What are your thoughts about my struggles with dating to get into a long-term relationship?

[SeaStorm1]

I have been struggling with finding new men. No older men want me. I've been using a new dating app called plenty of fish. I've been chatting with some men on there. I try to meet men in person, but I have no interest in these men I've met through social events. In my town, I met one. I try to wait to. Try taking a break. Is because of my look that I'm got a baby face and I do look younger then my age. There has to be more younger men chatting to me as well with some older men to. I don't have many hope with older men or younger men. yet I want to be in a long term relationship but seem to be a lot struggle to get into a long term relationship. by the way men online dating said that I'm attractive women. What are your thoughts about my struggles with dating to get into a long-term relationship?

[ProbablyClueless]

It's a struggle for everyone, honestly. Apps are not a good way to date, but genuine connections can happen. I've known a few people who met their SOs that way. It really seems like searching for a needle in a hay stack though.

[Summeroflove]

Sometimes the right person just takes time. If you feel like taking a break then take a break. Don’t be with anyone you’re not attracted to. Not only is it not good for you it also hurts them as well.

[devilish-cutie]

its a struggle for everyone cause both people need to match with their preferences and looks are just one part

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Women can get a man. It's just a matter of getting a man that they want.

Why are you wanting older men specifically? I don't see how having a babyface would hurt your chances.

[SeaStorm1]

I'm looked like that I'm 14 or 17 for having baby. I try to get older men but one then rejected me and others older men wasn't subtile. i don't want a older men but do want mature.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Usually if people perpetually have a hard time finding eligible candidates, then their approach, offerings, and / or expectations are off.

I'm a bit hard to get along with, and I accept that as part of the reason for why I'm single.

[SeaStorm1]

I don't got any expectations at all. I do approach men a lots but still get rejected most of them. I can't date men without a learning disabilities.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

I assume that's you in that photo on question that you posted?

Ya gotta take a better angle. Also, what type of shape are you in?

[SeaStorm1]

That was just selfie not a body picture. And yes is me. just a face. I already got two picture on my dating apps. for both types.

[eagle1951]

well what I have3 found with this online dating, the problem I have is no one wants to take the time to get to know someone, they want to jump right into to it. and that's not the way I was taught, drives me crazy

[SeaStorm1]

I can't even find anyone in real lif too.

[Christoff92]

Be more open. Don't be nervous, shy, hesitant, etc. Older men give yourself a lot of opportunities to express yourself with them.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

That Dating is hard, try not to force it