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Nah nah hold up. You females today are way more sexually available now than past generations. This is an utter joke. I tire of you young chicks trying to tell us all about your fake standards and caution with sex. Hookup culture would be nothing without you, nor would there be as many STDs and unwanted pregnancies going on. You gotta real here, come on now.
If you would read the whole thing, i did state that it is easier for women to have sex.
And i never denied that women can be promiscuous. Also, i said that the parts about men, didn't apply to every man. Not talking about every guy or every lady. And i did take a shot at women too.
My main point was that promiscuity isn't something that should be shamed or celebrated, on both sides.
@Ellie-V It doesn't really change my mind. I don't really think it's easier for women to get laid, I think that's mostly how women see it based on their own successes. If they get laid they assume it's easy just cuz they're women. No doubt, I know about guys who try and try or guys who get sex but not often, but I also know there are a hell of a lot of other guys getting it pretty easy with multiple women at that.
Well apparently on this site there are plenty of men who would agree that women have it easier.
@Ellie-V On GaG? Sure. And this site is where you hear it the most, because a lot of the guys here ARE struggling to get laid or are still virgins. But that doesn't change reality.
@Ellie-V Kinda pointless now to make yourself anon, wouldn't you say?
"We do it for ourselves." Really? If you grew up on an isolated island where nobody else ever saw you, you would still do your hair and makeup etc? I get a kick out of this, and I've heard it before. You do it to make yourself more beautiful to others, whether it is the competition or to men. Admit it.
Also, they call women sluts because it IS that easy for women. At least if the guys they approach are slightly close to the same caliber. Meaning, Unattractive people can't just get with attractive people. But if you are similar in rating, a girl just has to ask the guy "wanna fuck?" And she has him. That is why women are supposed to be selective, because its tooo easy! And a "stud" is also a slut if he fucks everything that moves in his direction.
You do know whore and harlot mean prostitute right? The only thing a woman who likes to sleep around is a slut, but that only means someones who has many casual sex partners, so a girl who has had 1-2 casual sex partners is not a slut whether you want to believe it or not, thats the truth. But anyway, it is true men have a higher sex drive than women, but that's in younger years, in older years, women have a higher sex drive than men. Men start with a high sex drive and slowly drop with age. Women start with a low sex drive and slowly raise with age
A girl who has had 1and more casual sex is a slut
Omg, did you even fucking read?
I read that is why I disagreed with you
Doesn't matter if you disagree, what you think is wrong. What I sated is a fact, and you can't have an opinion on a fact
lol saying a woman who has had 1-2 sexual partners is not a slut is a fact?
How is that a fact. That is your opinion, not a fact. Your opinion was formed based on your own lifestyle.
Definition of Slut: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/slut
Definition of Many: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/many
1-2 is not many. Even 3 is cutting it slim. at minimum, I would give you 4 as 'many'
to others 100 is many, to some 3 is many. To me, 1 casual sex is enough to label women as sluts.
You're slow, aren't you?
Let me make it a little easier
Many: More than 3
Slut: A woman with many casual sex partners
This is a fact, meaning you can't have an opinion on it
I said whom I label as sluts. I can think up another word for labeling women for having 1 and more casual partners but that doesn't change my attitude towards women whom I call sluts.
how can you prove that many is 3 and not 2?
Either no one taught you how to count, or you're trolling
she is still a slut to ME. A sexually loose and immoral woman
Again, doesn't matter what you think because you're wrong
does that change my attitude for those women? No. They are still gross to me
Yeah, and you totally haven't done the same as them
Definitely. I'm a virgin (abstinent)
Mmmmhmmm, sure you are honey, sure you are
yes, I am. I know it is so hard to believe because nowadays there are very few girls like me. Most girls have sex before marriage. I know I am very unique
Oh, so you're a religious freak.
Got it, thanks for the conformation
(Also, you're not unique)
And not only for religious reasons. I'm very unique.
What other reason could you have?
(And no, you aren't unique even slightly)
sure because most Canadians wait for marriage
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/unique
You're not the only person who has ever or will ever wait until marriage before sex
I didn't say I]' the only person. I said most women don't wait for marriage which is true especially for you countrywomen
You said you were unique, which is false
But what Id' really like to know, is how you came to the conclusion I'm a countrywoman (Which is false btw)
I'm unique becasue I am not like most women
I literally gave you the definition of uniqe
You're not unique
Most women are not like me when it comes to sexual morality. This is great!
not typical; unusual:
example She has a very unique smile.
