Should I, a former right-wing, turned left-wing guy — be attracted to this #AllLivesMatter girl?

[CertifiedHandsomity]

This Asian girl captioned "#alllivesmatter" with a black screen on insta and she is starting to make me feel less attracted to her

Let me start by saying this, she's a self described aerialist, yogi, she looks 18.. she's hot and Asian, i followed her a few months ago and surprisingly she followed me back !

She liked a few if not many of my photos.. I put a black screen stating only #blackouttuesday (since I didn't know how people would react if i put black, all, blue or white lives matter.. lol)

Considering i have many centrist and right wing friends and family members, I have considered not unfollowing this girl. She liked my black screen pic and also put one of her own with both #blackouttuesday and #alllivesmatter (just not #blacklivesmatter)

I have also considered context since she didn't put a cop or rebel flag.. that to me would flinge me as thinking she is " too right wing " for me..

Most of my online female mutuals (both single and taken) are white and hispanic, and at least center-left, if not left-wing as hell.. a lot of them follow Cardi B/Nicki Minaj/Ariana Grande, and some even follow centrists like Kim K (who might even be center-right since she has liberal views but is married to right winger Kanye West) and/or Taylor Swift (who is definitely a moderate) — I might have one female friend that follows a true right wing celebrity (like carrie underwood or maybe hilary duff), not so sure about that tho..

Politics don't usually turn me on, but I'm more attracted to center-left girls than anyone... (far left doesn't turn me on that much... and centrist and right wing are not that hippie to me... most right wing girls tbh tend to have a smaller ass than left and centrist girls)

My conspiracy is that flat assed girls tend to be more right wing and vice versa since they tend to be pale white aussie or vegas lookin and their super christian deadbeat daddies will blow their heads off if they dare date a black or a mexican dude..

Yea

No

Up to you, dirtbag!!

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Lol, she edited her post several hours ago and changed it to #saynotoracism..

[sparke328]

First: politics shouldn't matter when you're crushing or attracted to someone— that all comes later like when you're dating and you see if your political views can coexist in a relationship together.
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I love how you say, "My conspiracy is that flat assed girls tend to be more right wing and vice versa since they tend to be pale white aussie or vegas lookin" haha lol. dude your conspiracy is wronggg. no flat ass here at all. also I don't look like a vegas girl or like an aussie at all. just a normal white girl lol.

also: "and their super christian deadbeat daddies will blow their heads off if they dare date a black or a mexican dude." lol nope I might be Christian but my dad would not be upset if I was in a interracial relationship— he wouldn't care. He just wants me to be happy in life lol.
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also all lives do matter: black, white, Asian, hispanic, middle eastern. Every race has been oppressed at some point, whether it was the Irish slaves, African American community with Jim Crow laws, the middle east after 9/11, Asians during the pandemic, or Hispanics working in the Bracero Program. Humans have the right to live that's why murder is a sin and George Floyd needs justice— because his right to live was stripped from him, not because he was black. Such justice needs to punish the cruel police officer who killed him. Everyone bleeds red so we should understand what we're fighting for human rights not just black rights because all lives matter. If the same thing happened to a white man in the same scenario I would be saying the same thing. Also applies with an Asian, Hispanic, or person of a different race. In each scenario, the breathe of life is stripped away from the person and demands justice for the actions taken. Hope that makes sense.

[JananiiSrii]

You're attracted to who you're attracted. Nothing wrong with that.

[InternetGuy]

You can't control who you're attracted to. But from my experience people who use "all lives matter" to counter BLM usually aren't very bright. But I get you. There's this chick who is pretty cute and she seemed like she was a pretty cool person. But it didn't take long for me to find out that she's a commie and "ACAB" type of person. After that I knew it wasn't going to work out, but a part of me was still wondering if I should give it a shot anyways.

[Anonymous]

you'd seriously be offended if she put a picture of the police on her profile? rofl. Just let her go. She's too good for you dude. If you can't support the over 750,000 "good" police that are out there saving EVERYONE'S lives every single day, and you choose to hate an entire group for the actions of a very small few, then you clearly have issues that she doesn't deserve to have to deal with in her life.

[Keyboardkat]

My friend, there's no "should I be attracted" to this or that type of person. We love what we love. We are attracted to what (and whom) we are attracted to! What's the saying? The heart wants what it wants! The mathematician and philosopher Blaise Pascal said, "The heart has its reasons, which reason never knows."
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[Keyboardkat]

I hit "Send" too soon. I was going to say that my dear wife and I have nothing in common at all. But we've been together five decades! I will always be there for her and she will always be there for me. Thus you see, it has NOTHING to do with politics and the like. A person can disagree with you over all kinds of things, and yet be a perfectly fine and wonderful person and she can fall in love with you! Stop limiting those you will accept as friends (and more).

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Meh, just re-educate her while you're holding her down and fucking her from behind. You'll be surprised at just how quick she gets her head on straight.

[SwordShield]

Hell yes. Honestly, read up on the praising of the Black Liberation Army and Yusra Khogali. BLM ain't so perfect.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Since you need to ask the question... no. Not for you.

[Anonymous]

At least she’s not afraid to say alllivesmatter. People get so overworked because of such stupid things. I guess the real question is “why should we believe the propaganda of the news.”

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Most people are afraid to say things that make them sound like idiots. That's why most people are afraid to say alllivesmatter. And yes, people do get overworked over stupid shit like the government murdering civilians for no reason. Silly.

