Women should clean as much as men, unless they both reach an agreement about housechores, one will do this and the other will do that. IF the man works all day and she stays at home, yes, she should do the cleaning.
If she is not Working, clean the house. If Both Her and Hubby are Working, Share in the Chores. If She is Single and Living Alone at Home, Do as you Want. xx
This poll makes me sad. Why not let men and women put in the same amount of effort and leave things flexible in case one person suddenly has to work more at work or something. It's a relationship, not a dictatorship
Is he paying for the house? Is he working more hours then her? Is he providing everything? If this is the case then yes, she should pitch in and clean the house. Women should not do what ever they want, no one should, that's how you get self centered people which drags every one else down.
Who says the guy is paying the house? And who says the guy works more? In my house hold my mother pays for the house and works. Both of my parents clean.
@RandomShowerThoughts I asked the question. The reason why I asked the question is because that actually matters. You cannot say its unfair for a woman to do the house work if she is a stay at home mother and he is working fifty or more hours a week, that would be utterly unfair to him. So it does matter what their contribution is and since almost every single relationship involves the man working more hours, working crappier jobs (because they pay more) and him paying for most if not everything, it is fair that the person who contributes the least contribute labor as a substitute. And before the inevitable argument of "well I know some one who works more then her boyfriend or pays for everything or. . . . " we all know that men do the majority of hard labor and the majority of the paying. That's why 80% of domestic spending is done by women not men even though more then half of the domestic earnings are produced by men not women. ITs because he gives his money to her.
@RandomShowerThoughts So, it matters and while no one said the guy is paying, in almost every case the guy is paying which a lot of unappricative self entitled women like to completely ignore because they have been raised in a society that does everything it can to raise women up on the highest pedestal they can find while simultaneously trying to crush men as deep into the mud as they can. The fact is women are not victims, their is a reason why women are expected to contribute, because he is generally doing EVERYTHING ELSE. Now, if that is not the case, if she is the one doing the say construction job and he is doing a cushy easy low paying job, then by all means have him do all the cooking and cleaning, that's fair. But that is not generally how this works so until women start taking jobs that are harder and pay more and work more hours and be the primary bill payer then yes she should be the one contributing labor to compensate.
I don’t get when people claim things like this to be unfair. I mean, yeah, it sounds pretty unfair to me too and I wouldn’t be up for it if I was the one working 50 hours a week. But what I think doesn’t matter, if the couple is happy with it. I used to know a family once where all the man did was stay at home and take care of the baby while the woman, as a surgeon, did all the working AND cleaning when she came home. This left the man to do nothing daily but to take care of the baby and occasionally cook. But you know what? Both were okay with it. Who is anyone to step in and go “that’s unfair!” to anyone about their personal choices.
@maiave I'm not saying that it is unfair. What I am saying is unfair is that if one party is doing the majority of the work and expects the other to do more, claiming that this is not right and that (in this case the woman) has the right to sit around doing nothing while benefiting from the hard work of their partner, that is unfair. That is called being a parasite. If both parties are fine with the setup then that's one thing, but if they are not then yes the person who is contributing less should then contribute labor in the form of cooking and cleaning.
women should do what they want but like personally i want to be a stay at home mom that does all the cooking and cleaning. i just feel like it’s a nice thing to do for your husband and he can work (for all feminists out there i’m not saying yo have to GIVE your husband anything i just personally would want to do that as a gift and in return i wouldn’t have to work)
I think it depends, if one works and earns the money the other should do the cleaning and housework etc. Gender doesn't matter, but if they both work then you both share the responsibility, although if one works more than the other then obviously I think the one who works less should do a bit more around the house, but the gender of the person doesn't matter
How about who ever earns the least money does more chores. Seems fair to me. Fuck if my future wife earns more ill stay home and raise the kids. Sounds like a glorious escape in my opinion
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Women should clean as much as men, unless they both reach an agreement about housechores, one will do this and the other will do that.
IF the man works all day and she stays at home, yes, she should do the cleaning.
Each coupling should discuss household chores and who does what. The house is an equal job to be shared between them.
Split the burden depending on what you're good at. I prefer cleaning, so I clean. My boyfriend prefers cooking, so he cooks. It's all about that.
If she is not Working, clean the house. If Both Her and Hubby are Working, Share in the Chores.
If She is Single and Living Alone at Home, Do as you Want. xx
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This poll makes me sad. Why not let men and women put in the same amount of effort and leave things flexible in case one person suddenly has to work more at work or something. It's a relationship, not a dictatorship
She can clean if she wants but that won't stop me from re-cleaning my way when she's in the shower.
