Is anyone else struggling with relationships and life these days?

[Finchie40]

It seems my life did a complete 360 , and for the past 4 years things haven’t been the greatest for me , I try to stay positive , but it’s unfortunately a lot harder to do , it seems our society has gone to complete shit , People have become very selfish and disrespectful, the job market is a complete joke , finding a decent job today is like winning the lottery, these past 4 years off my life seems to have turned to the worst , I barely feel happy anymore , I feel like I been dosed with a I don’t give a fuck pill that won’t wear off , At times I feel like what’s even the point of me still living on this Earth, like what good is out there? , things that I use to instantly smile about and laugh about , seemed to disappear all my great memories are from my past , when life seemed more peaceful and content, but nowadays it’ all seems fake and negative to me. When I first saw the video of Charlie Kirk being shot, I honestly thought it was fake and a AI video , part of me still thinks it’s fake , but who knows this society is so screwed up to the point I don’t even know what to believe anymore , does anyone else feel this way? I still try to make the best of things but most times I feel like what’s even the point?

[lightbulb27]

no we are doing really well in many ways. life taking transition for me and Im not really sure how to focus, and that's unnerving.

yes job market probably crud and relationships changed. I've seen people well over your age find love again and marry.

I highly recommend you seek our Jesus Christ and be reborn again. That's the fresh start of a new life and may good life spring from that!

There is always going back to school. Tough, but fun! So many cool jobs out there.

And I've known several guys that dated women 12 to 30yrs younger. So that be like a 30yr old for you. That will be exiting if that happens... but you gotta way up your emotional game.

[lightbulb27]

Sound advice
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/xfYBujDBTwk

[Truthatanycost]

I used to feel that way until I became a born again believer. As the journey went on, God revealed to me many tools He has given us to change anything in our life that shouldn't be there. I've also used these tools on behalf of others at times.

[Fasam]

It's a tough time right now.

But, if you chip away at it, good things will come to you.

People do appear to be less empathetic, and basically uncaring. We are all human beings though, and capable of emotional maturity.

Look for new things, good people are out there. Your good nature will be seen, by all, even when you don't realize it.

[loveyouoak]

I feel exactly the same as you do. Reading your words really captured everything I've been feeling lately, and it's like you gave voice to all the emotions I couldn't put into words myself.

[Finchie40]

I’m sorry to hear you are going through the same shit , I am constantly praying for it to get better but unfortunately it hasn’t , if things do get better it only lasts a short period of time until it turns to shit again , I haven’t felt at peace or content for the past 4 years now , the job market is a joke , relationships seem to lean more to short haul then the long haul because people have become very selfish , I blame social media for a big part of this reason , cuz I lived in a time when social media apps weren’t even a thing and people actually valued and respected each other more , instead of weighing their options and looking for the next best thing. This society has gone to hell in a hand basket and I no longer really see the positives in it. If I could go back in time , I would in a second lol

[jahaims]

Work on self improvement. Mental and physical. Not just mental health or exercise. Learn new skills. If you can afford I highly recommend finding a jiu-jitsu gym. You will accomplish all of things while becoming a part of a community. That being said I think many people recognize that cultural and societal values have gone to shit. Use that as a tool. Weak people fall prey to the pitfalls of the new cultural and societal standards so they are easier to avoid. The world can feel empty when you only run into weak people.

[Shiprex]

I've been around a bit and also feel or felt a bit like you're expressing though I think making a big decision to take back control of my life and move to another country meant sometimes there are glimmers of hope. The social media cancer that has burst a lot of people's minds I think is where a lot of the anxiety and mind fucking is coming from.

How to fix it? Make a big change, move somewhere else and get stuck into something new.

[Speaking_Frankly]

It's a mess. We have never had so much before with healthcare, sanitation, food, education, security yet there is so much division in society, especially on identity politics. Our bellies are full but our spirits are empty.

[FunkyMonkee]

Just life, in general.
I was forced into my 360!!
I could've had SO MUCH MORE going for me by now if those two fucking greedy cunts would've just left me the fuck alone!!!

[noohair]

You can feel better if you get some therapy so you can put things in perspective. I see the world as very F ‘’ed up but I am confident that we will improve. It took us years to get this way and it will be years to get out.

[robocop666]

I catch so many women in a day checking me out I lose count. SadyI don't really play the field.

[chrissykerdock]

join the club

[RyBug]

Don't do anything stupid

[Finchie40]

No I’m not , but I pray for happiness

[RyBug]

It'll all settle down. Just give it time

[seeyounexttuesday]

Nope. Still married, still employed.

[Cherylmortonn]

Yeah so many

[Zevkli__Temaslar]

En çok hangi konularda zorluk çekiyorsun

[beefcakebradybatson]

Always.