Is this too much to ask when comes to dating long term?

[Stoner710]

No liberals

no Christian

no kids

no fat girls

im conservatives voted for trump twice

[lightbulb27]

You can ask for anything and good to know your must haves.


You have to accept the parameters. As well… people change. The fat thing may not fly because that is perception…. Eg some thin people think they are fat and fear rejection.


Would you be ok with a bulemic skinny vegetarian that drinks like a fish… Vapes like a volcano, worships the sun and so looks quite weathered spiritually open to the universe but finds the devil enticing and thinks the earth is flat…?

[Stoner710]

Yea I wouldn’t be interested in a bulemic vegetarian that finds the devil enticing and thinks the earth is flat vaping and drinking don’t have and issue with. I was thinking more like Ariana Grande skinny

[lightbulb27]

there's a lot that can turn up in differences and incompatabilities, have to learn to love and accept as they are. But certainly, make choice to keep the stress down and enjoyment high. Good luck with it!

[Stoner710]

Right, I just know I don’t want to date liberals (at least American liberals). Conservatives and liberals are basically polar opposites in the United States with nothing in common. You need to have similar values when it comes to things like abortion or transing the kids. Christian share more similar values to my own then liberals, the issue is Christian don’t like to date outside there religion. So as an agnostic Christian women wouldn’t be interested in me. I’ve never been one of those one night stand type guys or someone who likes to go around sleeping with a bunch of different women.

[BCA6010]

"No liberals, Christians (which I assume you mean religious women in general), fat girls or women with kids" probably reduces your options by roughly 90% or more, and the remainder are probably so far down the apathetic libertarian rabbit hole that at least some of them would be turned off that you support one of the two major parties at all and/or they're the younger ones that are in college that you probably won't randomly run into.

[Stoner710]

I wouldn’t say all religious I was raised Christian but a lot of what they were teaching just didn’t make sense to men. I know many Christian girls are turned off by the idea of dating someone who doesn’t share the same religion as then and I’d rather not convert same goes for Muslims and Jews no issue with them but I’m not going to convert I do hold many of the same value as them. Don’t know much about Hindu. But won’t mind dating a Buddhist or Shinto (honestly preferably Shinto)

[TacosRAwesome]

First two are kinda contradictory but you do you.

[Guy13]

The likelihood of you hitting your goal is not good. 50% plus of Conservatives are God fearers. 80% of God fearers are Conservative.
—Slim, hot, and conservative are already married and home popping out babies…or professional and maintains home in a more shared experience.
—No divorce women with children… 🤔, there goes yiur only source of Thin Women.
—Sorry for the bad news….

[Stoner710]

I wouldn’t mind dating Shinto women but there slim to none Shinto in the United States

[Guy13]

Speak Japanese?

[Stoner710]

Not fluent but enough to get around and get what I need in order to live over there. I was a foreign Exchange student for a quarter in Japan also took Japanese in high school and college it’s been a few years but I can still speak Japanese relatively well.

[Guy13]

Damn talented... The girl of your dream awaits. Do you have a remote job?

[Stoner710]

Currently I’m working on a pot farm for my brother been looking to try to find a history job without having to move to the 3rd world country of seattle or Portland

[Guy13]

That's right Washington State colony of California ;-)

[Stoner710]

Pretty much the west coast is pretty much destroying the United States politically and so many Christian here are liberals Washington state Christian and liberalism basically go hand in hand

[Guy13]

There is no way that they are saved Christians if they are abortionists and Abortion supporters. It is impossible !!!

[Stoner710]

well there not true christians in this state neither are the christian south of me. even christian in these states support abortion its mixed but there not a lot of anti abortionist in these states. personally the only this an abortion is warranted is if the mothers life is at risk like that 10 year old who was raped. 10 year olds don't have the capacity to give birth without a direct threat to the mother.

[Guy13]

Rape or whatever... if the solution to your problems is premeditated unrighteous first kill murder (Putin) of a defenseless infant without ability to choose THEN one is on the wrong side of the issue. Life is not fair but murder is murder and thats a being made in the image of God... and the womb has been used as a genocidal gas chamber exterminating defenseless life for too long.

[Stoner710]

Rape I don't know how to feel about I’m kinda back and forth on that one, the issue I see with rape being a legal case for an abortion is women will lie and say there were raped in order to get an abortion. But at the same time I get why people would support it in those cases it’s not like a women who is truly raped should be forced to have the kid so mixed feeling on that one

[MikeInHawaii]

Donald Trump claims to be Christian. So you don’t want to date one, but you’ll vote for on me for leader of the free world?

