I ignore all catcalls. I don’t see the point in it, but I guess the guys who do this are just bored and think that women like it. We don’t, at least not the majority of us.
How dare we want to be called beautiful and not be asked how tight our asshole is by a stranger? Because crude sexual comments from a random guy and being followed is exactly the same as being called pretty, right?
Wow, salty... I’ve whistled at a beautiful girl before. Never did that shit about asking how tight an asshole is. Don’t know what type of men your around. I’ve told random women that were beautiful that they were beautiful. Never knew that freedom of speech is so offensive too people. And even if they have crude and sexual comments.. guess what, it’s there right.. they may be assholes.. but they have a right to say what they want... now being followed and such is a problem... but again saying what you want is well within their rights... now, your comments make it sound like every random guy is doing that. And that’s simply not true... there are a lot of women out there that will cry this when they think a guy is ugly or unattractive. So make up your mind. The meme that I put at the bottom of my original post holds true
When did i say every guy did this? Most dont, but most women have had it done to them. You have the freedom of speech for the purpose of sharing your opinion, but there are several situations where the freedom of speech can get you in trouble even in America. For example; yelling "fire" in a crowded movie theater or "bomb" in an airport, both of which will likely get you arrested. If you dont believe me then try it yourself and see what the judge says when you try to argue that you have the freedom of speech. Another situation where the "freedom of speech" doesn't apply is when you threaten or harass someone, and catcalling counts as harrassment and depending on what else you say, it also may count as a threat.
Now Im not saying the freedom of speech means nothing, you have the right to say whatever you want, but dont expect that there aren't consequences, the first amendment was established to protect your right to question the government, not to let you harass random people and cause trouble. Remember that anyone you argue with by saying "i have the freedom of speech" also has the freedom of speech. I feel like people who cite "the freedom of speech" in an argument are just trying to justify being an asshole. I remember this one girl years back in high school was literally screaming in the face of this one guy because she claims he used the last of the yellow paint (he didn't even use any he just had the bottle) and i said "oh my god shut the fuck up" and she was like "freedom of speech, bitch" so i was like "you think you're the only one here with the freedom of speech? Im using mine to tell you to shut the fuck up." She looked like she was about to punch me 😂
@JaredEggo yeah that's why I let him know the TRUTH about how disgusting it is to me. If you don't like the answer then just move on, my love. I am not shooting anyone. 😑😑😑
@JaredEggo I wished I could shoot people for catcalling me. If you think that making animal noises at me is 'talking' then you have serious brain defects.
@JaredEggo Yes it ends life. It ruins life, and I'm not the only one who feels like this. @Syrian_survivor help me with getting rid of all catcallers in the world so that women can finally have peace.
Really? So I guess you've never been catcalled since you're still alive talking to us. Tell me please, which is worse; catcalling, or the millions of women murdered in "honor killings" in countries with Sharia law?
@CubsterShura i'd love to get rid of them but in a non-lethal way you know, some law against it would reduce it significantly And what about feminists? Can't they do something good for once and stop catcalling with their protests or something? instead of accusing innocent men for sexual harassement to get paid -_-
@JaredEggo i agree 'honor killings' are the dumbest and most reckless thing ever I'm not trying to justify it because it's not right, but women can't just cheat on their husbands like that and just leave innocently, men care about their honor more than anything But as i said, a non-lethal solution would be much better Why isn't there a condition in the marriage contract that says it's a crime to cheat on her spouse and vice versa? I think that would be a good idea
By your logic in past women should not be complaining about not getting education cause not getting food is worse than not getting education. Lmao I'm done with y'all.
@Syrian_survivor I'm not talking just about honor killings when a woman cheats. I'm talking about the ones when a woman is violently raped and then sentenced to die in a barbaric honor killing because of it. Or the father who brutally murders his daughter because she dated the wrong man.
@CubsterShura Well if you don't get food you starve and die. If you don't get an education, at worst you can't read. So yeah not getting food is worse. Abraham Lincoln didn't have an education, but he get food. Didn't starve, did became president.
I never said women shouldn't get education. I think everybody should get an education. And this is coming from a guy who didn't get much of one and had to learn most everything on my own. What I said was that bothering somebody doesn't deserve execution. This isn't the dark ages after all.
I didn't intend to troll but seeing how much you both are triggered and unwilling to understand what I mean, I did start trolling cause why not just make fun of you idiots while you're here.
