How can we heal the growing divide between men and women in dating?

[Xoirwinkan]

[Effably]

Ultimately messaging and knowledge.

If you live in places like the US or other oppressive to women areas of the world the answer is a little different. The main thing needed there is to stop political efforts to create a gender divide.

It has to be remembered that every dictator does this. Creating division and ranking is key. Women losing rights and bearing insults is basically the authoritarian playbook 101.

It is no surprise that Freedom and Democracy ratings directly correlates to Women's Rights.

Again here. Knowledge. Knowing that. Seeing it for what it is. Not believing in an easy scapegoat.

As for the developed world it is a tad harder but the solution is ultimately knowledge and messaging. A racist getting some coloured friends quickly turns not-racist. Men and women hating men and women quickly stop doing that after getting a few friends of the other gender who they can get along with. Just have to avoid falling for each other or we get that whole rejection possibility.

Maybe a platonic buddy system? You'd be shocked what a text a day will do to people.

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

I think a nice start would be to stop taking advice from single women that get pumped'n'dumped on the regular about relationships... That advice is for the ladies mainly. They should know it's a load of trash, because they are women themselves.

But I'd take a step back and... just look. The reasons these single people are perpetually single, becomes pretty obvious pretty fast. So I'd say in most cases, it's already too broken to fix. I'm to the point where I'd question if it's even worth fixing.

[jshm2]

There is no "divide".

People need to understand that so called "dating apps" are a business, not dating.

[Anonymous]

The divide really only exists online but a loud minority. Just stay off the internet and this doesn't come up in the real world.

[Xoirwinkan]

That isn't true though. There has been a huge divergence in political opinions between men and women and it's hard to see eye to eye with such widely different views.

[Anonymous]

I'm not divided. I know what i want, and i know what i'll accept. If she's outside of that why would i care what she does as long as she stays away.🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

I think it’s a lost cause.

[Iron_Man]

Let’s hope so

[NathanDavis]

never had one

[OldGreyMare]

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