When you say most, you make it seem like you're the 1%, which isn't true, it's only about 55-45 to when women have sex
It seems you aren't even looking at the definition, because that's not what unique means
Lmfao especially in your cuntry, rigth?
I'm glad most women are different from me
Tf are you talking about?
Also, are you drunk? or are you on mobile?
I don;t drink I think it's gross when women drink alcohol
I'm glad most women ar enot like me. That makes me unique. Most men said they can't find a girl like me
waitingtillmarriage.org/.../...any-people-wait.png
You are 100% trolling, or you're a spoiled brat who think's she's better than everyone else for no logical reason
And again, YOU ARE NOT UNIQUE
That's been proven wrong countless times
Stop lying. You know there are more women who have sex before marriage than women who wait for sex in your country.
FACT!
Never said most women wait, the false fact is 1 in 30, it's been proven to be only about 1 in 8 women wait
Still there are many women unlike me
So there is only 1 girl like that? Because you said many means 1 earlier in the thread
It's easier to find women unlike me than women like me. No one can deny.
To me, 1 casual sex makes a woman a slut. Because casual sex shows women's immoral attitude
Actually, many people can deny
and again, it doesn't matter what you think, any women who hasn't had more than 3 casual sexual partners, isn't a slut
Who can deny?
Being oen of the 8 or 30 is indeed unique. I'm not one of the 3 that could make yu question my uniquness
About woemn who had 1 and more casual partners, she is sexuall immoral to me.
Anyone who has luck in rng
1 in 8 not 8 in 30 or 1 in 30
I'm gonna continue to say this until you stop being a retard and actually look up what unique means, because YOU ARE NOT UNIQUE
The only thing smart you have said (Because you're making a hell of a lot of spelling mistakes) is that it's immoral to you. That is the only think you can say about it. But they are not sluts, they are immoral, but that's your opinion
"That is the only think you can say about it. "
thing not think (since you mentioned brought up spelling mistakes)
Most people agree that abstinence is very rare nowadays it is just your retard and stubborn mind doesn't want to admit it.
I'm superior to those whom I call sluts.
This was for making you even angrier as it is obvious that you can't stand my dislike for sluts
Spelling mistake sure
False
You can't comprehend basic logic and arguments, so not sure why you're calling ME the retard, when you so clearly are one
Bitch, you're not superior to anyone
If you call someone a slut, and they aren't, you're an ass
Because there is no reason to hate sluts period, ESPECIALLY when you're retarded
Calling me names showed your true colors. I knew you problem is not who I label as sluts. Your problem is my dislike for women whom I label as sluts.
you're so close minded lol. How can you call me names because you think there is no reason for hating sluts? If you like sluts then thats you. I dont call you names for liking them. Im not close minded like you to force my opinipn into othets. Look this whole time youve been trying to change my definition of slut hoping that i would start liking them but it didn't work which made you even more bitter and you started calling me names for that.
Alright, I'm done, I actually can't deal with this one sided argument. You lady, don't understand basic information, and are just so ignorant and self centered, that you even dared to call me close-minded. Not to mention all your awful spelling and grammar mistakes.
I also never changed the definition of sluts, I literally gave you the fucking link to the official English meaning of slut from merriam webster, which if you're simple mind doesn't know, is the most trusted and official dictionary you can find
"Women actually go through the tiring process of getting waxed, shaved, hair done, make up, and waist trainers to actually look somewhat similar to the current beauty standards."
yea we should value something that women themselves created, it's called competition along your group.
also this should be taken for granted as much as a woman with higher look value would rather take a pretty guy who does something for his looks (men usually go to gym to do the same as you said, look good).
the beauty standard set by gay men and females themselves.
so your point of "men are studs because we have to put in the work to get laid while women only have to blink"
is deemed invalid because you first
-are not putting in the work for men itself
-it is not the same as showing interest and doing the approach
and
FYI men also take care about their looks, they just don't put on a pack o mud on their face
hun relax men and women have been programmed
we have been told from the time we were kids to hit on you women
If they would have told us not to hit on women from a young age
guess what we would not hit on you as much
it would be a lot less I promise
everyone is programmed to some extent even
but my programming is broken now
I don't even hit on women anymore I just walk around and they come on their own
plus I finally know the truth
so im very picky of what women I want around me
and most of you do not fit what i want
I'm relaxed, it's just a mytake jeez. I'm not personally affected by the stigma, but i find the labels "sluts" and "studs" ridiculous. And i wan't talking about every man or every woman, just those who shame and/or uplift promiscuous behavior.
