You CAN'T get out of the "Friendzone" (Page 2)

[Gafgorkion]

It is possible to escape the friendzone in certain situations. For example, if a girl already has a boyfriend, then every other guy in the world is automatically in the friendzone by default. (Unless she cheats, and you wouldn't want a cheater anyway.) If you're friends with her and they later break up, then you can make a move, and maybe she will see you as more than a friend then. I have seen that happen several times.

[VegetaSSB]

The unique reason you get friendzoned is because the person isn´t attracted to you, and you can get off, i have seen this happening, but not without going to the gym and getting the packs, if you understand me.

[joeblow123]

If they reject you reject them. If you can fuck one of her girlfriends then she can tell the girl who dumped you. If it is ever reversed and she desires you make her pay royally.

[Coconut_Man]

This is true 99% of the time.

I believe you can escape the friendzone if you have Game and you play your cards right 😎

Great Take PrincessPie 👍👍

[PrincessPie]

😎😎😎

[joeblow123]

If you had game you wouldn't be in the friendship zone to begin with.

[rendang]

Actually, you can. Just leave a good impression. Then set a distance. Then you go back with much better version of you. Sometimes it takes years, but yes, you can.

[Soosh]

Frienzone or not. Either way you should try once or two then leave.
A story happening with my coworker he pursue me in a crazy way.
He keep trying to buy me coffee, food, help me with my work talk to me even tho he knows I’m ignoring him on Snapchat. He didn’t take No as an answer

[chriss]

So many of my coworkers do this.

Are you sure you are acting like this because he is not a female?

[Soosh]

@chriss He’s a guy

[SirRexington]

I want a lover who is my best friend. Is that too much to fucking ask?

[PrincessPie]

No, i think everyone wants that, that isn't what the take means lol..

[SirRexington]

Usually people can't extradite the two though. And for good reason, it's a very thin grey line. And I disagree with many of the points on here but I don't want to get into it. I don't feel like typing my own My Take I'm this response.

[Thatblokeoverthere]

You know when it is happening deal with it. Everyone and I mean everyone has friends outside the circle so do it, talk to them, mix with them, get involved, it will soon be a faint memory and you will be having more fun.

[Metaanio]

Getting out of friendzone is easy, just walk away from there.

Upgrading it to relationship is indeed impossible if other doesn't feel same way.

[just_tired]

Great take! If they don't like you, leave! You're only hurting yourself.

[effyourfeelings]

It's usually guys with weird ideas who think that they can get any woman they want out of the friend zone
They're either stupid or have no respect for themselves and others
Or both

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing.

[fauchelevent]

Hmm, I think it's definitely possible to escape the 'friendzone' but also definitely rare. A super well-written take anyway! :)

[joeblow123]

Meanwhile society forces men to cater to women. It's easy to talk shit about men when you are a privileged princess. Don't believe. Be tardy when it comes to that child support/alimony payment and find out what happens. Be rude to her in public and watch the white knights come out of the woodwork. Women have it a lot easier than men.

[Anonymous]

If someone is friend zoning you, then it means that they're not interested. I always avoid guys who try to friend zone me because its not worth being their friend since I'm the one that's getting hurt.

[Nora_Sutherlin]

I agree with it. The whole point of relationship is attraction, you don't come into relationship with someone whome you're not attracted to. And obviously a person can't grow feelings out of the blue.

[jss123]

Simplest way to see if you are in the friend zone is to have the strength to have the "what are we" conversation and not live in hope. I've had it twice in 3 years. the first person said they weren't interested the second is now my girlfriend. Sometimes they're also interested but are in the same position as you and don't know how to bring up the subject.

[bellybuttonlint]

This is why I don't go into the friendzone. It's awkward when one person crushes the other... it never works.

[melanieeeB]

Thank you! Lmao exactly this! Like you said it isn't meant to be and so why force it?

[Idontknow092]

I think its a good thing that you most likely can't get out of the friendzone because it forces you to look for someone that is right for you.

[Marinepilot]

I disagree. I've gotten out of the friend zone by stating my feelings and I walked away if I needed to. It can be done, but in my opinion the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

[Hal2002]

What you said is very true, stating you feeling can work but almost never works. Walking away and putting distance between you, is the way the works the best.

For myself, if I accept being friend zoned. I usually ended up learning to much about that person, and that usually kills any attraction I once had for them.