How are we triggered? We've just been trying to understand what you mean since the beginning Because logically, shooting people cuz they catcalled you doesn't make any sense at all and is stupid If it IS what you mean, then just leave us be lmao This says a lot about your personality though, i can already tell that you're unstable and aggressive towards people, close-minded and mindwashed, you easily give put on a bitch face without trying and you're not a good person Prove me wrong 🤷
@JaredEggo I concluded that you need to be explained like a kid. Listen, when you say that you wanna punch someone in the face, do you really mean it? You don't. What made you think that I really meant it when I said that I wanna shoot those guys? Clearly I wish they just did not exist, but the shooting part is just the kind of low-key urge.
Yes many women in several parts of the world are going through terrible oppression. However only because bigger issues exist, it doesn't mean that people should not do anything about other existing issues. Cause if we lived by the ideology then we would still live in huts. What else do you need when you have food, shelter and protection, right? It's good to be grateful for whatever you have, but it is also just as good to work on getting better.
Well the first reason I thought you meant it was that you said it. I don't even want to know how you would have reached had I not taken you seriously. The second reason is that you kept saying it, many times. Nothing says "I'm serious" more than adamantly sticking to a completely childish and irrational argument.
Here's an idea to work on on the issue in question. Stop talking about shooting people.
@JaredEggo you freaking got triggered and one I tried to explain that it was not serious and you were still acting triggered and were completely unwilling to have your mind changed. It's not my fault that you got so triggered by the word shooting. I said what the truth is.
My friends and I yell and flip off people who catcall us. I find it offensive
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No it never works. In fact it does the complete opposite. Instead of liking you and giving you a chance, she will hate you and be terrified if you get near her.
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It sure does work, especially if you are looking for a smack in the mouth! LOL!
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I ignore all catcalls. I don’t see the point in it, but I guess the guys who do this are just bored and think that women like it. We don’t, at least not the majority of us.
It works if what you're after is a punch in the eye...
If you're after a date no... it certainly doesn't.
Its never worked its for those who have trouble keeping their mouths shut
Love your pic haha
I'm either indifferent or uninterested in catcalling. The type of man I'm interested in will just approach me.
Ugh. It does for some girls but me personally if you don’t have the balls to walk to me and talk to me, you’re a waste of time
Walking up to people is to much work im sure they rather just sit there and yell across the street
If I'm in an especially generous mood I'll give them the middle finger, if not they're not even worth my attention
It’s like the whole women want attention... but they want it in the way they want it... unfortunately, that’s not how life works lol
How dare we want to be called beautiful and not be asked how tight our asshole is by a stranger? Because crude sexual comments from a random guy and being followed is exactly the same as being called pretty, right?
Wow, salty... I’ve whistled at a beautiful girl before. Never did that shit about asking how tight an asshole is. Don’t know what type of men your around. I’ve told random women that were beautiful that they were beautiful. Never knew that freedom of speech is so offensive too people. And even if they have crude and sexual comments.. guess what, it’s there right.. they may be assholes.. but they have a right to say what they want... now being followed and such is a problem... but again saying what you want is well within their rights... now, your comments make it sound like every random guy is doing that. And that’s simply not true... there are a lot of women out there that will cry this when they think a guy is ugly or unattractive. So make up your mind. The meme that I put at the bottom of my original post holds true
When did i say every guy did this? Most dont, but most women have had it done to them. You have the freedom of speech for the purpose of sharing your opinion, but there are several situations where the freedom of speech can get you in trouble even in America. For example; yelling "fire" in a crowded movie theater or "bomb" in an airport, both of which will likely get you arrested. If you dont believe me then try it yourself and see what the judge says when you try to argue that you have the freedom of speech. Another situation where the "freedom of speech" doesn't apply is when you threaten or harass someone, and catcalling counts as harrassment and depending on what else you say, it also may count as a threat.
Now Im not saying the freedom of speech means nothing, you have the right to say whatever you want, but dont expect that there aren't consequences, the first amendment was established to protect your right to question the government, not to let you harass random people and cause trouble. Remember that anyone you argue with by saying "i have the freedom of speech" also has the freedom of speech. I feel like people who cite "the freedom of speech" in an argument are just trying to justify being an asshole. I remember this one girl years back in high school was literally screaming in the face of this one guy because she claims he used the last of the yellow paint (he didn't even use any he just had the bottle) and i said "oh my god shut the fuck up" and she was like "freedom of speech, bitch" so i was like "you think you're the only one here with the freedom of speech? Im using mine to tell you to shut the fuck up." She looked like she was about to punch me 😂
And that was an actual comment i received on the street. I dont choose the type of people who just happen to be at a store when i walk by.
