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Laughable. Men who are alone do MUCH better than women who are alone.
Right. Men are less likely to partner today because the risk women bring isn't worth it anymore. Back in the day men said, I want XYZ. Women gave it. Now you have all these feminists/close lesbians telling dudes: "You will take what I decide is best for you with a smile & stfu while I act like a man". Plus he loses 60% in divorce AND alimony/child support.
*closet lesbians
Statistically single men are more depressed, earn less money, and die younger.
@MzAsh Quality dudes don't get depressed about women at all.. well, maybe for 1 month out of his life. At most. That's it. You women can't believe it because you're so deep in your emotions & the germs in the cat box mess with your heads too.
What metrics do you use to determine that?
@MzAsh Numbers can't be trusted because politics determines which studies get funded & what gets promoted. That said, you can find amusing double speak like www.verywellmind.com/why-is-depression-more-common-in-women-1067040 which outright says women get depressed more often but later on says, hey let's move the goal posts. Let's find a way to say men are the same as women by changing how we measure depression. Maybe dudes are depressed when they express anger! But let's not apply the same standard to women because that would mean women are depressed damn near 365 days out of the year.
What metrics do you use to determine that quality men don’t get depressed about women at all?
@MzAsh Count your cats. A man will have zero pets or 1 pet and be content. A woman needs 20 cats. It's not that complicated. And, of course, the older she gets the worse it is. Exceptions only prove the rule.
What is your source for this information?
@MzAsh Simply not true. Divorced men die the first, followed by married men, with never-married men living the longest. The original study that claimed married men live longer was a small sample done in the 1950's!
As for earning less money, well hell yes, when you don't have to work 80 hours/week to give princess shiny sparkly things you will actually have time to pursue your own hobbies and passions.
What statistics? Cause everything I've seen shows that single men make way more money than single women
Not true.
www.health.harvard.edu/.../marriage-and-mens-health
This is from Harvard University and from 2019.
Their statistics are as biased as reuters claiming that fapping is good for you. Just because ejaculation frequency correlated negatively with reproductive health.
It could not get more stupid.
You have to ask, why did the men not ejaculate often? Because they chose to retain semen which increases androgen receptor sensitivity and serum testosterone levels? Or because they are so unhealthy they're unable to ejaculate?
HUGE difference.
Are unmarried men that they count trying to get married and are unable to? Or do they choose not to get married although they could?
Shit. Should have said a positive correlation of ejac frequency with reproductive health. And some other mistakes. But you get the last main point.
You sure they running outta options? Look like they got options just like us. Anyone who dont just a late bloomer
Yeah so Change yourself become someone your change your Entire personality. Things you hate change that and like the things you hat.
or live & die alone.
It has to be very disheartening for a guy to be on a dating app. Social media and online dating have given women a false sense of their attractiveness.
Love how everyone is always so damn concerned about other people. Everybody needs work except you.
That’ll never happen women profit too much from selling sex ( in all forms) to men
prostitution built the west
for men to improve when would have to put morals over money
Men can improve themselves but also can consider seeking a mate abroad.
A tall athletic handsome guy is just another one on Tinder but hot stuff in Taiwan.
In other words, where competition is less stiff so you have it easier. Problem is, you won’t respect women in Taiwan.
A lot of guys suffer from one-itis and are lazy, not taking enough swings. If you try, you might fail. If you don't try, you've already failed..
Nothing, it's a good think will bring the rampant overpopulation back under control in a generation or two
MzAsh, please be honest. Do you feel women are more willing do date down with other women than men?
I would rather be single and lonely than put up with women's bullshit.
Only true in the west for stuck up white women.
Everyone is.
First thing is to evaluate one's values and figuring out what you should want.
The problem these days is that women are claiming they don't NEED a man
What makes it so important to men to keep women so dependent on them?
Because it makes us feel desirable, to be needed
You can desire a man and not “need” him. The risky thing is with women, is that it’s far too common to become codependent and actually believe their self worth and survival depends on a man’s approval. I used to think that way when I was a teenager, and when a boy would break up with me, I was inconsolable, missed school, lost appetite, weight dropped, and I became obsessed about “what I did wrong” and it made men absolutely despise and pity me. it didn’t occur to me until later that I could be ok without a man. Once I internalized that I can be a happy and functional person without a man, that’s when men became attracted to me. When men say they want to feel needed, I’m not sure they understand the fine line between being desired and codependency.
You can't desire a man and not need him
The point of desire is not only that you want him but also that you need him. That's literally what desire is. Why don't women get that
This is why I don't go out with women anymore, that try and make everything about THEM
There’s a difference between desiring a man and needing him.
