Should I tell my best friend I kinda like to crossdress?

[Anonymous]

We have been friends for a while and recently i have been particularly intrigued by crossdressing. Should i telk her?

Tell her

Keep it to yourself

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+1 y

I just don't want things to be weird between us ya know?

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+1 y

So i ended up telling her and she thought it was a little weird but she is warming up to the idea. She isn't ready to see me dressed up yet but she will one day im optimistic about it.

[DeaXoXo]

You should tell her only if she is open to LGBTQ people and do it in public in case she tries anything. Also, you can open up about this to all your GAG friends and me too. Just so you know, we all need each other for support so don't new across to talk to me about it if you need to.

[bigcitygirlygirl]

If she is a close enough friend of course. I don't believe in lying or keeping anything from my closest friends.

[douride2]

Only if you feel you can trust her. A friend of mine opened up about his fetish some didn't take it well.

[Asker]

What happened? If you don't mind my asking?

[douride2]

Some thought he must be gay.

[Asker]

What was his fetish

[douride2]

He was also a cross-dresser, straight as they come though. In reality it made no difference to me which way his sexuality went.

[Asker]

So how are things with him now?

[douride2]

He still cross dresses & we are still very close friends.

[Asker]

Im glad he had someone to tslk to about that

[douride2]

Best of luck to you & your friendship.

[theFIN13]

If you can trust her tell her :) having a close friend you can be fully open and honest with is a great feeling. She could be happy to help you with it all and give you someone to talk to about it :)

[theFIN13]

Thanks for the MHO mate!!
Wish you all the best with it!!

[whose2sayso]

She is your best friend for a reason and although it might catch her off guard, I don't think that there would be any huge consequences from telling her. Be brave and good luck.

[tenchu11]

Why do you like cross dressing?

[Asker]

I don't really know it's really new to me and i just kind of feel drawn to it recently I don't know

[tenchu11]

Weird question does cross dressing make you attracted to men? You should tell some one though keeping it secret brings insecurities and pain to yourself.

[Asker]

No i am completely hetero, have zero interest in dudes whatsoever. I just feel drawn to women's clothes

[tenchu11]

From a completely unbiased view it's a little weird but hey I'm open minded an to each their own. It could be worse you know? But do tell her if she is scared then maybe she wasn't that good of a friend or might just need time to process it.

[Asker]

That's what im afraid of if i tell her and she isn't down with it i could lose one of my best friends and then my big secret is out

[tenchu11]

Well, you have to tell some one eventually. Maybe go to a drag show or talk to some people in your home town or nearby city who have the same interest. They might be able to help you out better than here.

[KDA20]

If you feel you can trust her , go for it.

[Despondency]

Tell her. Because why the fuck not?

[phartingchicken]

tell her do I tell her

[Anonymous]

Don't trust women dude