No offense but i don't care that most women aren't for you.
I do, however agree and i feel the same about men. I'm interested in women. And i'm sure you don't care either. So bottom line... i feel ya :)
I agree just stop saying "YOU MEN" I'm like "I didn't do anything..." 😂
But I agree sure 🙂 Just I try to be better or already am, I don't know but I feel like you're making men the bad guys, and of course some men deserve it, but some girls give them attention and support them that's why there are bad boys.
I'm sorry... that only applied to the ones who believe in slut shaming
I do believe sluts exist, it's a mindset of wanting the most amount of sex no matter with who, where, or why, there's the male version too of course.. I just don't mind for them, they can enjoy whatever they do.
Promiscuity shouldn't be shamed or celebrated. Men sleeping around isn't an accomplishment and women doing the same isn't an atrocity.
I know, that's why I don't care, I'm neutral to these people.
same :)
We came to an agreement then xD :D 😂
Yay!
what an incoherent, desperate little rant. almost all was nonsense. promiscuity is shamed for a reason. families are the most stable form of briniging up children, and promiscuity is nothing but harmful for families, both before and after marriage. sluttiness and studom are real phenomena. as for the rest, its mostly misandric, ignorant jargon that tries to shame men cause... reasons... . and that makes as appeal superficial with ridiculous standards cause... reasons again... .
Promiscuity and "proud whore syndrome" masquerading as "empowerment". Truth is, men look down on promiscuous women, and women look down on promiscuous men, because neither are ideal mates.
@ericclayton Not me. I like em a little, Slutty & a little easy. I might not ever get laid if I only did it within the confines of a relationship. I'm totally comfortable with girls being as promiscuous as they want & I'm confident enough to know that I'm capable of satisfying a woman & the more she's with me the less she'll want to be with anyone else. If men gave these women the attention & satisfaction they deserve they wouldn't have to be out there like that.
@JayMichigan616 wrong paradigm. its not a lack of good mansluts thatsmaking them sluts. this worldview removes all responsibility from them. promiscuity is a mental illness with underlying existential roots.
Promiscuity isn't a state of mental illness it's the natural human condition. What's wrong is programming girls to chase true love & prince charming while staying pure & simultaneously sell them sex & double standards. That leaves us with women that are willing to put up with terrible relationships & men in hopes that he'll get better or he'll change. Or they'll kiss a ton of frogs in hopes one is a prince if u will. Rather than being empowered by their sexuality as they should be. Feeling free to play the feel until they find what they really want & deserve rather than being forced into these confusing & often subservient and demeaning roles. If they knew better they'd do better. You're right about the existential roots of these problems but these are social ills not individually sick girls. I'm a feminist. I want girls to have all the same options & advantages I have when it comes to life love & sex.
@JayMichigan616 you spew feminazi new age nonsense like a living cosmopolitan article. if anything promiscuous girls are the ones who waste their youth in a downward spiral of drugs, partying and depravity and they look like old hugs by their 30s. and with their inner world shattered and their heart drained. there is nothing natural in that. these are the type of girls with the most heart breaks and dissapointments. all women my family waited till marriage and have the most stable and happy relationships i know.
I agree with you on most of this.
Pretty much every straight guy is a slut, or wannabe slut. It doesn't matter if guys have to work harder to get laid, because the fact is, guys who DO get laid easily, and sleep around can be "sluts" too.
I also see people use the word "slut" as code word for dumb, ugly, and other irrelevant things.
You made so many untrue and unwarranted generalization about men in this rant, I'm not even going to bother responding to them. How sad that is coming from a woman who seems to think she is doing something to fight against sexism and double standards. The only thing you've managed to do here is come off as yet another bitter woman with her panties in a wad who has nothing but contempt for the male gender.
