Would you let a Ukrainian refugee live in your home?

Question

This is what happened when one British couple did: British man leaves gf for Ukrainian women he just met

belle_kai · Accepted Answer

I don't have the space to but I would. I would rather them stay in another property that I own but do not live in. I would want to meet them first and speak to them, I work in the property industry so I get a good idea of people by asking certain questions because although we're helping them we still have to make sure it will work too.

I also read a lot of Ukrainians have left their hosts homes and are not getting along with them! It didn't say why.

I know a manager at another company who invited a family to his home, he has a wife and 3 kids so I believe its a mother and child. All good so far

Also that guy that left his wife for the Ukrainian refugee I think he was waiting for that. It won't last.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

The reality is the UK has had a long history of people coming over and forming relationships with the natives. Some of these relationships will of course be with people already in relationships.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No I wouldn’t. I have a whole family to take care of. It’s impossible to know what type of person they are. I think that people today act a lot differently than they did 100 years ago.

A lot of the men who want to house refugees are creeps. Literally the only reason they do it is because they want to get laid with a hot young Ukrainian girl. In this case he obviously did, but I wonder how long that will last?

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I daed a women from the Ukraine intermittently and rather sporadically from 2007 to 2020. We lived about 60 miles apart when we started dating, then she moved and we were 240 miles apart. She is a good woman but a bit materialistic, presumably as a result of growing up in the former USSR, where she lived through constant shortages of consumer goods.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

When I saw this question come up on the feed, I was ready to answer jokingly, "Only if she's hot." Then I clicked on the link and read the story. I guess truth is stranger than comedy.

OddBeMe · Answer

No but I wouldn't let an American nor relative stay either. I'd pay for their hotel room in a bad part of town of course because it's cheaper. And they'd recognize that living standard better than the Ritz.

Anonymous · Answer

The results of this post make me a little sad. As somebody who has been homeless and had homeless people stay with me short term growing up although they were not complete strangers I'm very disappointed a night on the couch from a stranger can realy change things for you.

I do understand that if your a woman you may not want a larger strange man staying with you but considering most of them are at war it would be women and children.

Aurora1010 · Answer

No. There are plenty of homeless people in my own country and if I hadn't thought to take one into my house since I don't know them then why would I take in a Ukrainian refugee

Anonymous · Answer

No, I live by myself, and I wouldn't be comfortable having strangers in my home.  Also, I like living alone, it's my solitude and where I can have peace in my mind.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

You got to watch who you let stay in your household no matter who they are and that includes a Ukraine refugee

grega239 · Answer

Why? I've seen posts on fb of ukranians looking for apartments... IN THE FUCKING CAPITAL CITY.

If they can afford that, they should be giving me a room because i can't get a flat unless i want to starve

OldWorldOrder · Answer

I would let a Russian from Donbass live in my house, absolutely. No ukrops. They made their bed, now they must burn in it. :)

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

No offense but we're about to have infants so I don't want any strangers living here for at least 2 years.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I would give them food, clothes, but no I wouldn't let a complete stranger live with me...

Soteris · Answer

If they share the rent, I dont see why not. I do have a spare bedroom.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

now that's true love! bwahaha what a douchebag and naive woman

jshm2 · Answer

To be honest, it's probably bunkem and not as simple as she's making it out.

douride2 · Answer

I may help them out but no stranger is living in my house.

Juxtapose · Answer

No, get your own place. I pay for mine and don't like letting strangers stay over.

Twalli · Answer

What happened on this situation wouldn't happen with me, because she'd be in another floor of the house most of the time.

Better_off_here · Answer

i would not i mean i feel bad for them and all but i am not interested in any more people in my home :)

JessieBellll · Answer

No that's just ridiculous.  I have my own problem to deal with

jjj101010 · Answer

Sounds shit but if someone with absolutely nothing can offer ur partner more that u can then something was wrong in the first place

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck no. Let Europeans care for them if they are so goddamn selfless.

Anonymous · Answer

Hey. We all got to do our part to support the war effort. 🤣

Pudsmucker · Answer

I would say yes they need loving and care after what they've gone through.

MagicCarpet1 · Answer

If they want to get deported to Russia, sure.

Tamera952 · Answer

They could camp in the yard!

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, I would if I had the space and money and time.

Dargil · Answer

Temporarily but not permanently.

lofii · Answer

Only if she giving me sloppy toppy

888theGreat · Answer

for a gold eagle everyday

Waldoe · Answer

But I don't have the final Word on these matters

Jouth · Answer

Only if I can live in their home

possumpi26 · Answer

Fuck no.

Fuentes · Answer

Lol no

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Sure why not.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

no thanks.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, Id pass on that.

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