This is something I have noticed for a long time now, that far more women than men support homosexuality and gay marriage than what men do. I did some research and discovered that this is true, that according to studies, women are twice as likely than men to support gay marriage.
In my opinion this is because women think with their hearts, whereas men think with their brains. Women seem to make decisions based on their emotions, whereas men tend to make decisions based on logic and common sense. Maybe this is the reason why women weren't allowed to vote for so many years. Maybe that's why the government and politicians pander to women in order to get the vote. After all, I think it was mostly women who voted Hitler into power.
Disagreeing with gay marriage doesn't mean you are homophobic. I disagree with pornography. That doesn't mean I have a phobia of porn stars. I even use to work in a gay club, and never felt intimidated. I just believe sex and marriage should be between a man and a woman. The fact that gay marriage supporters have to use the "homophobic" card just shows how irrational and dishonest they really are. There are plenty of gay people who think that sex between a man and a woman is gross. Does that make gay people heterosexual phobic?
When it comes to the rights of gay people and marriage, the reason there is so much conflict is because some people believe that God has the authority on marriage, and others don't. If there is a judgment day then anyone who supports gay marriage will go to hell. But if there is no judgment day, then people will simply remain forever in the grave or get reincarnated.
I personally believe, based on multiple life after death experiences of heaven and hell, that there is an afterlife and that God has the authority on marriage. It's just a shame that so many women can't use common sense instead of their emotions.