E. g. hating yourself and other people because of race, ethnicity, sexuality etc. They're hating themselves and people with the same features as themselves. It's not like other hate-groups where they hates on people who are different from them.
Real life examples: Both Jackie Arklöv and John Ausonius "Lasermannen" had immigrant parents that moved to Sweden, but they still were against immigrants in Sweden. Both of them did violent attacks on immigrants. Jackie Arklöv had a black parent and a white one. He wanted to become white and identified himself with the neo-nazis for a period. John Ausonius tried to bleach his hair and wear blue contact lenses for a period. He's known for shooting on none-white immigrants. John himself had jet black hair, dark brown eyes and was slightly tan. Later on he gave up bleaching his hair and wearing contact lenses.
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how one comes to the belief can vary but ultimately it seems to me that it is person (in this specific case you mention) accepting many of the racist perceptions about black and or white people that have been put upon him
generally it would be people accepting as truth many of racist, prejudice, discriminatory, sexist or whatever notions that people put out into the universe - if a man internalizes the notion that is men's fault for women's situation and somehow takes on personal responsibility he me develop self hate - if a girl accepts many of societies notions of what beauty is or isn't and feels like she doesn't measure up she may develop self hate - and in this case (you presented) if a non-white person accepts the racist notions of white superiority or inferiority of whatever minority they are they may accept as fact self hate of themselves or people like them
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when we do something wrong and do not take acceptability
and not so much for others but to ourselves
which is why GOD said repent (change your ways)
i have done some bad things in my life that I regret
I try to avoid it now I was young and dumb at the time but I have to accept the fact that I have done wrong
I wish I could take it back its done
now for females that is different the reason they hate themselves so much is cause they don't want to stop doing evil it's that simple
My self-hatred stems from many different things: genetics, social factors, lack of control, etc.
Also, the things I hate about myself cannot necessarily be applied to everyone else. For example, “I hate myself because I am fat” does not equate to “I hate another person because they are fat.”
In John Ausonius' case he didn't only hate himself for being a "person of color", but he also shot others because he hated them for being "people of color" too. He favored white people who weren't immigrants like him.
9 times out of ten its because of society and steotypes. If someone grows up and all they hear is that people that look like them are ugly and only one specific type of race is uplofted then people are gonna wanna look like that race because its considered "acceptable".
I think everything comes from exposure and then the choice of thinking on it. At church, my pastor had discussed about taking control of your feelings and emotions. I learned that what your exposured to and if you think about it a lot, can create feelings (emotions) on it. having these strong holded feelings can create decisions, those decisions can produce action, repetitive actions can create habits, habits can create or display your character, your new character can change you life ( either in a good way or bad way, depending on what you had thought) and then last but not least, that life you have can then change your destiny ( to either bad or good). Exposure➡thinking➡decision➡action➡habits➡character➡life➡destiny. Ex: a black kid is exposed to social media negative words on dark skin, or hears kids at school say something about dark skin being unattractive ➡ the black child then starts to think on it in a negative way as well💭💭💭➡ He starts feeling his heart ache of sadness, hurt, fear and maybe anger➡ He then decides to do silly stuff like not go outside, in fear of tanning or buys a product to bleach his skin➡ he puts action in those things➡ it becomes a habit to him➡ his character is low confidence in his own skin➡ he does different things in his life that other people like him probably don't do, he then changes his own destiny in someway (possibly killing himself) or something😢📔 Fin... ( all that time he could have choose to ((think)) positive of himself instead of negative.
I believe it all starts on what the individual chooses to (( think)) about themselves in a negative way. We are all exposued to negative stuff in the world. This is an evil world. But it all takes place when the individual CHOOSES to think negative about themselves instead of positive. So I believe that is the cause of self hate, just choosing to think negative in your head.
Oh and incase your wondering, my pastor show us the answer to fixing stuff like that, and it's be renewing your mind. Romans 12:2 "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will" And as a Christian I just choose to think on what God word says about something instead of what people, media or even the world says.
It comes from constant glorification of others. I can’t go to a salon because stylists don’t like my hair type. I am often ignored by men because they don’t like my narrow body type. Etc... it can be quite difficult to maintain a healthy self esteem when their is nothing about me people actually like. What’s WORSE Is children, of sensitive types who see very little of themselves positively represented in media. Healthy self esteem is an ongoing process. If not maintained it does wither away into self hatred
Hating anyone based on their skin, creed or ideals is stupid, 1 because everyone is different, 2 I think what a lot of ,, racist,, people hate are the stereotypes of different races they are used to their own, everyone feels the lull to fit into a stereotype and I think everyone hates them somewhat, to hate a persons creed is stupid, because everyone has a right to believe and worship his own god, there must be mutual acceptance and discussion on both sides for peace, ideals though are some what different to me, take socialism for instance, tot, s made to look good by media, etc dispute overwhelming proof capitalism is better and socialism is destructive, but people puch for it out of ignorance and the people lead, g then know full well what it is, but keep people in the dark, through bad education, think if sjws good people with good intentions but for the wrong causes, in the wrong direction,
Other people bring others down. That’s why Africans bleach.
I hate to bring race up but like think about...
White people basically made beauty standards. If you’re black and you spent all your life someone telling you’re evil, ugly because of your skin then of course you’re going to hate yourself. This kinda of mentality of can be passed down from family to family. I get told all the time “you’re so pretty for a black girl” it’s whatever I guess.
Yes that what im telling everyone. beauty standards were made by white people altho I think its changing. its been changing every 200 or 300 years throughout history.
It's mental issues cos they can't find their place in society assertively so they seek power through violence and buy into a distorted perception to feel levelled with the other 'whites' in the country he lives. So who's to blame? It's also society 's fault for not being kind either.
I think self hate comes from feeling inferior. Whether you think your height, race, age, gender, or etc makes you inferior to others, that causes you to hate it. "If it weren't for X, I would be normal/ better/ happy/ blah." And you hate that it keeps you from being what you want to be– what you feel you deserve to be, or need to be in order to be happy.
Don't get too hung up on how it manifests. It's a mental health issues. The brain is programmed to carve patterns. When something goes wrong - often but not always in early childhood - and people can't get past it, they replay it in a symbolic way. That is to say not the actual original trauma but a symbol of that trauma. They keep repeating that pattern so that they can try to understand and get past the original trauma.
Definitely society and their expectations. That's not how it should be but sometimes even the strongest person can fall for it. I personally grew up hating my skin color, hair and facial features because I live in a country where those things are considered "ugly". It's not that you agree with those things, like I know it's perfectly normal, but the rejection often affects you in a bad way.
Well this is just one particular type of self hatred Children of immigrants are often caught in a culture clash between society at large and the culture in their home Different people react to it differently For some they feel out of place in either culture Others go full board on one of them only and abhors the other for it reminds them of where they felt they didn't fit in Some manage to combine them take the best of both worlds
When you can't tolerate what people say about you. Stereotypes are everywhere and it is always important to be tolerable with it. Everybody has stereotypes. If you just believe in the bad things people say about you then you will hate yourself. If you want them to stop then you stop them how you wanna stop them.
It's the feeling of frustration that your ethnicity as a group is not reaching its full potential even though it can, and that because they (people of the same race as you) aren't acting the ways you would like, you feel grouped in with them. So in desperation and frustration you believe that hating them can separate you from them.
Can be a lot of things, can be because family said bad stuff about you or you don't fit the standard of beauty / what's considered normal or just that you're too hard on yourself, etc...
I think it's very ironically and weird that John Ausonius shot so called "people of color" as a "man of color" himself. Jackie Arklöv did much of the same things too.
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