Why would I positively react to someone objectifying me? If anything then I wish I could legally carry a gun and shoot anyone that catcalls me. -_-
He asks a question and you threaten to shoot him... nice.
@JaredEggo where did I threaten to shoot the asker? No, seriously, tell me where I did. -_-
@SpunkNugget guy logic : if you don't like what she says or does, call her a hoe. Boo!
"I wish I could carry a gun and shoot anyone who catcalls me".
The asker was asking a question in order to further his knowledge and you react by taking about shooting people for taking to you. Real mature.
@JaredEggo yeah that's why I let him know the TRUTH about how disgusting it is to me. If you don't like the answer then just move on, my love. I am not shooting anyone. 😑😑😑
Okay i agree with you but i think the gun part was a bit extreme love xD
Y'all are so sensitive.
You wished you could shoot people for taking to you...
We're not sensitive we're just mature and responsible for our actions
You're the one being an ISIS extremist xD
@JaredEggo you're an adult bro, teach her how to be mature
@JaredEggo I wished I could shoot people for catcalling me. If you think that making animal noises at me is 'talking' then you have serious brain defects.
So y'all think that severe bodily injury is the appropriate response to words and noises?
@JaredEggo for that kinda behavior, yes it totally is.
You're the reason we have laws. If you're the future of the human race we'll be extinct within two generations.
Lmao true xD
I hope you never considered shooting up a school o. o no offense hun
If I own a gun I'll shoot people who disturb school girls on the way.
Murder for bothering people. That seems fair.
More than fair. Do you even have any idea to what extent catcalling can harm a girl?
Does it end the life of the girl? Cause that's what murder does.
@CubsterShura no offense love but you need help lol
@JaredEggo Yes it ends life. It ruins life, and I'm not the only one who feels like this.
@Syrian_survivor help me with getting rid of all catcallers in the world so that women can finally have peace.
Really? So I guess you've never been catcalled since you're still alive talking to us. Tell me please, which is worse; catcalling, or the millions of women murdered in "honor killings" in countries with Sharia law?
@CubsterShura i'd love to get rid of them but in a non-lethal way you know, some law against it would reduce it significantly
And what about feminists? Can't they do something good for once and stop catcalling with their protests or something? instead of accusing innocent men for sexual harassement to get paid -_-
@JaredEggo i agree 'honor killings' are the dumbest and most reckless thing ever
I'm not trying to justify it because it's not right, but women can't just cheat on their husbands like that and just leave innocently, men care about their honor more than anything
But as i said, a non-lethal solution would be much better
Why isn't there a condition in the marriage contract that says it's a crime to cheat on her spouse and vice versa? I think that would be a good idea
By your logic in past women should not be complaining about not getting education cause not getting food is worse than not getting education. Lmao I'm done with y'all.
Who u talking to? xD
Both.
Calm down hun
You need a hug ❤
@Syrian_survivor I'm not talking just about honor killings when a woman cheats. I'm talking about the ones when a woman is violently raped and then sentenced to die in a barbaric honor killing because of it. Or the father who brutally murders his daughter because she dated the wrong man.
@CubsterShura Well if you don't get food you starve and die. If you don't get an education, at worst you can't read. So yeah not getting food is worse. Abraham Lincoln didn't have an education, but he get food. Didn't starve, did became president.
@JaredEggo doesn't change the fact that it is still wrong to stop women from getting education.
@JaredEggo yeah none of that is right, it's disgusting and THOSE men are the ones who deserve getting shot
Not catcallers
At this point I don't know if I should laugh or cry. Look at you two.
I never said women shouldn't get education. I think everybody should get an education. And this is coming from a guy who didn't get much of one and had to learn most everything on my own. What I said was that bothering somebody doesn't deserve execution. This isn't the dark ages after all.
@JaredEggo I'll give you one small advice. Stop taking every statement literally and personally.
My tip to you is to stop comparing murder with bothering people.
@CubsterShura ur not making sense hun :(
Of course it won't make sense to you. I'm not even trying to explain myself here, lol.
