Do you think that the family court system is more focused on family or gaining profit through women?

[TonightYouu]

Divorce is destroying our society

Family

Gaining profit

A total of 39 votes were cast: 7 girls and 32 guys. See detailed results

[Haha456]

Studies have shown that married men tend to have happier longer lives than single men. Married women are less happy, less happy and have shorter lives than single women.

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/marriage-is-more-beneficial-to-men-than-women-study-finds-10315018.html

https://psiloveyou.xyz/marriage-disproportionally-benefits-men-59e5a4dd89be

Women also initiate 69% of divorces.

It seems like women are less happy in marriage and have less to benefit from marriage than men. And we need to figure out the reason why.

One of the biggest reasons why women are so unhappy with marriage is because it is the women who need to juggle working a job, do the bulk of housework and child rearing duties. Women are also the " chefs" and the "maids" and the "official parent" of the house.

Its really not unheard of for a woman to be constantly cleaning after her husband. Society doesn't have as many expectations for men as they do for women. All a man has to do is to finish his 8-hour shift then come home. His role is finished. There isn't a heavy societal expectation for men to prioritize being a parent or to do housework. And often men are lazier and dirtier than women. Men lay in their own filth while woman who likes to be clean and organized. I think we really to nail the reasons why women are so unhappy in marriage rather than to point fingers. Marriage takes a bigger toll on women than men.

[Haha456]

www.psychologytoday.com/.../is-marriage-worth-it-women

[Apple1996]

I think they are more focused on doing what's right for the child. Which most of the time means the mother having full custody. When the time comes where there stops being so many dead beat dads then maybe it'll change but I doubt that'll ever happen

[TonightYouu]

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5226056/
What’s best for the child is being raised in a home with both their parents

[TonightYouu]

Don’t blame dead beat dads they are dead beats not rapist how about you women stop having babies with losers

[Apple1996]

Well obviously that can't happen with deadbeats and couples that divorce. Only works for couples that stay together

[TonightYouu]

A couple has to be together to get divorced try to keep up

[Apple1996]

They become losers after the baby comes. It'd be impossible for women to figure that out before getting pregnant

[TonightYouu]

So you’re just blindly having sex with men whose personality you don’t even know then that’s your fault because that’s retarded

[Apple1996]

You can't tell someone will be a deadbeat from their personality. Some guys are great and amazing husbands then have a baby and become shit

[TonightYouu]

Okay so why would you have sex with them not knowing the type of man they were?

[Apple1996]

Only way to tell this is if they have a child already with someone else. You just can't predict the type of parent someone is gonna be

[TonightYouu]

So what’s the purpose of dating? So you just have sex with random people without getting to know them?

[TonightYouu]

Again that’s your fault

[Apple1996]

No you can know them as a person and partner but not as a parent until they become one.

[Apple1996]

This is why I had a baby before marriage to test out my husband and see his dad skills to make sure I wanted to have more babies with him and lock it down.

[TonightYouu]

That’s stupid you had a baby before marriage because you’re not smart and a pervert not wanting or wanting kids is a deal breaker for tons of people you most certainly can know before having sex you are just kinda dumb or horny take your pick

[Apple1996]

I said nothing about perverts. Only dead beats lol
And I'm not stupid it worked out for me cuz I already knew who my husband really was before marriage when most people don't have a clue

[TonightYouu]

Because they don’t talk that’s their fault I know if I’m dating a girl kids are going to be a topic we discuss

[Apple1996]

Doesn't matter if you talk to them about kids. They still haven't been a parent yet and have no idea how to do it and there is no way to learn how to beforehand.

[TonightYouu]

To be a good parent you have to first want kids

[Apple1996]

Not exactly. Some people don't want kids. Have them and still end up good parents

[Apple1996]

And on the opposite end some people who want kids are shitty parents

[TonightYouu]

Then why did you bring up deadbeats?

[Apple1996]

Cuz 25% of all dads become deadbeats. It's like the main reason why moms get custody.

