Share your frustrating experiences—gender-related or otherwise. Eager to hear your perspectives in this community?

[Anonymous]

Members of this wonderful community, could you share some experiences that truly frustrate or anger you? Whether it’s related to gender, or any other aspect, I’m curious to hear your perspectives about moments that have ticked you off the most you’ve ever been.

[antelope51]

My impressions after less than a week:

The misogyny and toxic masculinity expressed at me because of my pink badge is... suffocating.

I came here for research, stayed because I've got some wisdom/experience/education and would welcome the opportunity to have a civil and informed chat about these things, but it seems there is a rampant troll problem.

Sexual predators are using the platform as a hunting ground.
Insecure jerks are using it as a platform to bully others.
Narcissists are using it for attention, masturbation and ego-stroking, and not asking legitimate psychology/physiology/philosophical questions.

[Djaay]

So what type of reasurch?

[antelope51]

@Djaay The kind I can't answer without a penis, lol. And the partner has no experience with the scenario I was wondering about, so couldn't help.

[Djaay]

So... you afraid to just say it?

[antelope51]

@Djaay It's out there if you want to answer the question. But it's irrelevant to this discussion.

[Djaay]

Then what differenciates you from any of those you speak of?

[antelope51]

@Djaay You are just proving my point, dude.

[Djaay]

To the contrary , I asked you a straight question and you haven't yet givin a straight answer back.

[antelope51]

@Djaay You are not the asker of the question. You are someone trying to bait and instigate through intimidation and hostility. YOU are the problem.

THAT is the answer to the topic at hand: "Share your frustrating experiences—gender-related or otherwise."

[Djaay]

You're here to fustrate others. That's the bottom line of you here. But I'm not frustrated, obviously you are. You're just throwing things in the wind hoping others will frustrated and fall into your web like a spider waiting for its prey.

[Djaay]

Intimidation isn't straight legitimate questions... and hostility is WHERE in my answers?

[Djaay]

Or my questions?

[Djaay]

It's funny how others who are frustrated in life spin narratives to think others will adopt there spun truths.

[Djaay]

So this is what I say about your dishonesty , you can turn left and find nothing right or you can turn right and find nothing left.

[wiltingrosepetal]

When people assume I'm from the US because I own a phone. God, that grinds my gears. Every other day I'll see someone ignorant of any humanity beyond their border walls. "What do you mean you drank? But- but that's illegal!" Mate, I'm 18.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I got that rizz knows what I'm saying... and I've been thinking about changing my name to the Rizzler that eats at Sizzler. But that has my girl calling me gay. I'm not trying to park the bus in poop town, I'm trying to park the beef bus in tuna town. How can I change my girl's mind about the name change?

Oh shit that's gangster.

[D_Bone_Steak]

https://youtu.be/yuKKHJWRFEY?si=eWwJhqv9upEApf2n

[strateguy632]

frustrated at job interviews they ask do you have experience in something o say in similar and i can learn. tbey say no anyway. clearly they will hire someone else who did not do the exact thing but rejected me for that.

[Anonymous]

I am not sure if I am willing to open that can of worms right now, since I tend to mentally shove away terrible experiences in order not to disturb myself.

[Avicenna]

It's about to be New Year's. Why would people want to think about that tonight?

[OddBeMe]

Why can’t gals just be in the mood? I have to “do” something like make dinner or pick up my dirty underwears off the floor. It ain't ritz carlton sweetheart!

[_no_one_]

Professionally and personally working with dudes is way easier than working with women.

[Anonymous]

Meh, I don't really have anything that frustrates me enough to write about it.

[Nikki1989]

What frustrating experiences?

[BarryLiverstone]

When expectations are not met I feel frustrated

[boobliker]

I don't have any.