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Do you think guys care if a woman is promiscuous? (Page 3)
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Yes generally a girl who doesn't hold her body to a higher standard reduces her value.
Since women generally hold the sexual power and pick and choose who, when, and how often they do it... a female who does it with any guy that shows her attention is essentially saying that it doesn't take a special kind of person to be with her and therefore isn't worth as much as a female who expects a male to be special before letting him have the treasure.
Like the saying goes... a lock that any key can open, is a useless lock.
Will a guy have sex with an easy girl... of course. Starving African children don't turn down shitty food as long as they get to eat. We don't turn down sex if it's the only option available.
You're right, nobody talks about it, so I believe it would depend on the guy. Personally I would care a bit since it means her concept of commitment is a little shaky if I were looking for a relationship with her, but I would also be able to talk it out and move on once the issue is done with.
Most guys care, however, it seems pretty two-faced if the guy is a player! I think most respectable men would rather not be with a woman that has slept around a lot.
Not from the perspective of ewww that's disgusting but more the perspective of, I wonder if she is actually done with that lifestyle? ie., from a faithfulness pov!
Screw the players too. They make the lives of decent men difficult. They're scum parasites who need their teeth kicked in.
@mostwomenshouldstfu that pretty much sums it up!
A key that can open any door should be exhalted, but a Lock that be opened by any key is worthless.
Bingo... it looks like she lacks self worth and for a ltr how that work if she doesn't value herself. That said... it is more about where she is at right now emotionally.
a lock is an object without any feeling or libido it can't be compared to women aka a human being grow the fuck up and it's a 16 year old girl who is telling you that
@sara_nour it's an analogy. In the dating scene at any given time most women once they hit puberty will spend most of the rest of their life fighting off guys who are trying to fuck them. They are the ones that have to select the best suited male. Guys on the other hand after puberty spend their time trying to sleep with as many women as possible which means proving we are the best candidates by displaying a whole host of attractive characteristics. So a guy who is able to sleep with many women is usually celebrated. It's like someone who gets every job he applies for. Verses a woman who hires any applicant that walks in the door. As a young girl you may not understand this but it affects pretty much how all men and other women see you even if they aren't open about it. As a girl you are free to sleep with as many men you want but most men when looking for a wife and the future mother of their children would prefer the girl that hasn't been to the moon and back and vice versa
@sara_nour poll results support my argument
i'm a virgin so i don't have to think about it now but i hate when women become sex object and it only worth is between her legs. i know many people think like that but they need to know that women should have the freedom to sleep with whoever how many guy she want to without being treated as an used object and when you love someone you don't care about their past plus you can get married with a women who have a perfect reputation but had a past of promiscuous women or you can refuse to date an intelligent and perfect women because she have a bad reputation that is the result of fake rumors.
@sara_nour that is your personal opinion but the majority clearly disagrees.
i don't care the day i will set up or get married with someone i want him to have the same mentality and respect for the women and her body as me. ignorance is a turn off for me.
They do care. I care as well if a man is/was promiscuous. I wouldn't be with a man who slept around in the past and/or with a man who paid whores. People are free to do whatever they want in regards to their sexual life. It doesn't mean that I would ever accept being with someone who used to screw around in the past. It's a deal-breaker to me.
However, I consider it hypocritical and stupid when promiscuous men demand to date virgin women and/or women who never had one night stands.
If you come on cheap and aggressive it's a turn off... It's fine to approach us, but do it with a little class and dignity. Girls that are fucking their way through the phone book have a certain vibe, a crave for attention, that thirst... Most men don't care if you have fucked other men. It's normal to have a number of relationships and flings in your passed. Just don't be that emotional wreck that's fucking everything because you feel dirty inside.
It seriously depends on the amount of promiscuity. If her pussy looks like somebody threw a grenade at deli counter, hell no. But if she's just more expirienced, certainly. Also, why are women even answering? I mean, of course, they'd probably vote the top one to make men think it's weird to date promiscuous women for the sole reason of making them want to not do so, therefore giving them a better shot with men. That's a bit petty, to say in the least.
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My experience:
If men think you are "hot" all their previous judgement won't matter re them dating you BUT the underlying jealousy and anger WILL surface and explode eventually and when it does its NEVER in private.
Most guys are willing to fuck promiscious women as long as she's "hot" but most of them dont want them as long term girlfriend. The ones that do will eventually get jelous and paranoid as you said.
@mattty
I have had three men leave their wives for me even though I am a serial dater who makes that VERY clear upfront.