[TonightYouu]

So what is a deadbeat dad to you

[Haha456]

@tonightyouu

[So you’re just blindly having sex with men whose personality you don’t even know then that’s your fault because that’s retarded]

just because a woman refuses to take responsibility over her own offspring, it does not eliminate mens from their responsibility over their own offspring.

[Moose304]

I am just going to make a statement based on my observations. In general, men DO NOT fare well in the US Family Courts. Even when they get a fair judge 90% of the time said judge won't enforce their orders. I know many stories about deadbeat fathers. One such father came close to getting hurt some time ago. The problem is I know just about as many moms who have some form of a Cluster B mental disorder. Go back and study the Chad Read killing and you will see at its heart was a child visitation argument. His ex according to some witnesses was playing 3 card monte with the child. Chad lost his temper and did something really foolish that cost him his life. Anybody that puts horns on one sex and halos on the other on this topic is a damn fool!

[OlderAndWiser]

"gaining profit through women?" What does that mean?

[TroyDT]

Not sure, but it is usually the men who get the shaft. Thus...

https://protectingmen.com/attorneys-and-staff/melissa-isaak/

[jshm2]

Neither.

The problem with the court system is that most of the actual work is done before things go to court.

Hence why you should get the most experienced lawyer you can afford, instead of the cheapest.

For example one of colleagues at a contract was lining up for divorce and wanted to keep her kids. One my friends is a top tier lawyer and I asked him - she probably couldn't afford him, anyway. But he gave me the advice to pass on to her and she followed to a T. Got her kids and her ex husbands lawyer got her settled out of court as she could have taken a lot more, in court.

[TonightYouu]

Neither wasn’t an option

[Anonymous]

It's all about the money! All paths lead to money. These courts want our money like everybody else. In marriage and divorce and sometimes beyond that.

Love can be too. But not necessarily is love about money. While some make it about money, others focus on wanting each other.

[MementoMori_]

What the heck does "gaining profit through women" mean? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[TonightYouu]

If a family is broken up then more women will have to work thus more people to tax

[MementoMori_]

Yikes! That's a new one on me. But I am not saying it makes no sense.

If having more women to tax is your concern, you might want to challenge the "womens' liberation movement" and "feminism" that started in the 1960s and 70s before blaming the courts. Before that women stayed home and raised the kids and men went out and brought home the bacon. The divorce rate was a fraction of what it is now. Now both parents have to go to work just to pay the bills to live in the same house as their parents did. Thanks feminism!

[SiberFox]

Incentivize women to marry the state and depend upon the state.

[TonightYouu]

I was just in store and I noticed the number of single mothers I saw was insane is that what societies household has been reduced to a woman and children?

[SiberFox]

Seperation of men and women in the household and education of children by the state.

[TonightYouu]

That’s sad it’s tragic I saw a woman making her 3 or 4 yr old walk because she was too heavy for her to hold that girl can’t keep up with her but her dad could hold her he could pick that baby up and just little stuff like that I notice and it’s fucked up a lot of people don’t even realize how badly they need a dad how badly they need their father to look at them and say I love you do you notice the big difference between women raised with faith and women raised without

[ConspiracyTheorist]

The entire court system is designed in a way that it makes tons of money, I wouldn't trust the courts just as I wouldn't trust the police or American government for that matter one bit.

[maximumpower]

More like gaining profit FOR women.
It happens more often than we'd like to believe.

[msc545]

The family court system is focused on transferring wealth from men to women.

[Snakeyes7]

Profit which is hilarious considering its a government institution.

[Anonymous]

The family court system is certainly biased against men, but courts themselves are not motivated by profit. It is the lawyers who are, and women take full advantage of that.

[Luopio27]

There are countless cases where the women neglect parenthood and men who dont neglect it, end up on their own racing a child with very little support.

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s all about the money.

[OddBeMe]

How do they gain prfit?

[TonightYouu]

By removing the husband from the home who is a woman’s second if not main source of income they’re forcing more women to have to enter the workforce more women working means more people to tax

[OddBeMe]

Ok, not sure thats a plan really…. but I would approve of it either way.

[TonightYouu]

Why? Do you hate families or something?

