I’ve been saying this for a while. There was a time in history women had to be selfish for self preservation purposes. Mother Nature has enabled them to have less guilt and shame when it comes to using men for their own ends. This includes taking advantage of innocent men to “make up for” being harmed in the past from an unrelated bad experience with a different guy. Women more than men feel self “justified” to do this bs in their own self absorbed realities. Not all of them but way too many.
However nowadays women especially western women absolutely don’t need a man to survive in the word. They don’t need a man to provide and protect them. There are now ample career opportunities for women to make it on their own. They have law enforcement and legal systems to protect them.
In theory that’s great and all. I personally have no problem with women who want to be independent. However most women have not evolved out of their self preservation mindset despite it no longer necessary. Now they just want more and more and more. It just leads to greed, self absorption and hatred.
However Mother Nature intended to bound men and women together for both companionship and for reproduction. What these “modern” feminists fail to realize is that they are engaging in their own ultimate self destruction in return for short term benefits.
Do you really believe that demonizing, generalizing and exploiting men who did nothing to harm you won’t have any long term negative ramifications? Men aren’t bullet proof. We get depressed, jaded and worn out if we take too much abuse from women. They will give up. Is that “good” for women? Is it good to that men no longer trust them and won’t risk their money, time, heart and livelihood pursing relationships given then the escalated risks? #metoo scared the living hell out of a lot men from even approaching a woman let alone making a move. Is that a “good” thing.
The statistics are showing this. Singlehood rates are skyrocketing. Fewer and fewer people are getting married and/or having kids. Depression and suicidal idealization is up. Is this what the great fight “against patriarchy” and the “utopia” feminists really wanted? To be childless and unmarried your entire life? Is this good for society? Is that good for women?
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Not American but... thinking about human nature..
Maybe it's just become the next rebellious trend for youth and young adults. No need to know what you're saying or thinking about the consequences, just get into the crowd and scream out your frustrations.
Easy, now you're apart of a group. Still don't feel like you fit in? Just pick an oppressed minority, identify as it and be loud enough, you'll be heard and have power for a moment, until the crowd takes over.
Youth and rebellion sort of goes together, difference is today they have influencial power online and with polarizing algorythms. This also means anyone can be a part of the new youth rebellion, before, kids always hung out where adults weren't, creating closed groups, now you just choose the right site or have similar clicking-patterns online.
Before 2015-2017ish feminism in my country was a political conversation based in studies and argument, then #metoo hit and it all just became so emotionally loaded and loud that rationality was pretty much canceled. You weren't allowed to be against it or be nuanced in any way or a storm would sweep you away in reputation-destruction.
Shortly after America seemed to jump on the same train and took it way further than we did in Sweden, probably because of population-density, americans being more open about their views and the way American news decided to exploit clicking-trends online.
When the George Floyd protests took place Swedes was protesting with BLM too, despite the situation being totally different here. Sweden is very much attuned to what happens in the US.
Anyway, I guess we cooled off a bit over here as we saw you guys blow it up off the top of the dome.
I feel like we are returning back to rationality and open discourse here, although still a lot of issues remain and many questionable political moves are still running it's course.
Some barely fueled by government anymore. We'll see what happens next, I guess.
Right now though we have more pressing matters that takes over the political scene, like the threat of war in Europe and the new economical landscape that's prestented itself. It's a brave new world.
Irony is, is American "feminism" is the LEAST proper example of feminism you would find throughout the ENTIRE world. One of the main facets of original feminism was to STOP the oversexualization & objectification of women and sooo many American women strive to make themselves disposable sex objects that have little true value.
You go to European countries where original feminism is still more predominant and such women would be called as they are - tramps, trailer trash, whores, sluts, prostitutes, etc. - not lauded as role models for teens to emulate as American society.
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As for American women needing "feminism" they don't. What they need is a hard kick up the ass to rattle their little minds & some duck tape to shut their slobbering mouths.
None of them actually do anything useful.
Like a pack of dumb dogs they will bay about the same "unfairness" in American society where they have MORE freedoms than MANY women in other countries can dream about - and again in America where they predominantly act & behave like cheap useless whores - whereas they won't say a word about unfairness in other countries.
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I'm been very blunt because as a 4th generation ORIGINAL feminist - my great grandmother was a feminist before feminism was in vogue going from dirt poor to self educated landowner / rental property owner on her own - I look at today's "feminists" with nothing but disgust.
In American society "feminists" are nothing but an embarassment to the word. A disgrace. A disgusting mockery of what feminism was about.
Not all of us believe we still need feminism. There are still issues women face here, but there are also issues men face. Tbh I feel like feminism isn't really doing anything to help women anymore but it's still causing division and animosity. I wish it would just die so we can have some normalcy between women and men for a change.
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Well there’s still domestic abuse, rape, and an agenda against abortion, so as long as that’s going on, feminism will still be relevant and necessary.
Because they do.
Let's let Paulina Porizkova explain...
