What pronouns do you use when referring to victims in general?

[marish01]

This question came to me after I watched the testimony of Amber Heard's psychologist.

[MCheetah]

I use he/him for men, and she/her for women, like a normal person, and nothing else. And yes, we all can tell the psychologist isn't very subtle trying to use female pronouns to imply Heard is the victim; it's very obvious and not as clever as the psychologist thinks it is.

Also, "fun" fact: Most domestic abuse is perpetrated by women. 40% of all reported cases, however, it's more like 60% of the unreported (but known of) cases out there, where the man did not call the police or file charges.

It is mostly done by women. Female victims just get more sympathy and attention when it happens, especially since women are more fragile. People also dismiss or even mock male abuse victims, including law enforcement themselves.

But most of domestic abuse IS done by women, and almost all domestic abuse done involving blunt objects/weapons involves women.

http://sites.ncf.edu/interact/what-is-relationship-violence/male-survivors

And using your boobs for clicks, Marish? For shame! Don't do that. It cheapens your video to do that.

[marish01]

It's a shame she was defining psychology terms by using she and revolving it around one supposed victim Amber.
I showed it only once. At least in the future no one will claim I got a boob job.

[OlderAndWiser]

If the victim is a male, I say "he" or "him" or "that dude." If the victim is a female, I say "she" or "her" or "that chick."

[SnakeBoop]

normally you'd just use "the victim" and "the abuser". unless your sentence is completely specific about for instance, how an abuser would isolate their victims, then you could bring out "they". otherwise it can be confusing for your audience to use they and refer to both parties as it.

[Smashingdoozy]

You refer to them by their assumed pronoun unless other wise told. In general as in victims as a group of people you use they/their/them

[AviatorTom]

I prefer using the pronouns he/him and she/her when the person's gender is known and the singular-they pronoun "they/them" when it's not known.

[mantelk]

I use the word victim. Like you have Dr, Mr, professor. I use Victim. Like instead of saying Mr. Depp I would say Victim. Depp lol jk. What a weird question.

[SmokyOne]

I don't. I'll use the person's name or refer to them as the victim/ Survivor or perpetrator/ piece of shit when talking about the abuser

[Anonymous]

So is this how you look without your Face App filters that you make you look younger? 🤣🤣

[marish01]

I dont use that app for making me younger. I did use it for my elder version.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol sure
Why do you look so old in your videos then in comparison to your photos

[marish01]

How old do I look in my videos and pics?

[FunkyMonkee]

Te same ones I use under any other circumstances: he, his, hers, she.

[Cubus]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/md8nInMGhFY

[Juxtapose]

Pronouns? Sounds like some sjw shit, I just refer to the people as I do anyone else 🤷‍♂️

[notwoke]

this should be obvious, girls = her and boys = him. there's really no mystery

[Smartman5]

I use the pronoun "they". I actually use this a lot. not just talking about victims.

[Anonymous]

I base it on whatever is in between their legs

[marish01]

Do you check it yourself?

[Opinion Owner]

I take a guess, 99% of the time I'm right.

[TheLoneTerran]

Whatever pronoun they prefer. Obviously.

[Sevenpointfive]

them? is them a pronoun?

[KrakenAttackin]

Such made up, first world, bullshit.

[cth96190]

I use correct English.

[exitseven]

him and her or maybe "it"

[LimitedBenefits101]

he/she

is that you on the video?

[marish01]

Yes.

[motownplayer2000]

I dont generalities. I do specifics

[loveslongnails]

I didn't watch any of this trial, thank God!

[anylolone]

Victims? Them/they. It's third person plural.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

they/them