Those are men with no integrity and they are pretty much the same as promiscious women who cheat. I would personally never do that. Then again why did you even date married men? You are basically same as them. Likes attract likes.
@mattty
(smiling) I am single so am not the one who has made a commitment to another person.
doesn't matter. If you're going after someone whos commited then you're no different from the commited person that is cheating. I had married women going after me and I still turned them down because its simply not worth it. But what you're saying basically answers why most guys dot want promiscious women for long term relationships. You just proved that you have no morals and justifices it that "its ok" because you're single. Yes its ok to date other commited men if they have no morals either. As I said likes attract likes. Depends what kind of people you meet. But its your life do whatever the hell you want to do. there's always someone for anybody no matter what he's like.
@mattty
I never initiate anything, even when I am interested in the person.
I just RESPOND to people.
Obviously you have your own views about morality which are totally different to mine.
Cheers xo
Of course. I will repeat it again likes attract likes. Those man obviously have same views on "morality" as you. Other people may not. You are simply putting up with commited men who are willing to leave their wives for you. doesn't matter if they approach you first. Some people are willing to do that some dont. But just because you meet men that are willing to do that doesn't mean that most guys do. Bottom line. Those men that are willing to leave their wives for you would most likely left you too for someone hotter. While others wouldn't put up with you. It really depends who are you trying to attract.
@mattty Those wives deserve better anyway.
@FashionQueen86 Yes. While cheaters deserve each other too.
they just want to fuck a hot girl for a while. they are not committing though.
@dudeman Thats what I said in first reply lol.
@mattty women dont get it.
In my experience, a lot of guys have a double standard in this regard whereby they think it's totally ok fine for them to have been little man hoes, but heaven forbid their girl also have a past of any kind. Smh.
Usually the guys who care have little to no sexual experience and are turned off by it for that reason. Because all my man hoes friends couldn't careless if the girl fucked tons of guys and all my virgin friends (or the ones who have only had sex a handful of times) find it very gross. I understand both sides.
@WhateverMayBeWillBe all man ho friends only care for serious relationships.
I have to agree with your friend. I don't think guys are necessarily looking for virgins but I also don't believe they are looking for someone who has been with more people than they have been with. That number could be 2, 4, 100. As long as it's less, I think they would be fine. That goes back to how insecure men can be
Whether it is due to insecurity, compatibility, preference, morality or any other reason, it will still end up having the same outcome... a guy not wanting to commit to a promiscuous woman.
I would be a little upset if I found out a girl I was interested in was the type to sleep with a bunch of guys. Not that I would hate her for it, but I am interested a committed relationship. If she's willing to sleep with a bunch of guys, just how committed can she be? That being said, I usually don't hear guys talking about how many people their ex/gf slept with, unless it's in a very close-circle group and it's a point as to where they think the relationship went/is going.
last time I looked it was the 21st century meaning women have the right to enjoy sex, and indeed indulge as they please
As long as they are safe within their promiscuity, I have no concern. Most guys who do get salty over it do so b/c of their own insecurities
How is promiscuity a good thing? Same applies to any facet of life. Some degree of measure indicates a healthy psychology. Not saying I object to women having enjoyed themselves though :)
If they're being truthful, yes, most guys care.
I think the guys care if they want to stay with that girl seriously
Damn right
1000 points. We got a winner who understood it.
Depends on the guy and the situation.
If a girl is promiscuous = she is looking to pick up a new guy.
This would be appealing to a guy, UNLESS he is already in a relationship with her, or believed he was significant to her. If that's the case he would totally not want you to be, at all!
we do talk about promiscuous women but only during guys talk. and of course we care, but not in a bad way. i mean, if we want to hook up and be promiscuous ourselves then we would like to know who the promiscuous women were right? other than that i would just care about STD's.
I said A, but for me I think some women make it harder to show their promiscuousity if that's even a word lol and others make it obvious they are. Me personally I would be aware of those types of girls cause usually those are the types that cheat, but there are more signs than that when looking at a gal who is promiscuous.
Yes, I think most guys don't want a girl that gives the cookie to just anyone. Personally it's a turn off, and I think that she must have emotional/psychological issues. If she doesn't have self respect for herself.. how could I.
I think the past is past. What they want is a total slut for them. I mean what they wouldn't want is to find out she is highly innocent with him, whereas she engaged in dirty sex with someone else.
Guys want girls to show interest back to them or convey it so they know it is ok to make a move. What do girls think the other way round?
Also I have a question similar about women, can u check it out?
What do u think?