I’m Christian. If someone finds it necessary to remind me she’s Christian every two minutes, it’s probably because she doesn’t act like one.

[Stoner710]

Makes sense, I figured because I’m agnostic Christian women wouldn’t want to date me so I just stay away from them as far as dating relationships goes. Liberals are just nuts at this point. So I’m good with out those women. I have no issues with Christian I was raised Methodist. But sense then I’ve moved away from the church because of so many contradictory things the Bible says. Also the earth is only 5 thousand years old theory I was told I can’t be Christian and believe the earth is 13 billion years old.

[MikeInHawaii]

The Universe is 13 billion years old. The Earth is 4.5 billion. I’m either a non-Christian, or I believe the Old Testament is parables, not to be taken literally.

[Stoner710]

That’s what I was told, maybe going to the wrong church? Haven’t tried Catholic or Mormon. I like caffeine. I’ve been to a few types of protestant churches, nazarene evangelical and Methodist. All said the earth was 4 thousands years old. Huge tern off from Christianity. I will say 2 of my favorite political commentator are Jewish 2 Catholic and not sure what Candice Owens is (know she’s a Christian or Steven crowder). 2 are Catholic and 1 is anglican he use to be a Jew (still a Jew by blood) Andrew Klavan, I know they have issue with the short day theory

[HonestAssholeJ]

Nothing wrong with having preferences though it lowers your acceptable dating pool. My advice travel outside the US.

[MaxRobespierre]

What if she's virgin Christian and belongs to no political background. Will you take what you can get 🤔?

[Stoner710]

Maybe if I didn’t have to convert. But i surround my self with politics all the time with the dailywire and fox. The main issue is I don’t want to convert and most Christian women don’t want to date outside there faith

[MaxRobespierre]

If she loves you it doesn't matter what your faith is. And everyone has a different currency to offer you. The golden rule is good "treat others like you would treat yourself" It's when the golden the rule turns into "everything needs to be a mirror of myself" is when things become a problem. Women who say things like "I am professional and I need a professional too" usually end up alone and miserable because they don't accept anything that isn't a reflection of themselves. Same with guys who complain that a woman doesn't pay equally the same amount a date. You give me $5 I give you $5 back, what's the point in that? There is no point. People give their hard and time and in return they receive money. You pay money you receive. Things won't always have the same value as what you put in. You don't want to talk to the wall, you want a conversation.

You pay for the date, you're a masculine man who can take care of her, yourself and the bill and in return you get a feminine woman. She may not be as smart as you, but she gives you a caring and loving heart. You want to date a woman not another guy like you. What you're going to get in exchange will be different from what you put in

You need to accept it and make sure what you are getting is something you want. I've got a Chrisian girl, I am catholic and she doesn't feel like my religion is real Christianity, but she's loves me and I provide enough in her life for her to over look those details.

[Stoner710]

That’s fair, Unfortunately most women I’ve met there are as smart as me tend to be liberals of course the history field is 90% liberals unless you do to East Asia

[AviatorTom]

Good luck finding someone... maybe you can compromise on some of these?

[Stoner710]

Probably not the liberal part or the fat chick part. If I turn 40 kids part because by that time it’s pointless

[Anonymous]

With your attitude you'll probably be single for a long time. Your best chance will be picking up a QAnon, flat earther missing a few teeth at a Trump convention.

[Stoner710]

QAnon is stupid and the earth is round so yea I’m good without dating one of those crazy people

[Blomman]

Anonymous I'd say that you have a very narrow view of the world of you belive that the opposite of Liberal is QAnon

[ArtemisSilver]

Depends on what your bringing to the table.

[Stoner710]

Politics dogs descent pay check, pretty libertarian oreated

[ArtemisSilver]

Could be worse, just be upfront about what you want and don't be afraid to ruffle a few feathers.

Also resist the urge to bang them if you don't like them. Not for there sake but more because telling them, no I don't want you is empowering, and not something women hear too often these days.

[ArtemisSilver]

Their*

[Stoner710]

very true, I've been up front for years i switched from Democrat to Republican in 2016 haven't had a girlfriend since late 2015 since i told my x i was gonna vote for trump and not hillary

[ArtemisSilver]

I don't talk politics until I've locked it down personally

[Anonymous]

Please stay single.

[Anonymous]

No, your choices, your preferences.

[OddBeMe]

Good luck stud.