My mother is a BITCH, I wish she dies painfully and alone. Why do bad people get good children?

[Anonymous]

She put me through a lot of trauma.
Instead of being a real mother she just USED ME AS A SLAVE.
I cooked for her, massaged her paining muscles, cleaned house, always showered her with hugs and kisses.

She's a big narcissist and ALWAYS criticizing and comparing me.
No matter what I do, she always finds faults in me.
I remember when I was about to jump off the building because she FORCED ME TO STAY ON MY MAJOR. She always thought about herself!!!

Even if I'm sick today, she couldn't care less.

• Whenever i become emotional and demand love and affection from her, she gets irritated.

Then I lashed out, she said that I DON'T DESERVE any human being and I deserve to live alone.
These words HURT MY SOUL THE MOST.

Now I've had ENOUGH and will NEVER FORGIVE HER.

She's a FAKE BITCH who is obsessed with her public image and making connections who she can use.

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She frequently makes me feel that I'M WORTHLESS, Clingy, STUPID AND I DON'T DESERVE ANYONE.

She is competitive with me. It feels like I'm living with an enemy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you are healthy enough to work and support yourself, cut ties with her, forget she exists, and find someone who loves you instead of treating you like shit, and you will no longer suffer from all that pent up rage, because at that point, all your mom's power is gone, your problems melted away, and her assholish behavior will result in her pushing everyone away until she indeed is alone.

The best revenge to an abusive control freak, is to make all their efforts wasted and live a better life than them.

[michael1469]

Gee, if i didn't know any better i would say you are mad.

What do you think your mother felt when she had to wipe your ass and feed your pie hole. Dress you as well as wash your shit covered clothes?

[Asker]

My grandmother did that and she raised me until she was alive.

[lynnn]

You are not alone. My grandmother is also a narcissist who gaslights my mom and has never shown her any love. All she does is yell at my mom, tell her she has an "anger problem," and says she needs counseling. There is no helping these people. I truly feel for you and if you want to talk more feel free to PM me.

[Asker]

Thank you so much dear for understanding me. Even my fake mom also says that I have anger issues after neglecting and insulting me.

[Asker]

I'm just a normal person who is doing her best in college and training myself to become capable for the future jobs. According to her I do nothing and I am a fool who will fail in life.

[lynnn]

Yes, this is the typical behavior. And it starts young. My grandmother used to even torture animals as a child and she thought it was funny. Like she would put hot sauce in the neighborhood dog's water bowl and laugh when it was in pain.

[lynnn]

Sorry, the other post you posted didn't appear to me until now. But yes, my grandmother sent my mom off to college at 18 and never visited her or spoke to her the whole time. In her mind, it was like "good riddance" and my mom has been on her own since. And it has taken her 20+ years to process the fact that she was born to a narcissistic woman who really couldn't care less what happens to her.

[lynnn]

But the most important thing you can remember is that you are NORMAL and LOVABLE. Your mom can make you doubt yourself. My grandmother would even call my mom a potential murderer when my mom was only 8 years old. But remind yourself that you are lovable and it is not your fault at all that your mom is the way she is. You deserve a good man/woman in your life and this person will show you what real love is. <3

[Asker]

Thank you sweetie. Not even my own mother spoke those compassionate words to me. Surprisingly she was about to beat me very badly when I was 8 year old but then i got angry and defended myself by pulling out a dozen of her hair strands. Then she called me a murderer. I didn't meant to pull a dozen of her hair strands out but I just wanted her to not hurt me. She always tells me to go for ARRANGED marriage and even if the husband is abusive, it's my duty to obey, please him and adjust. But ironically she says that if her husband was abusive then she would have left him. What a selfish demon she is.

[lynnn]

I am so sorry you experienced that. You need to get as far away from her as you can and try to start healing yourself. I don't know if you've ever heard of reiki, but I find that sessions really do work to help me balance out my energy, and I feel much more energized after. No matter what she says or does, the best thing you can do is to not respond. They try to get a response out of you, and when you don't respond, that is the biggest annoyance to them. It is also the only way you can truly heal.

[joeldalton]

You are now drinking poison and hoping your mom dies. Let go of your past and become a productive adult.

[Asker]

She lives in the same roof. I'll just avoid her.. I'll be free next year

[Anonymous]

She sounds like my ex wife.
I had to cut all ties to her because she's horrible.

[Asker]

I wish that my dad had also divorced her. He is just too scared to lose anyone. She doesn't deserve kids, husband and friends. I hope she rots alone. How can someone be so ungrateful and say things like 'you never cooked for me' WHEN I worked my ass off to feed her new varieties of restraurant style dishes made by me. She even enjoyed those. She just said those lines because I jokingly told her 'why are you watching a food tiktok repeatedly'?

[Opinion Owner]

She's selfish like my ex.
She has no memory or appreciation of anything anybody has done for her.
I was basically a slave for my ex and after she cheated and left she told everybody lies that I'm a deadbeat dad and useless and the marriage was bad.
What a load of shit!
It hurts so bad to love someone and not be appreciated or even acknowledged by them.
She's abusive just like your mom.
I hope you can get away from that nasty, selfish person.

[Asker]

Thanks and I'm glad you got rid of your ex wife. I personally wish to kill people like them. Not only they're evil, they also make us feel like WE DON'T DESERVE ANY HUMAN TO BE WITH US. These words she said today seriously hurt my soul. Now she's really dead to me. I was a stupid to forgive and forget but NOW , I'll show her the consequences of being selfish, inconsiderate and ungrateful.

[Anonymous]

Narcissism is extremely damaging, I hope that you can recover in time.

[boggboss]

So move out leave her cut contact

[boggboss]

So stop communicating with her stop feeling into what she does

[Asker]

I can't until I get a job that let's me afford basic needs. My father is my support system. She's just a useless carcass rotting in my home.😡😡

[EssenceOfLight]

"Why do bad people get good children? "
My mother is an evil bitch too and in my case the apple didn't fall far away from tree.

[Guffrus]

This guy here, doesn't have the first fucking clue what narcissism is.