[CertifiedHandsomity]

@HungLikeAHorsefly A lot of my online friends either support black lives or all lives matter.. or they just don't say anything. I hate losing followers. Especially cute girl followers.. glad I haven't lost them yet. But most of the hotties with booties and boobies are going out with BLACK lives matter but only in their stories really not in their posts..

[CertifiedHandsomity]

@HungLikeAHorsefly but one of my online friends, a female (I don't know if she still has a boyfriend) went out and said "If You Don't Agree with BLM or ACAB unfollow/block me" and even blocked tens)

[CertifiedHandsomity]

this one Hispanic single mom she is like 23-30ish she said BLM in her story and respects BLM completely but also said the riots needed to stop.. honestly she sounds like a centrist to me

Since lots of Hispanic moms are strict and Christian with their kids.. that sounds right wing. And if she is a centrist, this Asian girl I am discussing in my post is likely a light conservative (center right or just right wing)

[CertifiedHandsomity]

meaning not a diehard Fox News or Trump fan but also an independent, center right to neutral right

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly the deranged cop (s) who shouldn’t have a badge that kill people is not equal to government involvement. I want justice too. It’s going to take awhile to gather all the info. Here I’ll make a prediction. Then put it on the back shelf for awhile. I predict POTUS will appoint three more Supreme Court picks. Maybe RBG, Kagan, Soto. if it happens will people get upset? Or will everything go over as an easy transition? I think it will get violent. Especially if a majority decides “let’s re examine roe vs wade, should it remain a law at the federal level, or do we leave it up to the states?” Of course it’s probably unlikely to happen, but WHAT IF? Believing all lives matter is not stupid. It’s stupid to believe that it takes away from other people. It’s encompassing everyone, but others don’t care about anyone else, they only care for themselves or a select group.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Yeah, except that when someone says "All Lives Matter", they don't mean "All Lives Matter". What they mean is "when you say 'Black Lives Matter', you're wrong". It's what we call a "weasel phrase". _especially_ given the fact that 95% of the time when someone says ALM, they then go on to demonstrate that not all lives actually do matter to them.

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly hello. #All lives matter. Read it over all... lives... matter. One death is too many, doesn’t matter skin color. Everyone’s blood is red, and we are all created equal in Gods image, why are we letting things like class and race cloud our minds?

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Because race does matter - black people are killed by police far and above all of the other races. You aren't going to lay that "I don't see color" bullshit on me, are you?

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly racism, and every other ism will be promulgated until election time. There are at least 4-6% of people however that are so given over to the propaganda brainwash that they are forever hopeless to never change. Did you remember a few years back in NYC when a black Muslim police office knocked on a woman’s door and shot her in the head. His reasoning was “mistaken identity, I thought it was someone else.” Where were people to instigate protests like Jesse Jackson. Did you hear about the white couple
Murders of Channon Christian and Christopher Newsom. Killed by five black people that poured bleach down their throats, gang raped the female in front of her boyfriend, then they killed them. In court they even said “yeah we fucking hate people.” No one wanted to prosecute it as a hate crime because they were worried about fueling a riot. Right now the country is so blind by not wanting to do the right thing that nothing is done against the people who really commit crimes. The cop who killed George Floyd was probably mentally deranged and shouldn’t have been there. George Floyd’s brother came out saying his brother was a gentle giant and wouldn’t be in support of people protesting, and wouldn’t want blood in the streets. That’s why I feel like the nation is attempting to stop the prosecution and crimes being found on Barack Obama/Soetoro. He’s one of the people allowing for the violence right now. It sounds like your missing out on a chance to date someone because she said the wrong thing. its life, your still young. The hands up doesn’t shoot with mike brown was bs, I’ve seen the actual footage of what happened. He was punching the cop, and tried reaching for his gun. George Flynn was a legitimate kind innocent person, not mike brown. And for what, people were fucking dumb enough to burn down Ferguson. To rephrase what you said “racism is blind until idiots ruin everyone’s day.”

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

The fact that people commit horrible, race-based crimes in all different directions on a regular basis doesn't excuse the fact that the police murder American citizens all the time, and of the people they murder, it's disproportionately black people. Nobody is saying not All Lives Matter - it's that Black Lives don't matter to a lot of people, and especially not to cops.

Besides, if you really thought All Lives Matter, then you'd be as outraged as everyone else is about police brutality, rather than trying to excuse away BLM.

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly I don’t see racism

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Bullshit. You're in denial of your own garden variety racism.

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly racism was almost dead until Obama revived it

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

That's pretty naive. Do you still believe in the Easter Bunny, too?

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly I’m telling you by the time Trump leaves office in 2024, people will hardly remember Obama. He may have his presidency and everything he’s ever done ripped and stripped from him. The only way I know of when that happens is basically treason. And yes, I know the results and consequences. Justice has to be blind. And no the Easter bunny, Santa, etc.. are all make believe.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

That may very well be - Obama wasn't a super great president. To think racism was almost dead until he showed up is just astoundingly stupid. It's a childish thought and something only an extremely sheltered individual who hasn't seen much of the world or the people in it, would believe.

Insofar as when Trump leaves office - it won't be 2024. He'll either install himself as a dictator and never leave, or he'll come out well before 2024 - possibly in an orange jumpsuit.

[Opinion Owner]

@HungLikeAHorsefly I think after Trump wins re-election and before he leaves in 2024 it’s actually going to different from everything you just said. Please I’m not trying to fuck with you , or troll you. I’m trying to help people not get pissed off and lose their collective shit even more when the shit finally hits the fan. I really don’t like coming back to say I told you so. Please understand I want the best for everyone. If we were all richer than bill gates, no one would be at each other’s throats. God bless