What’s a gentlemen and do you think they exist in 2022 ?

[cth2188]

Sadly , I don’t think many of them exist to none.. society has been taken over by disrespectful men.. it’s weed out respectful men

Yes, gentlemen exist in 2022

No, gentlemen don’t exist only bad boys

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+1 y

Too many betas and oversexualized men I’m constantly running these dudes out my DMs on dating apps

[motownplayer2000]

I would say, the gentleman in the concept that you want to see gentleman doesn’t exist anymore. Ever since the evolvement of women’s right, feminism, and women blaming a lot of stuff on misogyny, even though a lot of those misogynistic views actually come from other toxic women judging there own… men have had to evolve and change. Can’t expect whatever you want and then say a man is disrespectful. Lol doesn’t work like that. Like social media, you know there will always be thirsty dudes on social media, but for every 10 of those douche bags, there is probably one or two that tried to talk to you. But you got bored with them super quick. And decided not to continue a conversation. I see it all the time, and it use to happen to me when I was younger, trying to be the nice guy. You want a gentleman but you really don’t. Women in general need to figure out what they want. Just like when they want food but don’t know what they want. It’s the same with men’s behavior.

[Adronicus]

A gentleman in my opinion is someone who cares for the group's well being more than their own. I know there are still a few. Unfortunately they are not rewarded for being what they are & punished instead encouraging more & more men to become evil (self serving).

[Sparkie460]

Yes there are gentlemen out there. My dad raised one and I also raised one. They are few and far between but they are out there. I've noticed from what women have told me that respectful guys are scarce. If you find one Don't lose him.

[cth2188]

Yet I’m still praying for one.. it’s becoming hard

[cth2188]

I stay to myself and when God wants me to have a mate he’ll send him

[Sparkie460]

Don't give up trying to find one. When you least expect it he'll be right in front of you

[cth2188]

I’m hidden and refuse to get devoured out here I’ve been single almost 9 years for a reason

[cth2188]

Thanks

[bamesjond0069]

Im a gentleman but only to ladies. Otherwise i act like an aggressive sexual douche when dealing with hos. Lady equals fulfills traditional feminine roles and behaviors. Ie a young polite virgin is a lady. A married submissive wife is a lady. A single 30 yo career woman is not a lady. An onlyfans model is not a lady.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I believe a gentleman is a man who values other people's needs as equal to his own. A simp is a man who values women's needs higher than his own. And an asshole is someone who sees everyone else's needs as being beneath his own.

[Sixgunsound]

I wouldn’t say they don’t exist, but I would say that women who recognize their value are accepting rings from them to lock them down more quickly so that they aren’t on the market very long if they make it to market at all.

[Chris_7565]

I'm still chivalrous, but it's because I grew up in a time where men opened doors for women and paid for dates. Part of me will always try to take care of women that I date because it feels good.

[exitseven]

Some do exist. I have two sons that I raised to be gentlemen.

[cth2188]

That’s great

[HighValue]

They are only gentlemen for an actual lady. So no reason to be a gentleman when the majority of women are very immoral and not deserving of respect.

[Honesttguy]

Toxic feminism came around and bullied guys and now put them on defence. Guys are no longer willing to reach out as much and play safe. And they have to.

[cth2188]

Same for good women I don’t throw myself at men..

[cth2188]

Most of the guys of today just want to bed or talk about sex 24/7

[cth2188]

Currently the issue right now I don’t want to talk to men

[TenkRealist]

Well it is partly to due to the increase in slutty/non traditional women too. :)

[cth2188]

You guys can have them

[cth2188]

Not competing against that

[TenkRealist]

Yup. Why bother being gentlemanly when some girls make it so easy? Gentlemanly guys exist too. You just have to find them :)

[cth2188]

Not seeking anyone thus why I’m single almost 9 years.. dating is too risky and complicated nowadays

[cth2188]

Too many factors right now

[TenkRealist]

If not now then when, you said it has been 9 years already. You're not getting any younger. Js.

[cth2188]

I have my peace of mind and dignity

[cth2188]

I purposely don’t date

[cth2188]

It’s for the best

[TenkRealist]

I see. Well do what's good for you.

[TenkRealist]

Oh you're that one from Telegram. Yeah. Not fun. I see why.

[cth2188]

Telegram?

[cth2188]

I don't know who you are

[TenkRealist]

Cool. Nvm then.

[TenkRealist]

Aren't you that black woman, divorced? Or am I wrong?

[cth2188]

Yep divorced and happily single almost 10 years.. even beyond the gentlemen part dating is risky nowadays

[TenkRealist]

Yeah. I did talk to you then. Yeah, you're boring. That's why.

[cth2188]

Nope.. idc go find excitement bud 🍷

[TenkRealist]

Yeah.

[cth2188]

Plenty out here trust me !

[TenkRealist]

I'm good. Thanks.

[MrTaboo]

feminism has trying really hard to destroy us. But we are still around.

[james_d0007]

Yes they exist - Unless you are looking in the wrong spot!

[cth2188]

I’m not looking … I just came in the dating world a few weeks ago

[james_d0007]

I meant in general

[cth2188]

I don’t do bars or clubs less more online dating.. i am not seeking actually hidden

[KatherineJ]

I know because I married one.

[cth2188]

How long ago?

[KatherineJ]

It will be 10 years in August.

[cth2188]

Not doubting they don’t exist.. just not risking myself out here nooo

[cth2188]

Before dating went to shyts a decade ago

[cth2188]

I left the dating world in 2014

[KatherineJ]

Well, good luck. I mean I wasn’t looking when I found mine. Maybes you have been looking too hard? Or in the wrong places?

[cth2188]

Not looking at all thanks though

[cth2188]

I’m not interested in dating for multiple reasons

[KatherineJ]

@cth2188 fair enough. Do what’s right for you.

[cth2188]

Thanks

[jimmy2]

We are hard to find

[cth2188]

Right it’s becoming hard

[cth2188]

Agreed

[KaDooKan]

I reserve gentleness for a deserving woman

[cootjuhh]

only bad boys

[cth2188]

Agreed what I’ve come to the conclusion of

[cootjuhh]

yeah they only want to have sexy time instead of respect an lady

[cth2188]

Yep, sadly I don’t waste my time dating.. I don’t even approach men anymore

[cootjuhh]

aww thats sad

[cth2188]

Ways of society

[cootjuhh]

yeah i guess so

[cth2188]

It is.. men have porn and easy women

[cootjuhh]

pretty sad for us submissive guys who respect women

[cth2188]

Yep I stay to myself … dated women to understand men , but limited experiences with men

[cootjuhh]

ah ok