There is a difference between not needing and desiring a man. But the thing is, Men are valued for their work, Their money and stuff like that. They aren't inherinantly valued like women are. By being born a girl everyones sympathy for you is increased than when being born a boy. Thats why most men seek that sense of validation and dependency. And if they dont feel like their work is appreciated, They won't proceed with that work unless they dont have a choice. Weather that be a job or a relationship
Believe me - not all single men are "lonely" and without options.
Trust me they are happy being single when they know that women would ruin their lifes if they were in a relationship.
In general, single men report unhappiness, tend to earn less money, and die earlier than married men. I’m sure there are exceptions. But as we all know, exceptions don’t make the rule.
I been trying disabled and learning disabilities dating sites.
Dating apps have only made standards that much more impossible for most men to reach, myself included. Love and relationships are beyond me now.
I wrote a mytake about How Patriarchy died that detailed why it is difficult to find your soulmate
Maybe. Maybe women should stop endlessly increasing their standards...
The only option is to just find someone in a store or at an event the old way is always the best
I am going enjoy some answers here for sure!
I'm pressing X to doubt on the "healthy relationship standards" part.
Totally agree. That means women are too
The world needs less people anyway
just let em go
Give sheep the vote.
There's always drugs and alcohol.
Very interesting, I didn’t know that.
This question post is just copium for the persons insanely unrealistic dating standards which are laughable probably.
Simple, stop dating it's a waste of time
Couldn’t agree more. Single is the way to go and more people just have to accept it
Date each other?
Answer seems rather simple. Better themselves.
That's what happen when you let women in charge
Women had never been in charge, men just assume the way they get along and refuse communication with their flustered women and think they won't understand them anyway.
Do you know that compared to 20 years ago rape rate has been cut to half of before because women stood for themselves?
Or may be there are cameras placed everywhere now
If women hadn't insisted, rape charge would've had lighter sentences. And currently 55% of rape occure near or in the victim's house where there's no stranger passing by to help. Cruel fact another 12% occur in or near the victim's relative's house
True
I'll tell you a story out of my 17 years life, and yes I'm 17 not 37, I just made my email 20 years older because of messing around.
Our family built a house with 4 floors after removing the villa on the land they owned. My parents built the abandoned-unfinished fifth floor after they got married. My dad has older 2 sisters and 3 brothers, my aunts are good people one is cool granny while the other is gentle. With my uncles, one is a loser, another is the only one I like, the last one is trash in elite's skin.
Yes, my uncle is a rapist, and his wife hides it for him, they live in France most of time so he never done anything within our knowledge in the country of what he's other than an egoist man, completely changed my recognizance of him and his wife. They're a couple matched in hell and should stay together instead of harming others, after my pity for her before I knew she knows
Like I said he's an elite, he has two or three other apartments in the country so don't stay in the on the the one apartment he has and let it rented for extra cash.
A Korean family was there for 5-6 years, they take turns to come here and going back but they were still all a large family, everyone comes when they has the chance between here and Korea. There's a girl in her 20s she was nice she even gave us snacks in new year each year she was present, I never inquired of her name or any of her family's because I was too shy, my social anxiety wasn't stabilized back then.
One summer, only she and her mother were here this time for about a month and half. An evening when I was taking a nap, I heard a scream and suppressed sobs before I never heard everything afterward I was just annoyed what's happening but didn't bother, a while came out when I saw that man coming out their apartment when I gone out to eat out. When he noticed me going down the stairs he closed the door before I saw anything other than disheveled mother kneeling. Guess true sadly and justice not reported
Yup all kinds of crazy people exist.
Coming back to your opinion of communication with flustered women why the women are flustered here?
A weird phenomen in my country is that the more well-educated and accomplished a woman is the more likely she's to face domestic violence or while engaged, a large portion in men automatically translate anything their wives say as being all-knowing two-faced vixen who look down on them or is trying to trick them into submitting and stealing their money. So here, men sounds like the problem, many of my mom's friends endured the unwillingness for communication from their husbands before divorcing in middle-age because of cheating or the men taking away their money. Another case in our generation is my sister's best friend who was dating a man who was a little too far controlling she was fine with it because she loved him and he didn't hurt her but he broke up first because he was afraid of going crazy and she would dump him, he didn't even want to listen to a word from her, changed jobs and blocked her.
So really, other than seeing some women who're natural narcissist and pretend not to understand, I only seen men avoiding the problems with their partners.
I dont.. I gave up