Oh good, I'm glad. Because if you were trying to explain yourself I would have great concern for your sanity.
@JaredEggo you definitely didn't take my advice. If you don't then at least shut up. I've been laughing at you the entire time.
I'm glad. My goal in life is to make people happy, so if you're laughing I've succeeded.
@CubsterShura calm down hun
We're all brothers and sisters ❤
@JaredEggo ily man rofl
'we're all brothers and sisters' say it louder so that the catcallers listen.
I'll bet you you like the attention you get from catcallers. You must not get much from anybody else.
I had some hope in her but apparently she's hopeless :/
Maybe she's trolling?
I didn't intend to troll but seeing how much you both are triggered and unwilling to understand what I mean, I did start trolling cause why not just make fun of you idiots while you're here.
How are we triggered? We've just been trying to understand what you mean since the beginning
Because logically, shooting people cuz they catcalled you doesn't make any sense at all and is stupid
If it IS what you mean, then just leave us be lmao
This says a lot about your personality though, i can already tell that you're unstable and aggressive towards people, close-minded and mindwashed, you easily give put on a bitch face without trying and you're not a good person
Prove me wrong 🤷
It's none of my business what you think of me.
Then excuse my language but stfu n gtfo :v
@JaredEggo I concluded that you need to be explained like a kid. Listen, when you say that you wanna punch someone in the face, do you really mean it? You don't. What made you think that I really meant it when I said that I wanna shoot those guys? Clearly I wish they just did not exist, but the shooting part is just the kind of low-key urge.
Yes many women in several parts of the world are going through terrible oppression. However only because bigger issues exist, it doesn't mean that people should not do anything about other existing issues. Cause if we lived by the ideology then we would still live in huts. What else do you need when you have food, shelter and protection, right? It's good to be grateful for whatever you have, but it is also just as good to work on getting better.
Well the first reason I thought you meant it was that you said it. I don't even want to know how you would have reached had I not taken you seriously. The second reason is that you kept saying it, many times. Nothing says "I'm serious" more than adamantly sticking to a completely childish and irrational argument.
Here's an idea to work on on the issue in question. Stop talking about shooting people.
@CubsterShura is awesome n we're cool now :3
@JaredEggo you freaking got triggered and one I tried to explain that it was not serious and you were still acting triggered and were completely unwilling to have your mind changed. It's not my fault that you got so triggered by the word shooting. I said what the truth is.
Triggered? Like you would when you pull the "trigger" on a guy for catcalling? Pros for the great pun BTWs.
I'm done here
Are you sure? I thought we were having a good conversation.
@JaredEggo we still are, but it's over now.
Never ask women these types of questions, they have a vested interest in lying. See: Human mating strategies.
Ask dudes, "Have you ever gotten a number, date, relationship, lay etc from a girl, when your first introduction to her was a catcall?
Why would we not be honest about this tho 🤔
Why would we have a reason to lie if it "works so well:
If you're thinking of pick up lines nope. If you're thinking of greetings maybe. But if you're calling her hot or sexy as she walks by that's a nono.
If the guy thinks I'm cute, and he isn't crude, and I feel safe, then I'll give him a look at my panties.
Let me see please
Maybe it works on some girls but it has never worked on me. I think that catcalling while it can be flattering at the same time be very uncomfortable.
fuck no. It's like these clueless losers on there who message girls with crap like "hey u like talk an then sex?" Instant rejection.
I agree but in different circumstances (no Cat call) women seem to go for this type of guy. I don't get it.
@belarus those types of guys usually show themselves to be disrespectful
Nope, I rarely respond to it and if I do it's with a nasty face or in cases where they're being extremely rude a middle finger
What about laser pointers? Do they work?
"Here kitty, kitty! I've got a ball of yarn for you."
Nope, it's not expected too, either, Guys do it mostly to show off to other guys.
My friends and I yell and flip off people who catcall us. I find it offensive
No it never works. In fact it does the complete opposite. Instead of liking you and giving you a chance, she will hate you and be terrified if you get near her.
It sure does work, especially if you are looking for a smack in the mouth! LOL!
Do ypu loook for any snackk in the month, loll😀
Dont let that slide just because she's a girl if anyone slap me guy or girl im kicking them between the legs.
No, it never worked for me. If you want a girls number, approach her like a civilized person.