Hey pal, let me make this simple for you as best as I can. I may not agree exactly with the whole perspective to a tee, however I am what would be considered an experienced Dom (or Dominant) in terms of sexual behavior and I may be able to, I wouldn't say help, but enlightenment and possibly pose viable options to you. I believe asking for a woman's perspective was the absolute wrong direction to take with this question. The fact of the matter is, unless you find a woman who inherently believe in this primitive middle eastern tradition male dominant lifestyle, women now a day are far to progressive to even consider that unless you take the right baby steps and remain on an equal level of communication with your significant other. This ultimately requires respect from both parties---which bring me to the first step. You must respect her. Women deserve respect, hell, humans deserve respect, and unless you are a polygamist, she is yours to take care of and charish. no woman will ever charish you enough to submit her entire being to you if you can't prove to her that it will be worth it. This transfers over to the bedroom in my world in the form of, what girl will trust you and submit entirely without promise of her endgame, how is she to trust in me beyond the norm unless I give her reason to, the same will have to apply I'm your every day life. Show her she is cherished and protected as your woman and further down the line, as a submissive being to the inherent respect you in tern feel you deserve. The difference between slavery and voluntary total submission is that promise of incentive.
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you sure are old fashioned... and the chance that you will find a woman who would be your bitch (because you treat them like animals) is almost 0 to none... lets put it this way, you are not superior to your significant other... you are equal to them.
The problem isn't you wanting to be called that, it's that you see her as a lesser being. What exactly have you done to prove you're superior to her? You're living out of home and providing everything including financially for her so she doesn't have to work right? You're working full time in a high powered job in a display of your dominance not just in the bedroom but as a lifestyle?
If not you haven't earned it. A power exchange is a gift, with both investing as much as the other. Your way of thinking is a demand and all you can do is ask for a slave. If she says no then tough luck.
You sound like a terrible master though, hopefully you grow out of that but the fact you weren't raised into this makes me think you won't
If you want you *partner* to address you as "Master" I suggest either dating a slave, you know, a shell of a person forced to do things against their will by a victimiser or try dating your pet. Those are the *only* reasons besides being in your employ for someone to call you master. There's a huge difference between having a respectful relationship & being an treated as inferior & never being able to live up to your potential because of your *partners* crave for power, superiority & control.
Lol. Wanting to be dominant is acceptable. Wanting someone to call you master... is just creepy. Not old fashioned, never in the past did women call their partners 'master'. Fair enough if u want her to do it as a kinky sex thing but actually expecting her to call you master... you have issues... women can be submissive, but they are still your equal and if you don't believe that then you should stay the hell away from us.
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Earn it. If you have to make her say it, you're not really superior to her, now are ya?
I can't really tell if you're old fashioned or dominant. You know being a master is a fetish but nevermind... back to your question.
"This is how a woman should address her man ". I strongly disagree with that.
You can't make her address you as a superior. Talk to her again and make her understand why you need to hear those words. Suggest to try it for a while to see is she likes it too. Take baby steps.
Good luckI don't blame you bro , your beliefs as long as you don't force it I am happy and you want her to call you master then like someone said to behave like one , please don't try to be her master , she meant it in a different way , and since she is willing to do it , just say her to do it and if she accepts it , remind her when she doesn't , and for your kind info I am also taught that males are superior then ladies , bit I didn't accept it.
You can't force your girlfriend to be submissive to you. And you definitely can't make her call you master or daddy just because it's a fetish of yours
you don't that's just fucked up and wrong we don't live in the 1700s we live in the 2100
My thought are, if my boyfriend said that to mr i would dump him no time, guys aren't better than women, no matter how old fashioned you are
this is not old fashioned. if you want to role place dom sub yes it can be ok but if you think you should be called master in real life is a whole different matter. usually a partnership is comprised by equality. but this is me.
The only time I'm calling a dude master is when he's giving me a good pounding 😂 good luck with that 🍀
first. you need a maid outfit, like mine. second, you need to slowly become more dom.
third, start calling her with servant/other titles. then I guess master would come easily to them.Good luck with that buddy. You are in for a long lonely life.
Um disagree with the whole concept, so I can't help.
not agreeing with you on if you should do it but ill be kind enough to tell you this. you can't make her. your best shot is to find a kinky chick who likes that kinds shit.
Let's face it your not old fashion you have s bdsm fetish and in that respect master is a title you earn it's to given to you she doesn't call you master because she doesn't think you are you havnt earned that title yet
My girlfriend makes me call her mistress and hits me with a whip.
So girls used to call their men "master" back in the days?
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Introduce it during sex. Say its your fetish or something.
spank her and tell her to
I wish you luck in getting your dream.
Treat her like a master & she alone will say it 😏
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