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If he weren't a rich and powerful black man she probably still wouldn't be with him. Black women are gold diggers
Gold diggers huh? Name 3 black women with a rich and powerful black man.
Rich and powerful are any rich famous person to me hoe. That's why nobody wants your asses
I want something better than a black woman. White and Latina women
@scorchedwater All the ones I can find are with white women
True. Nobody wants black women. They're too disrespectful, and they have high standards and the ones with these standards shouldn't have any standards cus they're ugly as fuck with a nappy head
Lmao. How dare you tell the truth
Bit harsh wasn't it?
I think it's good for everyone to get their feelings out there
@AdmiralBailey i don't understand you. What is your stance? you want to see more black love, yet you agree with people calling black women nappy headed ugly women with disgusting attitudes?
@scorchedwater maybe that's what I like lol I'm forced to like it since they won't change their attitude
Is be nicer if black women had respect
it would but they refuse to listen to us. They don't respect anything we have to say. I'm sorry to say it so plain but it's how we feel. they know not to approach white men with attitude & weave
@Ghost285 lots of black women "have respect". in fact, those are the only ones i associate myself with. it's your own fault if you surround yourself online and in real life with ratchet women. you don't see me calling all white people sister fucking, southern racist hillbillies lmao
@AdmiralBailey riiiiight. because black men are just trampling each other to get with the natural woman with 4c short hair😂and white men have nothing to do with this, are you mentally okay
@scorchedwater I don't know any black women walking around with 1 inch of 4c hair so I couldn't possibly explicate the point you're making. Give us the chance to make that choice for ourselves if this is a concern of yours. I personally don't care what's on your head. Idc if you wear weave or have never touched weave; (even though I prefer the latter) I care more about your behavior and that you're a caring/loving girl.
@AdmiralBailey and that's a nice sentiment. but it's clear you think you're a "good guy" when in actuality you aren't. agreeing with someone who hates black women and says nasty things and you just sit there and laugh. how can you expect to come across black women who are caring and loving when you aren't even like that towards bw?
@scorchedwater It's the wrong way to go about it and you're right about it but it just seems like black women don't listen when we say it overtly so I just like quietly agreeing. At least I didn't personally hurt your feelings
@scorchedwater It's just tiring to keep asking our women to behave. It's embarrassing at best.
@AdmiralBailey I don't see how your method is working. let me get this straight: you "quietly" agree with the rude and hurtful things people throw at black women... while simultaneously getting mad that they have an "attitude"?
Have you ever thought that the reason some of them are so upset is because they read stuff like this by their own men DAILY and you still expect them to strip off their weave and change their entire attitude for what? To be with someone like you?
@AdmiralBailey what's also embarrassing is black men dressing horribly, speaking ebonics all the time, blasting rap music, not being faithful to anyone, and speaking trash on their mom.
@scorchedwater How do expect me to ever air my grievances? I guess I just won't say anything and just not deal with black women. You can say whatever you want to black men and we don't sit up here and fight back as if no part of it is true. You have the liberty to say "these niggas need to take care of their kids" and no black man will ever disagree but in fact a crowd of black men would agree. You can't do the same with black women even if it's been factually proven. We're not allowed to have one foul word to say about black women because it will be met with ridicule.
@scorchedwater But women date these men so how will the number of degenerates ever stall? Black women refuse to stop sleeping with dudes that catch the bus, smoke weed or have a criminal record. Say what you want about black men but at least we have the strength to put our collective feet down and have stopped dating a group that posses qualities we find repugnant.
@scorchedwater not to mention that black women raise these men! I get it that a lot of black men aren't there to raise their kids but that isn't the point. Who's worse? The firefighter who never showed up to work or the fire fighter that showed up to the fire and just sat in the truck watching as people jumped to their death but didn't help
you air your grievances my trash talking black women? your post was well thought out and addressed a good issue. THAT'S expressing grievances. not giggling about how shit bw are.
i disagree. black men will be the first to call a black woman w a white man a bendwench or a race traitor or an oreo etc. have you seen youtube comment sections where a black woman says she prefers white men? It's RIDICULOUS how rude you all are.
@scorchedwater You how I know I brought about good points? Because you didn't address any of my points LOL. Now you're attempting to gaslight me but I'm a bit smarter than that
lol "WHY DO BLACK WOMEN DATE SUCH HORRIBLE BLACK MEN LIKE WHAT ABOUT US GOOD GUYS THEY OVERLOOK? FUCKING REPUGNANT GROUP OF WOMEN" do you hear yourself or are you on drugs?
fucking hotep😂don't worry, we'll just continue dating gorgeous, professional, faithful, driven, and serious men (Serena william's husband, Lisa Bonet's husband, Ryan destiny's bf)--who happen to be all white (SHOCKER), while you black men, rappers and athletes, beat your wives and cheat on your girls with insta models😂
@scorchedwater What's crazy is that all he did was call out ugly black women. You could have just said 'he ain't talking about me' and moved on but he may have accurately struck a nerve. If a black girl said I don't date hideous and egotistical black men I wouldn't jump up and say "how dare you talk about me!" LMAO
@AdmiralBailey it's not a mothers fault that the black father is a constant pussy who abandons their child to have multiple baby mommas cause they can't control their dick.
@AdmiralBailey what points? all youve said is "black women are repugnant; black women have attitudes; i don't like black women bc they don't act how i want them to act; if they acted right maybe id be with their ugly asses" stop. your "points" are OPINIONS.