"America Made Me a Feminist" by Paulina PorizkovaAmerica Made Me a Feminist
By PAULINA PORIZKOVA
June 10, 2017
I used to think the word “feminist” reeked of insecurity. A woman who needed to state that she was equal to a man might as well be shouting that she was smart or brave. If you were, you wouldn’t need to say it. I thought this because back then, I was a Swedish woman.I was 9 when I first stepped into a Swedish school. Freshly arrived from Czechoslovakia, I was bullied by a boy for being an immigrant. My one friend, a tiny little girl, punched him in the face. I was impressed. In my former country, a bullied girl would tattle or cry. I looked around to see what my new classmates thought of my friend’s feat, but no one seemed to have noticed. It didn’t take long to understand that in Sweden, my power was suddenly equal to a boy’s.
In Czechoslovakia, women came home from a long day of work to cook, clean and serve their husbands. In return, those women were cajoled, ignored and occasionally abused, much like domestic animals. But they were mentally unstable domestic animals, like milk cows that could go berserk you if you didn’t know exactly how to handle them.
In Sweden, the housekeeping tasks were equally divided. Soon my own father was cleaning and cooking as well. Why? He had divorced my mother and married a Swedish woman.
"America Made Me a Feminist" by Paulina Porizkova
As high school approached, the boys wanted to kiss us and touch us, and the girls became a group of benevolent queens dispensing favors. The more the boys wanted us, the more powerful we became. When a girl chose to bestow her favors, the lucky boy was envied and celebrated. Slut shaming? What’s a slut?Condoms were provided by the school nurse without question. Sex education taught us the dangers of venereal diseases and unwanted pregnancy, but it also focused on fun stuff like masturbation. For a girl to own her sexuality meant she owned her body, she owned herself. Women could do anything men did, but they could also — when they chose to — bear children. And that made us more powerful than men. The word “feminist” felt antiquated; there was no longer a use for it.
When I moved to Paris at 15 to work as a model, the first thing that struck me was how differently the men behaved. They opened doors for me, they wanted to pay for my dinner. They seemed to think I was too delicate, or too stupid, to take care of myself.
Instead of feeling celebrated, I felt patronized. I claimed my power the way I had learned in Sweden: by being sexually assertive. But Frenchmen don’t work this way. In discos, I’d set my eye on an attractive stranger, and then dance my way over to let him know he was a chosen one. More often than not, he fled. And when he didn’t run, he asked how much I charged.
In France, women did have power, but a secret one, like a hidden stiletto knife. It was all about manipulation: the sexy vixen luring the man to do her bidding. It wasn’t until I reached the United States, at 18, and fell in love with an American man that I truly had to rearrange my cultural notions.
It turned out most of America didn’t think of sex as a healthy habit or a bargaining tool. Instead, it was something secret. If I mentioned masturbation, ears went red. Orgasms? Men made smutty remarks, while women went silent. There was a fine line between the private and the shameful. A former gynecologist spoke of the weather when doing a pelvic exam, as if I were a Victorian maiden who’d rather not know where all my bits were.
In America, a woman’s body seemed to belong to everybody but herself. Her sexuality belonged to her husband, her opinion of herself belonged to her social circles, and her uterus belonged to the government. She was supposed to be a mother and a lover and a career woman (at a fraction of the pay) while remaining perpetually youthful and slim. In America, important men were desirable. Important women had to be desirable. That got to me.
In the Czech Republic, the nicknames for women, whether sweet or bitter, fall into the animal category: little bug, kitten, old cow, swine. In Sweden, women are rulers of the universe. In France, women are dangerous objects to treasure and fear. For better or worse, in those countries, a woman knows her place.
But the American woman is told she can do anything and then is knocked down the moment she proves it. In adapting myself to my new country, my Swedish woman power began to wilt. I joined the women around me who were struggling to do it all and failing miserably. I now have no choice but to pull the word “feminist” out of the dusty drawer and polish it up.
My name is Paulina Porizkova, and I am a feminist.Paulina Porizkova, a former supermodel, is the author of the novel “A Model Summer.”
I'm not sure but I can think of a few reasons. Lies, Survival over Change, and Fear.
1) Feminists lie, to make the plight of American women seem like something requiring the existence of feminism.
Eg. The fake pay gap thing.
Note that the feminist movement did absolutely jack shit to prevent the over turning of Roe/Wade. An actual cause they should have been all over like white on rice, if they weren't so obsessed with bullshit and so ineffectual.
2) The upper echelons of the movement have made it a core of their identity. Without it, they're not sure what purpose they serve. So the movement becomes something whose primary goal is to survive, not to eliminate entrenched misogyny.
3) Even if a woman starts asking herself some big questions about the true modern day nature of the movement and comes to the conclusion she's not a feminist and doesn't support feminism in its current form, as soon as she speaks out against it the movement will attempt to cancel/silence/destroy her. So, fear of consequences.
Because they've been taught for their entire lives that they're helpless, weak, and horribly oppressed, that the only thing that can save them is Feminism, and to even question that dogma is not only blasphemy of the highest order, but an attack on women as a whole. Feminism, as it currently stands in the West, is one part cult to two parts long con.