[OddBeMe]

No just dont hate women like you.

[TonightYouu]

Are women more important than the family unit?

[OddBeMe]

What women want? Yes. Personal liberty mf.

[TonightYouu]

So a woman’s personal wants trump the rest of societies needs …got it smh

[OddBeMe]

Theyre not mutually exclusive. In fact i think all of society and humanity is best served when we have pursue happiness.

[TonightYouu]

Well since no one has obviously never told you I’ll be the first LIFE isn't ABOUT BEING HAPPY!

[OddBeMe]

Actually i think it is.

[TonightYouu]

And thinking like that is why the world is so fucked up

[OddBeMe]

So you hate the US constitution?

[TonightYouu]

No I hate narcissistic people

[OddBeMe]

But the US constitution protects “Life liberty and pursuit of happiness.”

[TonightYouu]

That doesn’t mean it’s all that we should do or worry about

[OddBeMe]

But you think all our happiness and rights should be subservient to building families?

[TonightYouu]

Yes absolutely, think about it every problem our society currently has starts in the home from a dis functional or broken family unit

[OddBeMe]

Yeah your idea of “family unit” may have changed. Thus what you think is damaging actually isn't.

But i’m quite sure the vast wealth gap and huge poverty levels are destroying America more than the “family unit”.

[TonightYouu]

No America is a capitalist society do you know what that means that we can increase our standards of living those at the top don’t stay there long it’s a circular model meaning those at the bottom aren’t trying

[OddBeMe]

Funny vast majority of wealth is inherited. So in that sense, most people with money do nothing.

[TonightYouu]

That’s not even remotely true and you didn’t show the numbers because you know it isn’t
www.businessnewsdaily.com/...onaires-got-rich.html

[OddBeMe]

How much of the 1% inherited when they got their start? 41%. I overstated, you're right. But thats hardly fair.
www.forbes.com/.../?sh=42425bccb948

[TonightYouu]

Its not fair if we lived in a socialist country but thank god we don’t

Not a single soul on this earth gets to pick their parents sometimes you get stuck with a shit show

[OddBeMe]

I personally dont beleive in inheritiance. Make your own money like an American.

[TonightYouu]

Well what? Do you just want to work for yourself? Some of us want to give our family better lives as well

[OddBeMe]

Giving them education to make their own money is better for all.

I was born in the town where “affluenza” was made up by a rich family’s lawyer.

[TonightYouu]

Well there’s a down side to being rich you live alone

[OddBeMe]

I dont think being rich brings you happiness. Upper middle class should be everyone’s target.

[TonightYouu]

No they shouldn’t because like I said capitalism is a circular model where basically you gain what you are willing to work for and those who spent their lives working leave behind for their families to have a headstart

[OddBeMe]

You seriously think capitalism is that fair?

[OddBeMe]

Just go to the pound and see how much the smallest puppy eats without help…

[TonightYouu]

Capitalism is fair because it provides an opportunity to increase standards of living

[OddBeMe]

No.. nothing is fair. Pure capitalism is like dogs eating. The smallest one will eat last. There needs to balance of, I don't know, say govt?

[TonightYouu]

So you want govt intervention because you’re too lazy to work

[LimitedBenefits101]

The court system is designed for women.

[Anonymous]

Family, but they often get it completely wrong.

[TonightYouu]

I disagree because statistics say otherwise www.ssa.gov/.../divorce-women-retirement.html
but I’m willing to give you a chance to defend your stance so how so?

[tony_baloney]

Lmfao the amount of baiting on this app is hilarious

[TonightYouu]

@tony_baloney you should see the amount of bating on pornhub

[Haha456]

Married women are less happy than single women.

www.psychologytoday.com/.../is-marriage-worth-it-women

psiloveyou.xyz/marriage-disproportionally-benefits-men-59e5a4dd89be

[MCheetah]

100% profit.

[jimmy2]

Mostly it on the mother's side

[legalboxers]

neither - system is flawed and broken

[TonightYouu]

Neither wasn’t an option remember not asking for opinions here