Tbh celebrities rarely choose their own outfuts. Hords of people, from pr, marketing and usual managers, producers of video clips, fashion stylists, choreographers and finally label owners and sponsors, all suggest things and play big part on which clothes they wear publically.
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First of all, anyone has a right to "embrace their femininity" (or masculinity, in the case of a woman). No one is stopping them.
But it is generally seen as unattractive and off putting to the opposite sex. That is the underlying reason why they get criticized.
I would like to point out that is it common today for women to say they support men who embrace their femininity or express their emotions. They say that because they are supposed to say it. It's the politically correct and "kind" thing to do. But they send an unfair message to guys because those same women find those guys unappealing in a romantic or sexual sense.
Let's take as an example Harry Styles and Yungblud, just because I used them in the post, I find them very attractive, they are handsome, I do t care if they wear a shirt or a pair of jeans, if someone is attractive he is despite what he is wearing
You are the exception. Most women are totally turned off by a man who wears a dress. There have been many questions on GAG about that very thing and women consistently say it's a big turnoff. In fact, there was one this morning but I can't find it because GAG's search function SUCKS.
"Why guys who embrace their femininity are seen as gay?" Simple , it's called general observation. The majority of guys who are feminine or express a lot of femininity are usually gay , so it's an easy conclusion to make. If I asked you which type of music a person who dresses Goth listens to , you're not going to say rap.
One of the reasons is because society is unfortunately full of double standards, And it's not even about a guy being gay either it's only seen as "acceptable" by certain people for effeminate gay guys to dress or act like that.
Because man are known for their masculinity it's not socially acceptable for man for wearing dress unless they are gay imagine your boyfriend wearing dress all the pictures you show all this man's are balancing their looks with not being fully male or fully female which is insulting Because this represents manliness as a joke which is why we hate this idiots
Because they usually are gay. “Embracing femininity” is not something men should be doing. Also, your claim that women who dress masculine aren’t criticized is just outright false. Everyone criticizes everyone, regardless of how they dress, what their body looks like, etc. Welcome to the real world kid.
If you are a man you shouldn't have a feminine side..
Because straight men are attracted to feminine side of a person... And if you have a feminine side and are. Showing off your feminine side.. Than you are sending out signal to attract other men.
Hence you want to Mate with other men.. That's considered gay..
Whats "feminine" is largely defined by society and not biology after a certain point. For example: Wearing a skirt is feminine because the current society deems it so. But in the past skirt like garments were worn all the time by men and even literal kings—from England to Egypt. Just look at their sculptures and paintings. Even today there are cultures were such garments are worn in africa, india, japan etc.
People who fail to understand how gender identity evolves with time and place ignorantly spout dumb shit like this.
I am not even going to argue with someone so intellectually inferior.. Who doesn't understands that humans are social animal.. And "what society define" irrespective of biological needs is much more important for society to function properly..
I never said.. Anything that men shouldn't wear skirt.. Or don't wear make up.. Or don't have ponytail.. These things are what are defined by society..
Feminine side is not defined by society.. I am talking about feminine side.. Not talking about what society define..
Your mundane brain took an entire different subject.. Smashed it into my opinion and you keyboard warrior hands.. Start spewing shit.. 🙄🙄 How low is you IQ? You decide
Women are a masculine side while men have a feminine too, but some men are scared to show it just because of society, I think @weeee is right, he is not intellectually inferior just because he has a different opinion than yours
" Women are a masculine side while men have a feminine too" I agree with you dear.. That wasn't wrong.. It exists since both gender interact with each other they copy behavior and traits...
The two points that make me think he is wrong is..
1) " Whats "feminine" is largely defined by society and not biology after a certain point" - that's true but saying that it's wrong is stupid because society decides things on social group psychological behavior which helps.. Society run faster and smoother... Women keep their hair long so some random man doesn't treats them like a men and they don't feel that they are less of a women.. Same goes for men..
2) " People who fail to understand how gender identity evolves with time and place ignorantly spout dumb shit like this." - technically is no such thing as a gender identity.. We have 3 types of genders.. Classified as 1) XX Females, 2) XY males, 3) Genetic errors incapable of reproduction...
If you are XX and you say i define my gender identity as Male while biology clearly says.. You are female.. That's means there is something seriously psychologically wrong with you..
If you are XY and say I define as a female.. While biology clearly says.. You are male.. That's means there is something seriously psychologically wrong with you..
TRUTH is always harsh.. And people don't want to fix psychologically messed people..
So they would rather let them spin and sew their own new 24 genders and spin the crap of Gender identity...
Truth is none of us decide our genders.. It's the mitosis that happened inside our parents decide is we are a X or a Y Sperm.. That merges with a X Ovum and Than we are either XX or XY.. Or if something goes wrong we are a genetic error..
However.. Gay's and homosexual are acceptable.. It's a psychological suppression acting as a natural birth control.. In humans.. And that's decided when a foetus is growing his nervous system.. It cannot be changed...
