Not sure why it would cause a storm. You are 23, they had to have seen this coming. Do they not know that you have ever had a boyfriend or something? They likely had a clue as to what has been going on by now.
If it is going to cause a problem, make sure that they can't do anything to stop you from moving. If they have access to your money, make sure that they don't. If you think they will refuse to let you take your stuff. Pack up some crucial stuff and sneak it to your boyfriend for safe keeping.
I wasn't sure how to tell my parents I was moving out either. I assumed they would be mad for some reason, but they were surprisingly supportive. Is either of your parents more reasonable than the other? Maybe you could talk to that one.
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i tried it. I'm white my girlfriend is asian. we been together one year. decided to move out. had fights with her family every day. I mean it. result: she is not my girlfriend anymore. but Asian families are tough to get through so good luck to you. I hope it doesn't end up like mine.
I understand as I'm Hispanic myself. My family would probably act the same way except I really wouldn't care since its my life. You're 23 now, your parents have lived their life and you should yours. I'm sure you're trying to not let all hell break lose in your family. But lets be honest either way your parents aren't gonna agree and a huge storm is gonna emerge. So forget about trying to break it to them easy its not gonna happen because either way they will make a big deal about it and maybe try to convince you to stay. So you might as well move out now before you change your mind. I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck. :)
I know I'm no one to judge or anything but you've only been with the guy 7 months and you already want to move in with him ? honestly I'm Hispanic myself and I know what its like to have parents like that . but overall I wish you the best (:
How about Hey Mom, Hey Pops.. I'm moving out with my white boyfriend of 7 months soon? I mean you are 23.. Step your cookies up and just do the damn thing.
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Can you just tell them you are moving in with a room mate instead? maybe spare them the details for a bit. Also, what is the hurry to move out? Are your parents the type who want this guy to marry you or something?
Gotta say you should tell them right before you are about to leave or a day before so they don't have much time to get in your face.
HI, I'm in the same situation as you, my parents are turkish and very strict and I'm planning on moving out this week with my bf of 8 months. Let me know how it went as I need some advise too xx
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