Is my Teacher At School a Pervert?

[Anonymous]

I have a teacher at school who is 37 years old and isn't married and doesn't have any kids,He is my special resources teacher who helps me with things in school I need help with and not just me he helps other kids as well...and so he looks at me a lot in the classrooms and in the hallways sometimes and when ever I see him he Always Has his hands in his pockets and looks at me sometimes I didn't know if that meant he's touching himself or what? cause he always has his hands in his pockets even when he is walking his hands are there in his pockets and so he sometimes smiles at me,not always though occasionally and looks at me a lot and he also knows that I am shy too, so once I was in the other classroom than he was with a different teacher and all and he was right next door standing in the back of his classroom and he was walking back and forth just looking over towards me in the classroom that I was in for know reason too and I didn't know why he did that,that was like 7 months ago or so when he did that though,and also once when I was standing there alone at recess he was on duty and he walked by me and asked "how you doing" and I said good then when he walked by me again I looked at him and he was smiling a little at me. One time I remember in the classroom there was this girl who walked up to him and asked "can I use the restroom"? and as soon as she said that he put his hands in his pockets and I think was maybe jingling his keys a little in there..I seriously don't know what that all means...Can someone please help me out? Is he a pervert or what? PLEASE HELP

[AJtogo]

I think you're reading too much into this behaviour. For example, maybe you noticing him all the time could be construed as being a little creepy on your part.

Having his hands in his pockets may mean nothing and it's only your thoughts that are making this behaviour perverted. He hasn't done or said anything out of line with you but if you're feeling a little creeped out, then just avoid him.

[Anonymous]

hands in the pockets doesn't equal masturbation. And he's only about 10 years or so older than you, and you are both adults.

Look up the definition of pervert sometime, please. This is a case of one adult having a normal sexual interest in another adult.

Now, ethically, that's another story, since he is your teacher.

[Ihaveproblemstoo]

Ok so I have a teacher kind of like this Jess around the same age as what you said. The only difference is that I’m 13 and he comes off very strange to me and my sister who is 14. She has noticed the same thing and told me. Example: her friend got dress coded and during history class my sis asked to grab some clothes from the locker room for her friend. He said yes but he had to go with her is what he said. So they walked to the girls locker room and he asked Igbo he could go INSIDE THE GIRLS LOCKER ROOM! With her! She said no and she grabbed the clothes cloand came back. So do u guys think he might be a pervert?

[Bubbles]

Really. all my teacher did this too hands in the pockets even the females, does that mean there were hitting on me or being prev know it doesn't. I think all teacher's do this. If he was makeing sexually stuff to you with his face or lips then I would wonder.

[thumbelinasplace01]

So he has his hands in his pockets a lot? Maybe he just likes to have his hands in his pockets. Doesn't mean he is touching himself. From what I can gather from what you are telling me it sounds like you are putting to much into this.

[yournamehere]

Yeah I think your taking it out of proportion a little. You are both adults so I don't see how he can be a pervert.