Look man. I'll be honest with you. I have a motto. "The less fucks you give, the more laid you ged." Just don't give a fuck. Do what you want to do with your life. There's always some retarded weirdo to like you for who you are and if you're lucky enough she could be beautiful.
Fuck being nice, fuck being a douche, fuck it all. Just do WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANNA DO! That's how I live life now. If a friend asks for a ride, do I FEEL like giving her a ride? That's the bottom line to my decisions. I don't feel like it? Then I don't.
I can see you being single for the rest of your life because many women don't like douches/assholes. Or cowards as evident by you hiding behind the anonymous banner.
Yeah I think you're maybe half a year older than me... But I'm atypical. I want to go to graduate school and get a PhD, then hopefully a government job. A good income, my own place, some nice clothes... I want to get most of that before I get a girlfriend. I'm just too focused on my own career and self to care about someone else right now...
That's comforting but I feel abashed now for my mean comments earlier. I'll just have to accept that I said it and can't take it back oh wel... thanks for commenting.
I disagree on this one. Nice guys generally finish last but they finish best. Players will get girls way easier and quicker then the average nice guy. That is because the nice guy will want to put his heart and soul into the girl and that can make him shy or affraid of rejection. He will also be less experianced then a guy who doesn't care and mainly plays a game and practised his flirting on many girls before you.
In my book most non nice guys will have had a girl / sex long before the average nice guy would. But when the nice guy finally gets a girl its going to be a more healthy deeper relationship then the other guy will ever experiance any time soon.
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Lol just spit it out.
So, the only way to be a really nice guy is to be miserable?
Hopefully no :) It's more about being a nice guy for its own sake
@The_Empty Well yeah. You can be miserable and help any girl live her life while you are always behind.
Then screw being a nice guy, I'm depressed as is.
Look man. I'll be honest with you. I have a motto. "The less fucks you give, the more laid you ged." Just don't give a fuck. Do what you want to do with your life. There's always some retarded weirdo to like you for who you are and if you're lucky enough she could be beautiful.
Thanks for your thoughts and I don't think they are unreasonable. I'm trying to get myself laid these days too...
"Helping her get the guy she wants even if it's not you"
only a lame person would do this.
Then count me as lame, because loving someone is truly putting their happiness before yours, cliche or not. He's now happily with his girlfriend.
ITS LIKE WORKING FOR FREE
Exactly this, nice take.
Thank you but I nee more than niceness though to attract my girl x|
Fuck being nice, fuck being a douche, fuck it all. Just do WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANNA DO! That's how I live life now. If a friend asks for a ride, do I FEEL like giving her a ride? That's the bottom line to my decisions. I don't feel like it? Then I don't.
I can see you being single for the rest of your life because many women don't like douches/assholes. Or cowards as evident by you hiding behind the anonymous banner.
Well I agree that you should always be mindful of your own self interest honestly it's a very important practice to our lives..
? Because I look out for myself first means I'm a douche/asshole? lol... nasty ass feminist right there.
You should honor your self interest be also learn to be polite and agreeable with people. It's better for you in the long run. yeah...
Ok I think this back and forth has gone on long enough. Please continue it elsewhere... and I reported your last comment.
Look back and see who the aggressor is. You should be reporting her, buddy. Strong white knight there
It's just that ta my my take and I don't want it to have a nasty argument..
"Just do WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANNA DO!"
Precisely the attitude of Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold.
An uneducated troglodyte.. Lol. Yes, I'm CLEARLY angry though my smiley face emoticon indicates otherwise.
Here's a tip for you: women don't like simple dudes or cowards. :)
Does it count to "not get laid or in a relationship" being a nice guy? Y'know... nice guys finish last?
I hope not but being a nice guy is not really results oriented so I think most people have problem with that. Sorry I didn't check this until now
Soo why are you still single?
Not ready yet for a relationship basically.
I'm still too selfish young and selfish...
We're the same age, I feel old.
Old and rotting.
Yeah I think you're maybe half a year older than me...
But I'm atypical. I want to go to graduate school and get a PhD, then hopefully a government job. A good income, my own place, some nice clothes... I want to get most of that before I get a girlfriend. I'm just too focused on my own career and self to care about someone else right now...
That's why I sometimes wish I were older because then I'd have most of that already. I just have to patiently work at it yea...
I don't know so what are your plans anyway? I'm curious. Do you got a relationship yet?
Just working and saving up money. No relationship, haven't really put myself out there nor have I even bothered trying.
Absolutely true! Good for you! 😉
Thanks hopefully this can help me get a good girl someday too lol
Well done and well said!
Thanks
Genuine nice guys always finish first in my book
That's comforting but I feel abashed now for my mean comments earlier. I'll just have to accept that I said it and can't take it back oh wel...
thanks for commenting.
"Genuine nice guys always finish first in my book"
I can't agree. Many do. Some do not.
@ihav2fart but Asian boi finish last </3
@Keyspirits yeahh we finish last ;(
LOL Now that is funny xxbebosxx
I disagree on this one. Nice guys generally finish last but they finish best.
Players will get girls way easier and quicker then the average nice guy.
That is because the nice guy will want to put his heart and soul into the girl and that can make him shy or affraid of rejection. He will also be less experianced then a guy who doesn't care and mainly plays a game and practised his flirting on many girls before you.
In my book most non nice guys will have had a girl / sex long before the average nice guy would. But when the nice guy finally gets a girl its going to be a more healthy deeper relationship then the other guy will ever experiance any time soon.
Awesome! Very well written! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you! I'm sad to see you go though :(
Wow, great take. Thank you.
You're welcomes
Yeah I'd kill for one of those... everytime
Sarcasm at its finest.^
Genuine nice guys don't always finish last.
that's comforting and thanks for commenting.
For #1. of "really means", have you let her know you're interested in her?
This is a great take. Good job :)
Loved your take! Great job. (:
Good one my friend. Being a nice guy is crucial!
4 . Beat up on yourself for not being successful with women because its always the guy's fault.
5. Being a nice guy only works when you are physically appealing
I agree with point five...
Its the truth.
I guess it is, but it's not put in a positive light.
Everything I wrote applies to women too. I should have disclaimed that at the conclusion.