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Why is the sexual victimization of men widely ignored? (Page 2)
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Man have times changed. I had sex at 13 with an 18 year old girl who pulled down my bathing suit, and we ended up having sex three different ways at her empty house half the day and I enjoyed every minute of it. The next day she blackmailed me into doing the same with her 15 year old neighbor, or they'd tell my grandmother. I enjoyed every damned minute of it, and only wish it could happen to me now.
I think a lot of people don't realize it happens. A lot of the time, I think of sexual assault as something that happens to women. Also, sometimes people think it doesn't affect men the same way it does women. I'm sorry you had to experience it though. It shouldn't happen to anyone.
Because this is the result of the men from the past brainwashing everyone to believing women are dainty flowers who couldn’t POSSIBLY be a threat in any way.
Simple
Do you just go around leaving vague text photos with a title of "simple" on everyone's questions? I've seen you many times before
Nothing...
It takes a seed to make a tree and a tree to get the fruit.
I never explained anything... I let anyone figure out what they want out of it
Societal indoctrination. Go on Youtube and watch the experiments where a girl hits a guy in public vs. when a guy hits a girl. When the girl is abusing the guy, people ignore it or even join in. When the guy hits the girl, people intervene. Or a lady who runs onto a baseball diamond and starts grabbing all of the players' butts. She gets kicked out for trespassing, but if a man did it to a ladies team, he's be charged with sexual assault and be a registered offender for life.
Even if we speak up, we're still seen us oppressors because we can't get pregnant. There's no point opening up or we'd be looked because we're expected to defend ourselves. Oh and we can get called monsters for defending ourselves so check mate. Letting it be till we kill ourselves.
Because men themselves act like they want to be sexually harrased by women. Especially teenagers. I can't even count the amount of times me and my friends have been talking about a hotty and said stuff like, welp, she can "rape" me if you know what i mean.
wrong?
I think it's because they can't seem to comprehend that males are victims too. They always expect men do be the ones harassing because they're stronger or whatever. But I think that some men don't fight back because they're scared of retaliation for hitting a woman.
Because you’re week and gay and and and erm stupid if you get raped by a woman there weak and would never do that
The next day
Omg I can do this on my own you know women are strong too you sexist
-a feminazi
Just so you know not me but that’s the reson because double standard they just want the privilege and nothing bad
Looool a feminazi disliked
No a feminazi did not dislike it you arrogant asshole. I disliked it because what you said just... it shows your age and immaturity and it's sad
So you someone who said they was a good feminist even though that is what they do a feminist would not a feminazi want the double standards or am I wrong and it just the whole feminist movement
But it's not a double standard
What I said was them being hipcritical and wanting a double standard
That's not even what I was talking about
I meant your opinion
Ok so what’s so bad about it
"Because you're weak and gay..." wtf?
I was making fun of atualy things I have heard them say
Oh so it was an example of what a feminazi would say?
Yes.
It's not really a problem with Women not believing men, it's more about men not believing men... At least according to actual statistics instead of looking at editorials or news stories with female anchors.
Because men believe those guys wanted it, and because women don't want to think their gender ever rapes anybody.
Feminazis are the death of me. I'm sorry you feel like women think that, but i assure you a lot don't. a lot are sick by teachers and women who rape men and young boys.
Probably because when women are sexually victimized, it's usually by men, and they are much larger and stronger than women, and are much more vulnerable, on average, than is a man.
It's interesting to see the men with thumbs down here. I guess they don't think when a woman is sexually assaulted, it's usually by a man, and they don't agree that men are larger and stronger than women, and are more vulnerable. Or maybe, they ignore reality, because they don't like reality. That's what Trump does, and I'd well imagine these three men belong to Trump's cult.
It doesn’t get ignored. Men just don’t speak up as much. But I personally know a guy that was molested by a male family member. He told his parents and they said he misinterpreted the situation.
Men need to speak up too!
molested by a male family member: not unusual in some trailerparks, I read.
It was a snooty family.
Because men are more likely not to talk about it than women. Its quite sad actually because this makes people believe that stuff like this just doesn't happen.
Because it's difficult to paint this picture of toxic masculinity if men are victims too.
I generally think most SJW/feminist ideas are complete bullshit, but they’ve honestly kind of got me stumped with the toxic masculinity thing. If toxic masculinity doesn’t exist to at least some extent, then why, when sharing their story with male friends, is a male victim of sexual abuse CONGRATULATED for GETTING LAID, instead of offered SYMPATHY & SUPPORT for having been RAPED? Just read some of the opinions from the guys on here where they talk about how they shared their trauma with some of their close friends, some of them are absolutely disgusting. One guy said he was only in third grade (about 8-9 years old) when he was sexually assaulted by his babysitter, and when he told some of his friends several years later, they offered him fist bumps and just wanted him to tell them how hot she was.
I don't even need to answer this question directly. Instead, I invite you to look at all of the other comments here about how male rape victims need to man up, should be laughed at, or even denying that there is a problem with male sexual assault victims being ignored. All comments by women.
Please don’t think we are all ignorant though.. I personally find it incredibly unbelievable that women can make comments like that in the first place. Even worse when they demand the respect they’re not giving.
Of course I know that not all women believe this, but I know it's pretty prevalent. I've been told by a woman in person, not even behind an anonymous Internet persona, that men cannot be raped, period.
Oh my goodness, that is so awful... I’m so terribly sorry.
It would help if they stepped up and brought attention to it like metoo did. It has been hard to draw attention to a problem where the victims are hiding.
And you think that women were not laughed at or attacked when they came out? The thing is that the more you do it the more socially accepted it becomes as well as the better we can fight rape against men.
I blame men for it. I can hardly imagine a woman, who thinks it's right for women to rape men, but many men thinks that it's ok and cute and stuff like "I want to be raped too". These are bad stereotypes.
Because we are not man enough to talk about it
PS
I was sexually abused by a older neighbour when i was 11 or 12
& Because of it m still scared of having sex ( i am 22 now)
Meeting a psychologist is like a taboo in my city
So i can't go for therapy or talk about it with anyone else
A childhood friend of mine knows about it
But now we pretend like it never happened
I know men get sexually assaulted too. Don't worry I'm on your side. Sexual abuse is veryyy serious for both genders