What are your thoughts on people guilt tripping you after you rejected them? (Page 2)
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We only know "your" side of the story. You however know the entire story. Here are my questions for you - Was there any game playing, teasing, or leading on that took place from your end? Would he have a reason for being upset or disappointed? Can you answer that question with a clear conscience? If not then you would be in the wrong as well.
Were you upfront with him from the very begging that you were not interested? - That you didn't want anything or any type of relationship with him? Were you real with him? Or a deceiver?
Have you ever told him that you're not interested? Have you ever said in these exact words to him - "I'm just not interested". Or are you simply enjoying his hopeless attention? Were you ever real with him?
And sorry I meant "Beggining" Not begging. Which he probably ended up doing. I wish I could just tell him to move. It's not even worth it.
Just taking a wild shot in the dark but does "Nyla" sound familiar?
It’s called manipulation and I’m not buying it so I’m onto the next person because I have no time to waste on childish games.
I just ignore their needy crap posts and emails, calls and so on!! The reason I ENDED the relationship!!
At some point, you need to say "FCK OFF" or I am going to get a restraining order, and then they will have a Police record!!
I can understand why they do that. And they probably aren't even aware of their behaviour.. It makes me feel awful..
Petty, immature and pathetic. Worse than peasants. Not worth the time for sure. Unless he didn't receive a straight no
Shallow and needy only confirming that you did right in rejecting them. Haha)
Shows he is a bit childish and insecure. You ARE better off without him!
Guilt tripping is a tool used by emotional abusers and control freaks
Its pretty shitty, but it's like if you already rejected him why are you putting up with it? Just block em
Oh, it's a guy's move for sure... It's pathetic. That's my opinion.
I think it's sad and not a healthy way to handle it.
I'd assume he was emotionally immature. It wouldn't make me feel guilty.
I usually get super angry and the anger drips off my tongue dripping with sarcasm and insults.
Don' let Anyone, hun, Make you Feel INDEBTED to themxxoo
See I prefer when a girl rejects me and I have had it happen a lot for her to break all contact and connection. A year ago I told a girl I liked her she rejected me but wouldn’t leave me alone even when I tried to avoid her and get over the feelings. She told me it not gonna leave you alone until you talk to me. I gave in and she reported me for harassment to our manager
What a cunt !
@Marinepilot yep it’s why I seriously hate women right now rejecting someone is ok stripping them of their pride is not
Guilt tripping should be a crime and a serious one at that. No one likes being guilt tripped and it's almost impossible to argue back even if you are correct.
Its wrong. Especially if they're trying to get sex out of you.
They should be mature enough to wish you a good day and move on.
its kinda them trying to punish you for not accepting them.
Given the context he either really likes you and he has a nice heart (albeit clingy) and wants a chance with you. Or he really wants an all access backstage pass to that ass.