I specifically said that it only applied to those who believe in slut shaming. I have no personal feelings towards men because they don't affect me or my life. I am only addressing the fact that people applaud and shame promiscuity
No, you didn't. You made blanket statements throughout your rant about men without qualifying them. You made it clear that you are sexist and narrow minded. And wrong.
I stand by what I said above.
What is comical, and sad, about you and your rant here is how you place yourself on your high horse and tell people how sexist they are, and yet you are as sexist as anyone. You're just too biased, blind or naive to see it.
Open your eyes to your own sexism, for fuck sake.
I would apparently be considered a slut if people knew how many guys I´ve slept with. BUT because I keep my business on the low, I have never had the displeasure of being labeled a slut. I consider myself a liberated women haha and I enjoy having sex. If that makes me a slut, then okay, I dont mind. Its fun. No one know about my business, so I can still fool you all :)
fooling only you self. if you need to live like that its compensation for other things. the "don't judge me" wagon, is also nonsense cause we are all judged in the end. everyone comes to face her/his actions' fruits at some point. its inevitable.
you hide your shameful ass because you know you will get shamed. You know being a slut is shameful hence why you have hidden it.
Um wrong, promiscuity should be shamed and rightfully so. Promiscuous lifestyle is the reason and cause why the bond between man and woman is so weak now a days. People just want the sex but not the person they are doing it with, it's also the reason there's high levels of stds, unwanted and unplanned pregnancy, fatherless homes, high numbers of single mom's, and last but least, broken hearted people who don't trust, how to love and build relationships cause all they know is hooking up.
There’s so much wrong with the text after the initial question it’s impossible to to address it all 😒 ... so I won’t bother.
Id never judge a woman (for sleeping with guys whilst single) for something I’d praise a guy for. I’ll leave it at that.
As for the rest 🤯🤤
Every lifestyle has consequences, grow up, you can't have your cake and eat it too, also this isn't really mean't in an extremely malicious way but, most women have slut fantasies or are slutty at least once in their lives, the difference between studs and players/sluts is one does it casually, the other has a focus on it
Some guys (but not only guys) can't admit things that they think are emberassing. That has nothing to do with them being guys, its just a psychological thing that we all do. Some more, some less.
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction, life is like that. As already stated by someone before "Every lifestyle has consequences". Also guys & women both sometimes have "strange" thoughts. We normally compensated our life (in a certain way) through that.
You say that women have higher standards than men, but the 30 dicks you sucked determined that was a lie. 11points.com/.../maurycaptions-1600.jpg
I am not a promiscuous person, nor do i like men enough to "suck dick". I'm saying women in general have high standards, therefore making it harder for men to sleep around.
That was aggressive hahahaha
@rjroy3 what?
His joke was aggressive, but funny. Obviously it's not true. Just made me laugh lol
@rjroy3 guess she's never seen Maury before
"Women actually go through the tiring process of getting waxed, shaved, hair done, make up, and waist trainers to actually look somewhat similar to the current beauty standards."
Really? You're so fat and so unable to eat healthy and exercise that you need a corset? And why are you not able to do your own hair? Are you a model going to a photo shoot? Or has hair somehow become so difficult you can't shower, use shampoo, and make yourself presentable like a normal human?
there are such things as sluts, but a insult is only as bad as you make it... if girls had the same attitude to the term "slut" as guys had to the word "stud" then the problem would be removed, and girls give each other more grief about it than any guy will
The difference is that all women are sluts and there are very few studs.
I mean if the girl is a slut I stay clear.
Maybe we can be friends, but the personality that goes with it does not fit mine at all.
I get called racist and sexist and anything else, so might as well say my opinion about this as well.
Not entirely true. A woman could get laid pretty easily if she wasn't so picky. Doesn't need to go through all the waxing and shaving and dieting. Men aren't as picky as you think they are.
i din't say men were picky
But your claim about current beauty standards of how a woman needs to "go through the tiring process of getting waxed, shaved, hair done, make up, and waist trainers" must have had something to do with this right? Or were you just going off on a tangent?
. Girls do all that stuff for themselves most of the time, as i already said. It's not about men and their expectations for plenty of women. (Some do care what men think tho.)
I have heard men say that women don't go through much to look good and women don't put in any work on their appearance and still have plenty of sex.
In response tho those particular men who feel that way, was that women put in a lot of work, but it's not for the purpose of getting men to sleep with them.