Still Gay men are males.. And lesbian women are females..
"Truth is none of us decide our genders.. It's the Meiosis* that happened inside our parent*( our male parent - father) decide is we are a X or a Y Sperm"
My apologies for the slight error it's been 7 years since I studied this..
I don't think you even understood what i was saying. Also you're doing the classic conflate-sex-with-gender thing here.
Let us, for the sake of the argument, assume that society indeed does pick these qualities based on what lets it operate most smoothly. But if you actually look at it through that lens, many things are impractical. We can yet again look at men's wear for this example. Men have testicles between their legs and so through a purely technical point of view, it would actually make more sense for men to wear lose clothing items like skirts for the lower half for more comfort and something like pants should instead be ideal for women.
Another thing, that you misunderstood here is what i meant by "gender identity". By gender identity i literally meant things that identify a specific gender— hair, timbre of voice, clothing, etc. And the fact that what society deems "manly" or "feminine" changes with time. The expectations society had with men during the stone age and the expectations that society has from men today are totally different. That's the whole point. My reply was strictly speaking of traditional genders so i dont know why did you decide to start this new topic of sex and gender which is a totally different debate on its own.
It's possible for straight men to act effeminate - but mostly the reality is that guys who act feminine actually are gay. That's why they are seen as gay. It's not rocket science.
Feminist tactic: 1. Complain about oppression 2. Turn men into cucks and faggots 3. and as a consequence become a cute "man" and replace the cuckolded men in society 4. Take your antidepressants
Because no woman would fuck them, I mean sure there are some out there as there is something for everyone but normally no majority of women wouldn’t seek a weak effeminate man but rather one that is strong dominate assertive aggressive and masculine
I think the logic works like this, guy acts like a chick, most chicks like dicks there for chicks like dick man acts like chick= man wants dick = he's gay asf. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk
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Tbh celebrities rarely choose their own outfuts. Hords of people, from pr, marketing and usual managers, producers of video clips, fashion stylists, choreographers and finally label owners and sponsors, all suggest things and play big part on which clothes they wear publically.
First of all, anyone has a right to "embrace their femininity" (or masculinity, in the case of a woman). No one is stopping them.
But it is generally seen as unattractive and off putting to the opposite sex. That is the underlying reason why they get criticized.
I would like to point out that is it common today for women to say they support men who embrace their femininity or express their emotions. They say that because they are supposed to say it. It's the politically correct and "kind" thing to do. But they send an unfair message to guys because those same women find those guys unappealing in a romantic or sexual sense.
Let's take as an example Harry Styles and Yungblud, just because I used them in the post, I find them very attractive, they are handsome, I do t care if they wear a shirt or a pair of jeans, if someone is attractive he is despite what he is wearing
You are the exception. Most women are totally turned off by a man who wears a dress. There have been many questions on GAG about that very thing and women consistently say it's a big turnoff. In fact, there was one this morning but I can't find it because GAG's search function SUCKS.
This post deserves a thousand thumbs up. Sadly I could give only one.
@MrOracle Thank you, sir. That means a lot.
"Why guys who embrace their femininity are seen as gay?" Simple , it's called general observation. The majority of guys who are feminine or express a lot of femininity are usually gay , so it's an easy conclusion to make. If I asked you which type of music a person who dresses Goth listens to , you're not going to say rap.
One of the reasons is because society is unfortunately full of double standards, And it's not even about a guy being gay either it's only seen as "acceptable" by certain people for effeminate gay guys to dress or act like that.
Because man are known for their masculinity it's not socially acceptable for man for wearing dress unless they are gay imagine your boyfriend wearing dress all the pictures you show all this man's are balancing their looks with not being fully male or fully female which is insulting Because this represents manliness as a joke which is why we hate this idiots
Because they usually are gay. “Embracing femininity” is not something men should be doing. Also, your claim that women who dress masculine aren’t criticized is just outright false. Everyone criticizes everyone, regardless of how they dress, what their body looks like, etc. Welcome to the real world kid.
If you are a man you shouldn't have a feminine side..
Because straight men are attracted to feminine side of a person...
And if you have a feminine side and are. Showing off your feminine side.. Than you are sending out signal to attract other men.
Hence you want to Mate with other men.. That's considered gay..
Whats "feminine" is largely defined by society and not biology after a certain point. For example: Wearing a skirt is feminine because the current society deems it so. But in the past skirt like garments were worn all the time by men and even literal kings—from England to Egypt. Just look at their sculptures and paintings. Even today there are cultures were such garments are worn in africa, india, japan etc.
People who fail to understand how gender identity evolves with time and place ignorantly spout dumb shit like this.
@weeee
I am not even going to argue with someone so intellectually inferior..
Who doesn't understands that humans are social animal..
And "what society define" irrespective of biological needs is much more important for society to function properly..