@AdmiralBailey he didn't say ugly black women? I asked him to name 3 gold digging black women who are dating "powerful" black men (if those even exist). then no one answered and you stepped in to verify his claims.
now we're having a convo.
lol but nice try.
@scorchedwater I don't want you to get the wrong idea. An argument is a problem solving exercise. I think you should take it down to a 2 because you're at a 10 right now.
@AdmiralBailey i'm not at a 10. i'm just stating that none of the questions i asked were answered and i also just said you can't be for black love yet against black women.
is that literally what you're so taken aback by? i told you black men were sensitive...
@scorchedwater I did make one solid point. Black women say we date and marry out at 3 times the rate. If this is true then it proves that black men (despite how ignorant & uneducated) have the ability to outsource women who make up for what they're not getting from black women. I genuinely hope more black women stop dating thugs/no good black men/drug dealers etc. because they make me look bad and as far as you continue to date them this trend will never revert.
@AdmiralBailey and that's their prerogative. if they want to date out, that fine. but there's no need to blame black women for that. if you prefer white women over black women, fine. that's on you; but dont blame us because we are NOT monolithic. I've met manly black men and i've met skinny nerdy black men. you're just scapegoating and saying you don't date black women bc we date thugs. huh? you think we make up one type? i've never even wanted to touch a thug. my first man was a white blonde hair blue eyed guy i attended private school with.
@AdmiralBailey if those thugs make you look bad, why aren't you mad at them? genuine question actually lmao what does their attitude and lifestyle have to do with you? are you them? do you have your own personality (even though it is quite shit)? do you have your own path in life? yeah. you do. so stop whining.
@scorchedwater Oh come on dude. Why do you keep responding to things I didn't say? but this is what black women do isn't it. All they can do is knock down straw-man arguments and won't answer a linear question. You're insulting yourself by saying that their something that's just intrinsically amazing about white women that we'll step over the sweetest & most beautiful black woman to be with any old ashy white woman. Talk about self esteem issues. If a bunch of black women started dating out I would think that there's something wrong with us as a whole because I don't believe white men are just so heavenly that I could never compete. I would actually straighten up my act and be a better man. Black women are more in love with white women than any man EVER could be because you believe your own men have no choice but to leave you for a snow queen since they're so naturally divine.
@scorchedwater Come on ma'am. You WOULD feel some type of way if all I did was complain about how black women ain't shit but I refuse to stop dating hoodrats with neck tattoos & multiple kids out of wedlock. Any normal person would ask 'why not just not date those kinds of black women?'. I think it's because black women aren't as confident as we are that there is better to choose from.
what things did you not say? you said: "black men have the ability to outsource women who make up for what they're not getting from black women."--then i told you that we aren't monolithic. that's a response to what you said.
the you said: "I hope more black women stop dating thugs/no good black men/drug dealers etc. because THEY make ME look bad"--then i told you why aren't you mad at THEM for acting that way? and WOW! You avoided it again! bravo! a black man avoiding something else other than responsibility? It's possible from black men to become even more degenerate, ladies!
if you want to date a white girl, i literally have no problem. i honestly think all women in each race have beauty. you do you, dude.
and you JUST said "i'd straighten up my act", so what you're saying is you aren't the best black man you could be yet you're complaining about bw not being the best they can be. you're funny asf.
Yeah, I would wonder why he keeps dating THOSE kind of black women. not WHY you're even dating black women.
understand the difference. just bc SOME black men do something doesn't mean ALL black men do it which is why i'm saying you sound funny asf.
@scorchedwater I'm out. I can't do this. I wish you a Happy New Year
Take out a piece of paper. Make columns labeled: White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Other. Watch commercials and every time you see someone, put a tick mark under the column.
I did that one time and found that blacks were represented far more than their population percent. Hispanics were far less.
irrelevant to the point
It was minority representation in advertisement.
No it isn't. It's the fact that you don't see two black people so often. You're more likely to see a black person with partner that's biracial, white, LGBT, or just single. My problem is that you'll see every combination beside black/black but whites get to be portrayed as white/white couples
You will see a far greater percent of BFBM charcter married couples on advertisements than you will in real life.
Depressing that white girls go for black guys so much and black men refuse to date their own. Quite stupid if you ask me.
This is also a good reason to end your life really.
triggered from a you tube ad fuck me, Dr King would turn over in his grave at this generations inability to embrace the rights they have that he fought for. You have a victim mentality and need to open your eyes.
you clearly don't hear what I'm saying
This is more liberal evil bullshit. Member when certain folk weren't allowed on golf courses? Yeah, I member.
Remember*
@Nachowedgie no, it's member berries
![I feel like black people need to have a serious discussion]()
There is one race, human. The longer people focus upon superficialities the longer people will be divided and the Elitists will control them.
IN MY COUNTRY WE DO NOT TOLERATE THE DARK MAN WITH WHITE LADY IT IS WRONG AND SHE IS NOT RESPECTED AND GOD WOULD NEVER APPROVE OF SUCH HORROR AND MIXING OF RACE SHE MUST BE REAL TRASHBAG HO
Change this to "I feel like I need to have a serious discussion with myself" and I'll read it
Seriously dude--who freaking cares? If the two of them love each other that's what matters, no?
love isn't real
Hmmm. . . going to have to disagree with you there man.
Who cares?
I'm black by the way
You're talking absolute nonsense.
O, how I wish!