Women are no less capable of critical thinking than men are, but they're less naturally prone to it, and society does everything it can to make women believe that they have no power over it.
The richer a society is the lazier its members become. Feminism is a symptom of lazy women avoiding taking responsibility while claiming to just want equality. Actually they want men to give them things they didn't earn. This is why you have women claiming that she's been wronged if she makes less money than the most successful man at work, ignoring the guys making less than him & definitely ignoring how those guys put in more time. Of course there's a few women who actually do think and act like dudes. You know, women who normal straight men don't even find attractive because guys aren't attracted to other guys.
Well I'm not an American woman so I can't say 😄
I don't know what to tell you, at the very core of it, they want to be treating as equals, but then complain when they are.
I'm an independent woman, but I still need a man. No man is an island, and that includes me.
Oh no! Did I just refer to myself as a "man" whatever will happen to me in today's society
I think roe v wade really made the number of modern day feminists go up. Mostly because they were being fed lies that they don’t have access to abortion at all. Then there’s the whole thing about hating men and believing that women are better than them. Why can’t feminists accept that we have the same rights as men? It’s really upsetting that they feel the need to continue making a divide between the two genders.
American Women still believe in the need for feminism because of the persistent inequality in pay, lack of representation in leadership positions, and the prevalence of violence against women. Despite efforts to advance the cause of gender equality, these problems still remain, underscoring the continued need for feminism in America. Women are still fighting to be seen as more than just caregivers and to be heard in the workplace. They are also fighting for equal rights and equal representation in politics. Despite progress, there is still much work to be done in order to achieve true gender equality. For instance, women still make up only 23.7% of Congress, and the gender pay gap is still alive and well, with women earning only 81% of what men make on average.
Because women lowkey still face sexism everywhere they turn.
I have. I went to male-dominated jobs like security and the men looked down upon me as a weakling coward.
Then I turned to a more feminine job like a desk job or a leader position in an office and EVEN THERE. I still find myself competing against men.
It’s not obvious. It’s very lowkey. It’s very hush hush. It LOOKS like there’s no more sexism. But there is. It’s low-key or behind closed doors.
Im not from this nation. So I used to think feminists were nut jobs. But then I go to my own personal experiences. And I see the utter sexism still happening to me.
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They are brainwashed by the corporate media. Feminism served three purposes: destroy the family unit, reduce fertility, and increase the consumer base. Women absolutely don't need because there is no right that men have that they don't. Resist the slave mind, ladies!
It’s all they have left
No family
No Relationship skills
No
just a Job, a Dog, Feminism
this is why so many have Unrealistic standards
so when they die alone they can just claim they didn’t want to settle.
feminism is just little girls afraid to step into womanhood like a boy afraid to get out of his parents house and earn his own
these women fear womanhood they have no pride in their womanhood
being a traditional woman is shameful
Where'd you get that notion that "American women still believe they need feminism?" in a world where feminism has gone quite toxic.
There's too much of that everywhere, not just in the USA, and it needs to be cut back.
I'm not going to really entertain this question because no matter what I say you'll come up with some excuse.
However, re: your update. Your other update would have been removed because you mentioned a member in what I assume to be a negative light which isn't allowed.
public school and college indoctrination
peer pressure and popular trends
narcissism, entitlement and the need for victimhood
liberal news media and propaganda
fathers and boyfriends who are too spineless to do anything
the list goes on
They're taught in American sociology courses like sociology 101+, Gender/Women's Studies, Fat Studies, Queer Studies, etc, that any inequality in outcome must necessarily be the result of discrimination. If I believed what I was taught in sociology, I would be joining them in parades to overthrow the patriarchy. The difference is that I also took courses in economics, biology, psychology, physics, history, political science, etc, all of which contradicted what I learned in those courses.
The answers here and the attitudes behind them is why we still need it. Those in a position of privilege are the most threatened by equality. Women still have not achieved equality in wages or advancement in the workplace and now we have stepped backwards in reproductive freedom. Progress is still needed so now is not the time to let up.
Lol cause all the guys being girls but feminism has been radicalized and a shell of what it was by women who hate and are tired of men... So we just slowly take it over by being women.
Before it was needed and it got women voting and rights...
Its most certainly gone way too far now , and its actually affecting the birth rate and the stability of future generations , its certainly a completely outdated concept , time to get back to reality , far too many loud , obnoxious women who want everything both ways.
Imagine if Tiger Woods had attacked his wife with a pitching wedge? Yet she did , and what happened? Nothing , he wouldn't let it be included , for the sake of his children , the entire basis now is ludicrous.
In my opinion, women today not only need feminism, they deserve it. Any philosophy, concept or belief that increases the amount of power and control that women have over guys can only provide a better environment in which our relationships with them are much more likely to be mutually fulfilling, long lasting and more productive.
This is my opinion only.
Seems to be mostly a case of American women needing a cause to fight, persecution Fantasies. The feminists I've met here are generally college kids or older childless women. Women in general seem to drop feminism when they get married and have kids and reality hits.
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