I never said.. Anything that men shouldn't wear skirt.. Or don't wear make up.. Or don't have ponytail..
These things are what are defined by society..
Feminine side is not defined by society.. I am talking about feminine side.. Not talking about what society define..
Your mundane brain took an entire different subject.. Smashed it into my opinion and you keyboard warrior hands.. Start spewing shit.. 🙄🙄
How low is you IQ? You decide
Women are a masculine side while men have a feminine too, but some men are scared to show it just because of society, I think @weeee is right, he is not intellectually inferior just because he has a different opinion than yours
" Women are a masculine side while men have a feminine too" I agree with you dear..
That wasn't wrong..
It exists since both gender interact with each other they copy behavior and traits...
The two points that make me think he is wrong is..
1) " Whats "feminine" is largely defined by society and not biology after a certain point" - that's true but saying that it's wrong is stupid because society decides things on social group psychological behavior which helps..
Society run faster and smoother...
Women keep their hair long so some random man doesn't treats them like a men and they don't feel that they are less of a women..
Same goes for men..
2) " People who fail to understand how gender identity evolves with time and place ignorantly spout dumb shit like this."
- technically is no such thing as a gender identity.. We have 3 types of genders..
Classified as
1) XX Females,
2) XY males,
3) Genetic errors incapable of reproduction...
If you are XX and you say i define my gender identity as Male while biology clearly says.. You are female.. That's means there is something seriously psychologically wrong with you..
If you are XY and say I define as a female.. While biology clearly says.. You are male..
That's means there is something seriously psychologically wrong with you..
TRUTH is always harsh.. And people don't want to fix psychologically messed people..
So they would rather let them spin and sew their own new 24 genders and spin the crap of Gender identity...
Truth is none of us decide our genders.. It's the mitosis that happened inside our parents decide is we are a X or a Y Sperm..
That merges with a X Ovum and
Than we are either XX or XY.. Or if something goes wrong we are a genetic error..
However.. Gay's and homosexual are acceptable..
It's a psychological suppression acting as a natural birth control.. In humans..
And that's decided when a foetus is growing his nervous system..
It cannot be changed...
Still Gay men are males..
And lesbian women are females..
"Truth is none of us decide our genders.. It's the Meiosis* that happened inside our parent*( our male parent - father) decide is we are a X or a Y Sperm"
My apologies for the slight error it's been 7 years since I studied this..
I don't think you even understood what i was saying. Also you're doing the classic conflate-sex-with-gender thing here.
Let us, for the sake of the argument, assume that society indeed does pick these qualities based on what lets it operate most smoothly. But if you actually look at it through that lens, many things are impractical. We can yet again look at men's wear for this example. Men have testicles between their legs and so through a purely technical point of view, it would actually make more sense for men to wear lose clothing items like skirts for the lower half for more comfort and something like pants should instead be ideal for women.
Another thing, that you misunderstood here is what i meant by "gender identity". By gender identity i literally meant things that identify a specific gender— hair, timbre of voice, clothing, etc. And the fact that what society deems "manly" or "feminine" changes with time. The expectations society had with men during the stone age and the expectations that society has from men today are totally different. That's the whole point. My reply was strictly speaking of traditional genders so i dont know why did you decide to start this new topic of sex and gender which is a totally different debate on its own.
It's possible for straight men to act effeminate - but mostly the reality is that guys who act feminine actually are gay. That's why they are seen as gay. It's not rocket science.
Because they are afaid of us.
I maybe a crossdresser, but im nobodys bitch, and I'll fight back. Can you see it on the news, Man in dress beats the shit out of moron.
A lot of people confuse gender expression/identity with sexual orientation.
Claryy: Why are men who express their feminity seen as gay?
Also Claryy: Posts pics of celebrities embracing femininity, of which most are gay or bi.
I used then as an example because they are very famous lol
And some of them aren't gay
half are at least Bi, haha.
Harry Styles doesn't want to be labeled, Yungblud Iis pansexual that is diffent
David bowie had two wife and Freddy mercury was with a woman before of his boyfriend
Feminist tactic:
1. Complain about oppression
2. Turn men into cucks and faggots
3. and as a consequence become a cute "man" and replace the cuckolded men in society
4. Take your antidepressants
Could you date a man who wears dresses, makeup, heels etc?
Because no woman would fuck them, I mean sure there are some out there as there is something for everyone but normally no majority of women wouldn’t seek a weak effeminate man but rather one that is strong dominate assertive aggressive and masculine
Because they are. Nothing wrong with being gay, though.
First of all, guys don't HAVE a feminine side. You're barking up a tree.
The last thing we need is more girlie-men. PERIOD.
I think the logic works like this, guy acts like a chick, most chicks like dicks there for chicks like dick man acts like chick= man wants dick = he's gay asf. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk
Famous people performers etc can get away with things normal people can't
Because many people do not know what gay is. Gay means you are fucking the same gender not what you wear
Gay also means happy and Joy