Is he paying for the house? Is he working more hours then her? Is he providing everything? If this is the case then yes, she should pitch in and clean the house. Women should not do what ever they want, no one should, that's how you get self centered people which drags every one else down.
Who says the guy is paying the house? And who says the guy works more?
In my house hold my mother pays for the house and works.
Both of my parents clean.
@RandomShowerThoughts cuz that what usually happens.
@RandomShowerThoughts I asked the question. The reason why I asked the question is because that actually matters. You cannot say its unfair for a woman to do the house work if she is a stay at home mother and he is working fifty or more hours a week, that would be utterly unfair to him. So it does matter what their contribution is and since almost every single relationship involves the man working more hours, working crappier jobs (because they pay more) and him paying for most if not everything, it is fair that the person who contributes the least contribute labor as a substitute. And before the inevitable argument of "well I know some one who works more then her boyfriend or pays for everything or. . . . " we all know that men do the majority of hard labor and the majority of the paying. That's why 80% of domestic spending is done by women not men even though more then half of the domestic earnings are produced by men not women. ITs because he gives his money to her.
@RandomShowerThoughts So, it matters and while no one said the guy is paying, in almost every case the guy is paying which a lot of unappricative self entitled women like to completely ignore because they have been raised in a society that does everything it can to raise women up on the highest pedestal they can find while simultaneously trying to crush men as deep into the mud as they can. The fact is women are not victims, their is a reason why women are expected to contribute, because he is generally doing EVERYTHING ELSE. Now, if that is not the case, if she is the one doing the say construction job and he is doing a cushy easy low paying job, then by all means have him do all the cooking and cleaning, that's fair. But that is not generally how this works so until women start taking jobs that are harder and pay more and work more hours and be the primary bill payer then yes she should be the one contributing labor to compensate.
I don’t get when people claim things like this to be unfair. I mean, yeah, it sounds pretty unfair to me too and I wouldn’t be up for it if I was the one working 50 hours a week. But what I think doesn’t matter, if the couple is happy with it. I used to know a family once where all the man did was stay at home and take care of the baby while the woman, as a surgeon, did all the working AND cleaning when she came home. This left the man to do nothing daily but to take care of the baby and occasionally cook. But you know what? Both were okay with it. Who is anyone to step in and go “that’s unfair!” to anyone about their personal choices.
@maiave I'm not saying that it is unfair. What I am saying is unfair is that if one party is doing the majority of the work and expects the other to do more, claiming that this is not right and that (in this case the woman) has the right to sit around doing nothing while benefiting from the hard work of their partner, that is unfair. That is called being a parasite. If both parties are fine with the setup then that's one thing, but if they are not then yes the person who is contributing less should then contribute labor in the form of cooking and cleaning.
They can do what they want. But if we live together, both needs to contribute.
i wash, my boyfriend dries and puts away :)
Relationship goals right there
The main question is... Who cleans the bathroom and toilet?
we take turns
but then again were not dirty people so there's not much to clean :)
u kno and i never even ask him to he always offers
Nice! he's a keeper
yeah when u said relationship goals.. u hella made me appreciate and realize what a wonderful guy i have.. hehe thank you :)
women should do what they want but like personally i want to be a stay at home mom that does all the cooking and cleaning. i just feel like it’s a nice thing to do for your husband and he can work (for all feminists out there i’m not saying yo have to GIVE your husband anything i just personally would want to do that as a gift and in return i wouldn’t have to work)
I dont see why both people in the relationship can't clean the house?
I clean a lot but I do it for myself if it bothers him that much he can do it
No, not only ones. Both genders should equally contribute. But it's upto couples how they prefer
I agree, thank you
whoever has the time. Can take turns, too. The guys that say this is "demasculating" or w. e are pussies.
I think it depends, if one works and earns the money the other should do the cleaning and housework etc. Gender doesn't matter, but if they both work then you both share the responsibility, although if one works more than the other then obviously I think the one who works less should do a bit more around the house, but the gender of the person doesn't matter
No it should be shared however a woman who does not clean because she wants to rebel is just as dumb as men who want only women to clean :p
They both live there so they both should care how the apartment looks 💁🏻😄
If you're both paying for house you should both be cleaning it, simple.
Men should be able to also clean their house if they're living there.
How about who ever earns the least money does more chores. Seems fair to me. Fuck if my future wife earns more ill stay home and raise the kids. Sounds like a glorious escape in my opinion
They can if they want and guys should chip too help out it’s a good thing to learn if you start living on your own.