WaterNymph611]

True. But I didn't want a bunch of offended smaller chested girls to take a blow to their self-esteem by a misunderstanding from me.

[peachblossomluck]

Isn't bustiness genetic like any other physical trait? It's not like busty women go around and taunt flat chested women. We just want bras which fit comfortably and stylish clothes.

[WaterNymph611]

Yes! I hate having to settle for the wrong size and fork over hundreds of dollars for one that does fit!

[Anonymous]

If you are lucky to deal with them, go for it! I am happy you accept yourself and your 2 friends the way they are (: my respect to you. It should be forbidden for other people to harrass others for that... it's not like we made the choice on how big they are.

I'm a large D-E cup (European size) and if I could, I would be proud of mine. But however, I'm only 160cm tall and my body's skinny - which gives me a large amount of problems like heavy breathing, pain, etc... I will make a breast reduction because I' not able to carry the weight since I do work out a lot and this makes it extremely painful each time...

But I know about the people always chatting behind your back or calling you names, saying they're fake etc. They just can't handle the fact that there ARE big chested women in real life too. Let them stare/be jealous/angry. Typical people with unneeded prejustices.

[Lolomon]

D cup here, had them since I was 12 or 13 and my waist is 25 inches. So yea I had a lot of back problems but what solved that is working out and strengthening my back muscles now no more pain. I always thought big boobs were ugly plus when girls tell you big boobs are ugly and bullying from it makes you start feeling like it is. Eventually I started loving my boobs and body and nothing anyone says would make feel otherwise.

[silverfeline]

Not to be nosy but what is you rib cage measurement because my waist is 24 inches and I have a d cup bust but my back doesn't hurt.

[Lolomon]

Well my waist is 25 and your waist is right below your rib cage smallest part , I don't see what your rib cage has to with back pain, your waist and shoulders do.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Who the fuck told anyone that big boobs were a bad thing?

[WaterNymph611]

Some girls on the myTake I wrote (which this one is actually a sequel to).

[RetroReviews]

Right on big boobs for the win

[Abigail1711]

I got big ones. And that's the reason why I was bullied at school AND college.
Jealous idiots.

[WaterNymph611]

Wow, really?

[RetroReviews]

How big Abigail love that name by the way

[loneman]

I can understand why people like to have fun with people. Joke around. But sometimes it crosses the line into cruelty. I love Busty Women, and I never made fun of them. :)

[GodzillaGuy]

Big or small its all about who you are and what you do. Attitude is key, behavior is key. What other people think is not, if they don't like it they can F off.

[Anonymous]

Im a D cup and I'm too happy that I'm not boy chested. If I had anything lower that a C I would have been sad.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Now THAT'S funny. This comment I like.

[RetroReviews]

I read both your stories I'm just curious how busty are you

[Anonymous]

What on earth is there to be ashamed of? Big boobs ROCK!

[Opinion Owner]

by the way, it's no surprise that most of the hate you got was coming from other women! lol! It's all about competition!

[WaterNymph611]

But it shouldn't be. That's why I wrote both of the takes.

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed! Just how large IS your chest anyway, because that might partly explain the reaction.

[WaterNymph611]

It's 38 inches.

[Opinion Owner]

Is the your bra band size or the measurement around your boobs?

[WaterNymph611]

That's my bust measurements.

[Opinion Owner]

Got it. What cup size is that?

[WaterNymph611]

It's different everyone. It all depends on the band size.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. What do you usually have for both (band and cup) and how big a range does it vary over? I've never really understood how that works!

[WaterNymph611]

I'm a 30JJ

[Opinion Owner]

Oh Geez! You really DO sound like someone speaking from experience on large chest issues! lol!

[WaterNymph611]

It's not as big as it sounds XD

[Anonymous]

Don't know why I can only comment anonymous but nice one Nym!
Though I personally believe apologizing wasn't entirely necessary...

[WaterNymph611]

Hm... That's strange. That you can only comment anon...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know did you block me again?

But anyway like I said I didn't really think it was entirely necessary to clarify that one point, after all you you address this in your last post...

[WaterNymph611]

I don't think I blocked you again...

[WaterNymph611]

And thank you for thinking that I was clear in the first one :)

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome Nym 😊
But man, did you get a lot of hate for that one misunderstanding. If only they read the whole thing.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it says I'm blocked! Why cuz, I thought we was cool?

[WaterNymph611]

It shouldn't say you are blocked. Can you check again?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 32DD and all of my friends say how big they are and poke them. It gets annoying sometimes.

[WaterNymph611]

You could tell them that's sexual harassment. Have you?

[RetroReviews]

That would get annoying people need to learn self control and keep their hands to themselves

[Anonymous]

Need more info. Are you fat? because big tits on a fat woman are not pleasing. It's like little baby abs on a twig skinny justin bieber kid. lol

[WaterNymph611]

No, I'm not fat.

[RetroReviews]

So you think small boobs look better on a fat woman?

[Anonymous]

I have a big chest too I thought I was a 36d or a 34d and I got a massurement and it turned out that I'm a 34c

[WaterNymph611]

Did you get bullied for it at all?

[Opinion Owner]

no and nobody even noticed that I have a big chest

[WaterNymph611]

Lucky you XD

[Opinion Owner]

lol thanks 😊

[RetroReviews]

C is considered average

[Anonymous]

busty girls are bombshells. End of story. Consider yourself blessed.

[starryeyedkitten]

Double d life!!!:) I love my big boobs

[RetroReviews]

Right on my kind of woman

[Anonymous]

Wow so you have all these people hating you because of your large breasts? How awful.